First you say that the girlfriend is beautiful in the dress that she does not go at all. Then do not tell her husband that they got a premium, dreaming to spend it on a new bag. Next, begin to behave in the society of new acquaintances, embellish the facts of your biography and so on ... In all cases, deception is the desire to be good in the eyes of the interlocutor. True, this harmful habit of a hundred percent of cases brings to bad consequences - we offer to get rid of it with the help of our advice.
Where roots grow from
All problems straight from childhood. If you needed to learn from the five, play sports and be an example of perfect behavior to earn love and praise parents, in adulthood you continue to behave according to the usual model. That's just forces and time not always enough to achieve an imposed ideal - you have to deceive, just not to make an idea of yourself in the eyes of others. Usually, child problems are disassembled on sessions with a psychologist - self-treatment often turns out to be useless, because the reservoir of children's offense lies too deep in our subconscious.
Stay alone with you
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Actress of the Small Theater
Another problem occurs when you stop listening to yourself and begin to think only rationally. For example, you want to stay at home after a difficult day, and instead we are going to a party to friends and depict interest in empty conversations. Or cook dinner to your beloved and smile at all 32 teeth when you actually have a bad mood and headache. The best medicine from this state is to learn from scratch only yourself. Stay alone at least for a day, but better for the weekend. Complete self-control and make what you want. Breakfast pancakes with condensed milk instead of proper oatmeal, break on shopping and take a trip to the massage, which have long been dreamed of. You are not required to meet the expectations of others, but are obliged to be in the world with their inner "I".
Think from nasty
Sit down and sing in the notebook all the outcomes of the fact that you will begin to tell the truth to people. Doesn't a man leave you if you finally confess that you can't stand it or want to order a clining instead of self-cleaning? Or a girlfriend will cease to communicate when you confess that you can't pay so much time to listen to all the details of its new novels? If the answer is positive, then these people love you only for convenience - the ability to use as a housewife or a personal psychologist.
Do not tait the truth - it can sober up at the right moment
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Arrange with me
No one can control you from the outside. Only by consent you can stop lying - do it for peace of mind. True is often uncomfortable, but it is necessary at least because it can cut a person at the right moment and show him an objective picture of the world. It is a real friend, a qualified worker and a loving parquer, a person can get together with the forces and say what he really thinks, and not to delay the complex moment of conversation by compliments and words of support.