Imvamisa siwela ezimweni ezingathandeki lapho uzakwabo noma ojwayelene naye uzibonakalisa njengendoda emnene, ngikukhumbule phambili noma unikele ngosizo lwakho, futhi, vele, futhi, sebevele bahlangane nomshado ojabulisayo. Isimo sithandwa impela. Sizokutshela ukuthi yiziphi izibonakaliso ezinesifiso sangempela somuntu kusuka ekukhulisweni okuhle.
Intshisekelo yakhe ikuthinta kanjani indlela yokuziphatha?
Ilahla / Izikhali
Indoda enesizotha ngendlela engajwayelekile ichuma ngokushesha nje lapho ibona isihloko sokudumiswa kwakhe phezulu: Usho okuningi futhi ngazo zonke izindlela ezazama ukuheha ukunakwa. Ngasikhathi sinye, imvamisa indoda ekhululiwe ingazizwa ingavikelekile phambi kowesifazane owuthandayo. Qaphela izinguquko esimweni sakhe.
Uzama ukukunakekela
Uma indoda iqhuma futhi iqhuba ukukhulisa isikhwama sesandla uma wehlise ngephutha etafuleni noma phambili, lapho udinga ukukusiza ukubeka ijazi, ungangabazi ukuthinta njalo, kepha uma nje kushukunyiswa nyathisa njalo.
Kuzonciphisa ibanga phakathi kwakho kancane kancane
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Funda umbono wakho
Impela unokubajwayele okufanayo. Cela umuntu omethembayo, alandelele indlela yokuziphatha komlingani ongaba khona - uma lapho kungabikho khona umuntu ongabonisi intshisekelo kulokho okwenzekayo, kepha ukubukeka kwakho kuphefumulelwe ngendlela emangalisayo, kepha akungabazeki ngokungabaza ngentshiseko yakhe yothando.
Uzama ukusungula oxhumana naye onobuqili
Futhi, umkhandlu usebenza kuphela uma ujwayelene nale ndoda. Umuntu ongenandaba akanakukwazi ukungafuni ukusondela kuwe, futhi uzokwenza konke okusemandleni alokhu: ukuqala ngokuthinta okufushane futhi kancane kancane ukufeza indawo yakho.