Namuhla baya ezinsukwini eziyi-16 zenyanga, futhi kusasa, ngo-December 12, ungabuka inyanga ephelele. Inyanga egcwele esibonakaliso samawele yisikhathi esihle ukuze aqhamuke namaphupho onyaka olandelayo - yile nkathi ezovumela ukuthi izinkanyezi zizosebenzisa ukuthi zonke izifiso zakho zizoshesha kunokuba zidinga ngokushesha kunokuba zicabanga. Tshela ukuthi ubhale kanjani uhlu lwezifiso.
Amandla akhanyayo
Izazi zezinkanyezi zikholelwa ukuthi kuyadingeka ukuphupha kuphela esimweni esihle, uma kungenjalo amandla amabi azocindezela zonke izinhloso ezikhanyayo. Ukuze ususe ngokushesha imicabango ebonakalayo, ubhale esiqeshini seqabunga bese usishisa nge-ashtray noma komunye umuntu ongavuleki. Bheka umlilo bese ukhulula ama-alamu - khumbula ukuthi azikho izinkinga ezingeke zixazululwe ngesifiso sakho nomzamo wakho.
Isikhathi sokufingqa unyaka
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Khetha incwajana enhle
Thenga incwadi ekhethekile yokugcwalisa izifiso ezingenangqondo - yile nto efanayo incwadi yokubhalela, kuphela ngentengo ye-10-20 ephakeme. Bhala kangcono amaphupho akho kudayari yakho oyithandayo noma incwajana oyisebenzisayo ukudweba. Okokuqala, cabanga ngokuthi ukwethula kanjani unyaka olandelayo: Ukuthola uthando lwakho futhi uchithe isikhathi esiningi ngangokunokwenzeka, uhambe ngedwa futhi uzimele kuze kube yilapho umjuluko wesikhombisa uyothola imali eningi.
Amagama Afanele
Esikhundleni salokho, "Ngifuna imali eningi", bhala phansi "Thola ama-ruble ayizinkulungwane ezingama-200 ohambweni oluya eParis ngo-2020." Uma unembe kakhudlwana amaphupho, kube lula baphenduka abe yimigomo. Ungesabi ukucabanga ngesibindi - uvula umhlaba wonke, kufanelekile ukuyiqonda kuphela. Azikho izimo ze-insoluble - impendulo ihlala ilele ngaphakathi kuwe. Noma ngabe amaphupho akho alungile, ngokwesibonelo, ukuze adlale kwifilimu yaseHollywood, ayazi: angenziwa. Nawe, ukuphikelela kanye nokuhlelwa okunekhono kwezinyathelo zokufeza inhloso kuyadingeka. Lapho nje uqala ukuhamba ngendlela efanele, amakhadi ngokwawo ayadingeka ngendlela efanele - uzobona.
Ungesabi ukuphupha ngesibindi
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Yabelana noma ungahlanganyeli
Abanye bakhetha ukuthola umphumela kuqala, bese sisitshela ukuthi sisondele kuye, abanye bahlanganyela injabulo yephupho kuphela. Sikunikeza ukuthi uhlale ku-Golden Middle: ungasho ngezinhlelo zakho uma wenza izinyathelo eziya ephusheni, futhi ungazenzi ingxoxo engenalutho. Kungenzeka impela ukuthi indawo okuyo okuzosiza ngokushesha ukuvimbela amaphupho abe ngokoqobo - awusoze wazi ukuthi ungalindela kanjani usizo.
Ukulawula umphumela
Ngemuva kokubhala amaphupho ephepheni, fihla incwajana kude namehlo enyama - ngakho-ke ngeke ube novalo ngoba izinhloso zazingagcwalisiwe ngenyanga yokuqala yonyaka, kepha uzohlala uzigcina ekhanda lakho. Ezinyangeni eziyisithupha kamuva, ungabheka encwadini yokubhalela futhi ubone ukuthi iyiphi ingxenye yezinhlelo zakho aguquka, nokuthi yini enye okufanele isebenze njengengxenye esele yonyaka.
Futhi mangaki imigomo oyenzile unyaka? Emsebenzini, osomabhizinisi baluleka ngokubhala izinhloso eziyikhulu, ngubani omkhulu?