Kuze kube sezinyangeni ezimbalwa manje, izwe libheka ubudlelwano obunzima phakathi kothando lokucabanga nendodakazi yakhe. Muva nje, uTatiana wabuyela kumama eMoscow. Ngokusho komculi, sebevele bethuthumela okuthile okufisayo. Vele, ngemuva kokuhlangana kabusha okusheshayo okunjalo, abaningi babe nombuzo wokuthi bangakuthola kanjani ukungqubuzana, okwakubonakala kungapheli. Kwavela ukuthi bekungenjalo ngaphandle kosizo lochwepheshe. Ukhulume nge-Quantum Psychologist Psychologist Inna Tlide Tliashinova, owathi manje kwenzeka e-USPENSkaya nokuthi okusanhlamvu kwakuyinkinga yobudlelwano phakathi kukamama nendodakazi. Ngokuka-Inna, wasebenzisa inqubo engeyona eyejwayelekile ekusebenzeni nezinkanyezi eziyinkimbinkimbi.
"Isazi sezengqondo se-quantum sibandakanyeka eqinisweni lokuthi kungadala iqiniso elidingekayo kumuntu," kusho u-Inna. - Isibonelo, uma ukudangala kubantu, khona-ke lokhu kuntuleka kwama-hormone athile. Futhi yini engenziwa? Faka esikhundleni, nikeza ithebhulethi. Isazi sezengqondo se-quantum singabushelela ubuqili ukuze ama-hormone akhiqizwe ngokwemvelo. Futhi lokhu akuyona into okufanele siyikholelwe entweni ethile, sibhala isifiso emaqabungeni. Lokhu akukona ngakho. Ubuchopho busebenza njengemoto yendawo yonke. Isibonelo, uma ngokomlando umkhulu nogogo babengenakuba nemali eningi, sizokwenza imizamo eminingi, kepha ungaze uphumelele. Futhi kaningi asiqondi ukuthi kungani singakutholi esikufunayo.
— Singasho ukuthi usiza ekuhlanganeni noma ngubani nendodakazi yakhe?
- Kwakuwumsebenzi ohlanganyelwe, ngoba lapho umuntu uqobo engafuni, akunakwenzeka ukukwenza. Ngakho-ke kuhlala kungumsebenzi weqembu. Manje sesithuthukisa isu lobuhlobo ukuze siqhubeke nokusebenza. Kimi, kimi, kimi, zingane ezine, akusona nje umbuso wokubuyisa ingane, kodwa futhi nokuzivumelanisa nezimo nokunye.
—Kwakuyini umnyombo wenkinga yobudlelwano phakathi komculi nendodakazi yakhe?
- Ngicabanga ukuthi ayikho indodakazi eyodwa engenakuphikisana nonina. Futhi kaningi asiqondi ukuthi kungani abazali bethu abasithanda kakhulu, basilimaze. Iqiniso ngukuthi kukhona okuthiwa ama-generic alona abhubhisayo, lapho le nsango idluliselwa kwezizukulwane ngezizukulwane njenge-snowball. Futhi umama akakwazi ukuyeka. Uma singasebenza nesikhathi esedlule, ungavumele njalo lengxabano. Kumane nje kungqubuzana - kuhlala kunyathelisa ingxenye yangaphakathi. Lokho wukuthi, ngiyafuna, owayezongikhonza kulolu daba. Isibonelo, anginaso isimo esihle kakhulu, uhlobo oluthile lokungezwani, futhi yilowo obhekene nengxabano. Ngakolunye uhlangothi: Lapho inhliziyo yami ivutha, isimo sihlala sikhula kahle. Umsebenzi wethu ukumane usebenzele: Kungani unalo ngxabano? Futhi yini inkinga ngawe? Imbangela ethile. Musa ukulalela nje, kepha thola inkinga yezimpande kusukela ebuntwaneni. Uma sibheka inkinga yothando zalmanovna, unesimo esinzima. Ngamafuphi, waphucwa osondelene kanjena nonina ngenxa yemicimbi yomlando. Futhi ngakho-ke lokhu kwenzeka ukuthi uma singazizwa uthando lwabazali bethu, sikufuna lolu thando oluvela ngaphandle futhi lube nobuhlungu. Iqiniso.
