Bandi yakuda, chingwe choyera ... Amalowa m'malo mwa moyo wa munthu aliyense. Tsiku lililonse zinthu zosiyanasiyana zimatichitikira. Ena timawaona kuti chabwino, ndi ena - osati kwambiri. "Moyo ngati Zebile," - nthawi zambiri muyenera kumva kwa ife.
Nthawi inayake, tili ndi chilichonse mwangwiro komanso zabwino zonse ndipo timapita molunjika m'manja, koma zimafika pamtunda pomwe chilichonse chimatembenuka kumiyendo. Chilichonse chimagwera m'manja, palibe chomwe chimachitika, kutaya mtima kwathunthu, ndipo palibe chomwe chilibe chisangalalo ... Koma mwadzidzidzi pali utoto wa matani opepuka. Ndipo kotero moyo wonse ...
Nthawi yopeza mkati mwa ma strop yoyera imatcha chisangalalo. Koma nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti tikudziwa kuti nthawi zabwino moyenera, sindikuthokoza aliyense chifukwa cha iwo ndikuzindikira zonse monga ziliri, koma zolephera zathu nthawi zonse timakhala okonda kwambiri. Mu ramassi yaumwini, tinkaimba mlandu aliyense: bwenzi, nyengo yoyipa, wamkulu kapena mkazi wokalamba wokusuta pafupi ndi khomo loyandikana nalo. Zotsatira zake, tiribe chilichonse kupatula zomwe zimanamizira, zomwe zakhumudwitsidwa ndikupanga mapulani obwezera. Koma osati nyengo, zoona ... :)
Nanga bwanji nthawi yolumikizana ndi kukhutitsidwa kwa moyo yomwe imaonekera m'moyo wathu, ndiye - kukwiya ndi kukhumudwa? Chilichonse ndichosavuta. Zimapezeka kuti kuchita bwino komanso kupambana kumatsimikiziridwa ndi ubale wathu padziko lapansi.
Anthu olakwirawo nkovuta kusintha, ndikusintha nthawi, bweretsani zonse kumbuyo - ndipo ndizosatheka konse. Chokhacho chomwe tingathe - kusintha masiku ano, zomwe zili pano ndipo pano, malingaliro athu komanso malingaliro athu. Kupatula apo, mwayi ndi kulephera - malingalirowo ndi ogwirizana kwambiri. Izi ndi zomverera zathu zokha, kwathunthu palokha pa malingaliro a ena. Chifukwa chake, mikwingwirima yoyera ndi yakuda imamverera kuti ndife tokha!
Ichi ndiye chinsinsi cha momwe mungakonze chilichonse, momwe mungasinthire mikwingwirima yakuda yoyera! M'malo mwake, zonse ndizophweka kwambiri - muyenera kungosintha malingaliro. Kupatula apo, akuti munthu wabwino si amene aliyense ali ndi aliyense amene ali bwino, koma amene amawona chilichonse kuchokera ku mbali yabwino. Ndipo ngati timufunsa munthu ngati zochitika zake - adzayankha kuti zonse zili bwino! Ndipo tidzamukhulupirira. Ndipo ena onse adzamkhulupirira.
Chifukwa chake tonse tiyenera kumva moyo wathu. Kupatula apo, ali ndi mmodzi, ndipo ngati titayipitsa chisoni, kukwiyira, ndiye kuti amalima. Titha kupanga chisankho: Onaninso mikwingwirima yakuda, ngati yolimba, kapena kuwona kuti ali oyera!
Ndipo ngati china chake chakuchitikirani, kale kale. Ndipo lero pali chisankho - yambani tsiku lokhala ndi chingwe choyera kapena kupitiriza mdima. Ndipo ndikupanga kusankha mokomera zoyera, mudzifooke nokha kuti mukhale ndi malingaliro abwino.
Mwa njira, akatswiri amisala amakhulupirira kuti pali mitundu itatu ya anthu, mosiyana ndi zinthu zomwe zimachitika pamoyo.
Loyamba la anthu'lo likulankhula kwambiri pa moyo womwe ngakhale mphamvu zoyipa zimachokera.
