Impela wena noma othile ovela kubangani bakho okungenani kanye empilweni yakho wahlangabezana nezingxoxo ngawe, kodwa ngaphandle kokubamba iqhaza kwakho. Njengomthetho, inhlebo zizalwa futhi zasatshalaliswa eqenjini elisebenzayo, kepha kuphela emacaleni angavamile aphatha ukulimala kwenqubo yomsebenzi. Uma kunomuzwa wokungezwani, okuthuthuka ukungakwazi ukufeza imisebenzi yalo ngokuphelele, kufanele kuthathwe izinyathelo. Sinqume ukuthola ukuthi inhlebo lapho kuthathwa kuphi nokuthi yini okufanele uyenze ukuyeka izingxoxo ezingadingekile.
Inhlebo ivelaphi?
Kukholakala ukuthi inhlebo "bukhoma" kuphela ezinkampanini zabesifazane kungamangaza iqiniso lokuthi iqembu labesilisa alisho lutho engxoxweni yozakwabo. Omunye uzwa ingxoxo, uphinde uphinde abuyisele omunye uzakwabo, kunjalo, le ndaba iba ngamaqiniso amasha, hhayi okwangempela, ngakho-ke kuchungechunge. Vumelana lapho lezi zindaba zihlangana nawe futhi ikakhulukazi azihambelani neze zingokoqobo, ziyenyanya kakhulu.
Amadoda nawo athanda ukuxoxa ngomunye nomunye
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Ungayiyeka Kanjani Izingxoxo Eziningi?
I-Rugan nenhlamba hhayi kuphela ukuthi ngeke nje uyixazulule inkinga, kepha futhi ikungeze i-ODIT eKarma - Uzonqunyelwa ama-Epithets angeziwe. Uma uyazi ukuthi osebenza naye ulinde imininingwane engaxoxwa nabo bonke abanye ozakwabo, masibe ngolwazi oluningi ngawe futhi ngokujwayelekile, zama ukungangeni kunoma yimiphi imininingwane.
Khuluma ngokungananazi umgqugquzeli
Futhi futhi - akukho ukuthukwa. Thatha ingxoxo ethameni elizolile, noma ngabe ufuna ngempela ukuveza konke okuqongelelwe. Buza ukuthi kungani umuntu esabalalisa imininingwane engahambelani neqiniso. Omunye uyavuma ngokushesha, ukuthi liyini imbangela yenzondo, abanye bayaqhubeka nokuma bodwa uma ubamba inketho yesibili, naye ungitshele ngokuthula ukuthi nakanjani uzokuhlola imininingwane yeqiniso.
Thola abantu abanomqondo ofanayo
Uma othile eqenjini elungiselelwe ngawe, lokhu akusho ukuthi konke kuyasekelwa. Hlela ubudlelwano nabanye ozakwabo, okungenzeka, eqenjini kuzoba nabantu okungenani abambalwa abaseduze nawe emoyeni, ngakho-ke kungani ungahlanganisi nokuhleba futhi ndawonye ukukhombisa ukuhlaselwa?
Gxila emsebenzini
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Buyela emsebenzini
Naphezu kwezikhala, udinga ukuqhubeka nokufeza imisebenzi yakho. Ama-Gossips amaningi avele afune lokho ozokulingisa futhi ngeke ukwazi ukusebenza ngenkuthalo yangaphambili. Ungalethi injabulo enjalo ngokungabi nabungane.
Beka abaphathi
Uma inhlebo ingeyona inhlose kangako, futhi uqaphele ukuthi izingxoxo ezingadingekile zithinta ukusebenza kahle kwakho, musa ukudonsa futhi wazise ukuphathwa. Qiniseka, ukuxoxa ngokungashongo nomqondisi kuzonikeza umphumela - inhlebo kuzodingeka ukuthi ichazwe.