—Futhi manje uLyubov uspenskaya ungumuntu ojabulayo?
- Bheka i-Instagram yakhe ezinyangeni ezintathu ezedlule futhi manje, futhi uzobona umehluko wekhadinali.
- Kepha okuthile akwanele kuye ukuze ajabule ngokuphelele?
"Ngeke ngithi ulahlekelwe okuthile, wanele." Unenkathi enjalo empilweni epholile, ezolile, lapho ungazijabulisa wena, ubuhlakani, indodakazi yami iseduze. Tanya lapha, esikuthokozela kakhulu. Yini enye engafunwa?
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"Ngesikhathi ngiye kuye okokuqala, ngangesabisa, amadolo ami ayethuthumela." Kulesi simo, akunakwenzeka ukwenza ukuhlaziywa. Kepha ngokoqobo ngemizuzu emihlanu yazibeka kuye - ngomusa kakhulu! Kwathi okokuqala ngqa ukusebenza amahora ayisikhombisa. Futhi okwesibili ngokufanayo, kuze kube sebusuku kakhulu. Kwakunzima, kepha umphumela wokuqala wenzeka imizuzu eyi-10 ngemuva kokuphawula. Kwathi kukhona wonke umuntu wayecabanga ukuthi lokhu kwenzeka. Kepha iqiniso ukuthi akukhona nje ukubambana ngengozi: Noma yisiphi isimo sempilo sidale amandla mathupha, akhiqizwa enkampanini ye-quantum. Sonke singama-athomu. Futhi konke lokho okuncane okuyizinhlayiya eziphansi, ziziphatha ngendlela ehlukile kunezwe langaphandle, imithetho kunabanye. Futhi basebenza ngendlela yabo.
- Yebo, abaningi banentshisekelo kulo mbuzo, kudingekile yini ukushada than sena lapho kwenzeka?
- Kuya ngokuthi yiphi injongo. Kunabantu abaningi abangajabule emshadweni. Yize kunjalo, isidingo siyisidingo, ubumbano ngokomoya. Uma efuna ukushada, ngizomsiza kalula kulokhu. Okusho ukuthi, uma ethi ufuna ukushada - lezi zingu-paring amabili noma ezintathu, futhi uzoshada.
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- Lokhu kuyinkohliso ejulile. Abesifazane abaningi manje sebefikile, bahlukana nomyeni wakhe. Ngani? Ngoba bafuna okuthile kukho. Akunasidingo sokucinga noma yini kunoma yini, lalela inhliziyo yakho, umphefumulo wakho bese uzama ukubenza banqotshwe. Ngoba imvamisa ingqondo yethu iwina. Udinga ukukwazi ukuguqula kabusha. Nginombono endaweni ethile ngaphakathi, ukuze ngingabuyi nje uTanya, nginombono othile ongasenzela wona, usize futhi wenze umnikelo wakho omncane. Ngoba mina uqobo nginokuxilongwa kokuzala. Futhi-ke, lapho ubona intombazane encane njengoTanya, okudingeka ushade, ubelethe izingane, ngifuna ukusiza. Sisenezinhlelo kuphela zokwenza i-passing noTanya. Amadoda aseRussia Federation, bambalele: futhi siya kini!
ILyubov uspenskaya uqobo yavuma ukuthi kujabulise kakhulu ukuthi indodakazi yakhe ibuyile: "Ngingumama ojabule kunabo bonke emhlabeni ngokuthi indodakazi yami inami. Ngijabule ukuthi ngenzeke ukuthi ngiphile, ngijabulele, ngijabule, sebenza ... Yinike isikhathi esincane: Izinwele zizokhula, futhi uzobona iNdlovukazi yami ye-Tanya ... manje inqubo. " Imininingwane - kuvidiyo.
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