Mtundu wina ndi anthu oyandama mkati. Awa ndi omwe amatchedwa "Middling". Amayesa kusapanga zisankho, nthawi zambiri amakana kusankha ndi kusangalala ndi moyo womwe umawapatsa. Lero ndi Mzere Woyera, mawa ndizakuda, palibe chomwe chimadalira anthu awa. Ngati apeza zochepa, ndiye kuti Bwana, makolo, momwe zinthu zilili zikuimbasulira izi ... m'mbiri, zimamasula udindo wonse pa moyo wawo.
Ndipo pamapeto pake, mtundu wachitatu wa anthu. Awa ndi omwe ali ndi udindo pa moyo wawo komanso zochitika zonse zomwe zimachitika. Palibe amene sanatsutse munthu wotere. Amakonzedwa moyenerera, amakhulupirira kuti akuchita bwino.
Ngati mukufuna kuyang'ana bwino, mutha kukumana ndi msewu womwe mukumwetulira ndikukhuta ndi mayi wachikulireyo, yemwe, ngakhale atavala chilichonse, sangalakwitse chilichonse ndikuthandizirabe kuthandiza ana ake ndi zidzukulu zake.
Muli ndi zabwino komanso zolimba mtima mukamakhala ndi moyo komanso zochitika zomwe zimachitika mozungulira inu, mphatso zosangalatsa kwambiri moyo wanu umaperekedwa kwa inu.
Kukhulupirira nyenyezi kale kumawonetsa kuti njira zonse m'chilengedwechi zimagonjetsedwa ndi nyengo: Zimachitika nyengo yozizira, usiku, kubadwa - kufa - kufa. Nthawi zoyipa komanso zabwino za moyo, mikwingwirima yakuda ndi yoyera ilinso mozungulira: za zoyera ziyenera kukhala zakuda komanso zosemphana ndi zinthu zoipa.
Njira yayikulu yogwiritsira ntchito kumvetsetsa chisangalalo ndi moyo wonse kudzakhala kusintha kwa malingaliro okhudzana ndi zochitika zoyipa. Pali mawu abwino akuti: "Moyo ndi sukulu, komanso zochitika m'moyo zomwe zikuphunzitsidwa. Sazindikira chochitika chilichonse ngati mayeso omwe mukufuna kudutsa. Chochitika chilichonse chomwe chidzabwera kwa ife ndi phunziro, chochitika choyipa - cholembera zomwe china chake chalakwika. "
Ah, inde ... ndipo dzipangeni chizolowezi chothokoza pazinthu zonse zomwe zimachitika nanu - tsiku labwino, abwenzi, amuna, ntchito, ndi zina. mbali ndi kusagwa.
Ndipo ngati tsopano muli m'gulu lakuda - musataye mtima, chifukwa zidzafalikira. Ndipo tidzakupatsirani maupangiri ena kuti muthandizire kusangalatsa:
* Mukufuna mphamvu zambiri tsopano kuposa masiku onse. Chifukwa chake, ngati thupi lanu likufunika chifukwa chosowa kuti mupumule munthawi yachilendo kwa inu kapena ola limodzi kapena lina mu bafa lofunda - musampatse!
* Ntchito iliyonse ingakuthandizeni kukhazikika, ndipo tanthauzo lake lidzaperekedwa pazomwe zikuchitika. Sankhani makalasi a nthawi yaulere yomwe mumachepetsa ndikuwonetsa. Zikhala zothandiza komanso zolimbitsa thupi. Maphunziro kapena makalasi ovina akuwongolera bwino "mahomoni a chisangalalo" ndi thandizo loyeretsa ubongo ndi malingaliro olakwika.
* Pa gawo la gulu lakuda, sikofunikira kuti mudziwe kuti mtima wonse motsatira. Yesani kufalitsa zomwe zikuwoneka kuti zikunyalanyaza zinthu zopanda chilungamo. " Ngati muphunzira kuletsa malingaliro osalimbikitsa, komanso bwino - kuti muwatanthauzire kukhala otsimikiza, ndiye kuti mwayi woti alowe mu mzere wakuda ungakhale wocheperako.
Ndipo kumbukirani kuti moyo wonse womwewo suli ribra ya mikwingwirima yakuda ndi yoyera, koma chessboard. Ndipo zonse zimatengera kusuntha kwanu!