Omunye umbukiso kaBernard wabhala: "Intsha iyinto enhle. Lokho okuyicala okukumchithele izingane! " Ngempela, ezweni lanamuhla inani labantu benqaba ukuba nezingane likhula ngokungafanele. Othile umemezela ngesimo sawo kulo magazini, azifonela ngokukhululekile esinganeni, futhi othile wenza, uma nje elandela ukukhetha kwakhe.
Siyini isizathu? Kungani abantu abanempilo abakwazi ukuzala izingane benqaba ukuba nezingane? Umcwaningi waseCanada J. Viverses ubiza izizathu ezimbili zale nto. Owokuqala ukunyanya izingane ezincane nakho konke okuxhumene nabo: inqubo yokukhulelwa, ukuzalwa kwengane, ukuncelisa ibele. Bambalwa abantu abanjalo, kepha basekhona. Okwesibili akufuni ukuguqula indlela yakho yokuphila yezingane. Lokho wukuthi, abantu bajwayele kakhulu ukuthi banesikhathi esiningi samahhala, amathuba abangafuni ukwenqaba. Kuyamangaza ukuthi ngisho nangomama basendlini batholakala kubantu abanjalo: bahlolisisa kahle ikhaya labo, bathenge ifenisha enhle namaphephadonga abizayo futhi abafuni konke ukuze bonke basebenzise izingane zonke.
Kunokunye ukuthuthukiswa kwemicimbi. Abantu 'bangathanda' bafuna izingane, okungukuthi, ukushintsha ikhambi ngaso sonke isikhathi: Ngifuna izingane, angifuni, khona-ke ngifuna futhi, nakancane futhi lapho ngivela khona lapho akafuni "ukungafuni." Ngakho-ke bakhipha impilo yabo yonke kuze kufike sekwedlule isikhathi. Enye inketho ukuhlehliswa njalo kwalesi sikhathi "ngokuhamba kwesikhathi." Abantu balinde imali eyanele yokuthola, bazokwakha umsebenzi noma bathuthele kwelinye izwe. Le ndaba ingagcina injalo njengaleyo eyedlule.
Kwesinye isikhathi iminyaka eya kumadoda nabesifazane nabesifazane baqala ukuzisola ngokungabikhona kwezingane. Kepha, ngokungafani ngokwanele, abanye bazisola ngakolunye uhlangothi, njengoba bengakutholi injabulo nokwaneliseka ngokuba ngumzali wabo. Kwesinye isikhathi abantu bazala izingane ngaphansi kwengcindezi evela ezinkambisweni zenhlalo: "Wonke umuntu unayo, kusho ukuthi kufanele ngibe" noma "abazali bafundiswe kanjalo" nakho konke okukulo moya. Eshawini, ngethemba lokuthi, njengeningi, lizoletha injabulo. Futhi isifiso sokudla asihlali sifika ngesikhathi sokudla ...
Uma sikhuluma ngomehluko phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane, lapho-ke iningi lengane liba ngabesifazane abaphumelelayo abanemfundo enhle kanye nezinga eliphakeme lemali engenayo kanye neliphumelele.
Kuyiqiniso, ukuzalwa kwengane kususa ngowesifazane izinsizakusebenza eziningi kakhulu - amabutho, isikhathi, impilo - kunakwabesilisa. Kepha abesifazane futhi baningi kakhulu kuyo. Inzuzo ebaluleke kakhulu isondelana nengane.
Namuhla, ngenhlanhla, sinenkululeko yokuzikhethela futhi singakwazi ukuhlela izinto eziza kuqala njengoba nje sithanda ukusebenzisa isikhathi sethu kulokho esikusondelayo. ;)