Akukho lutho olubi kakhulu, lapho luphambi kosuku lwezothando nomlingani wakho, izwi langaphakathi liqala umoya: "Uyesabeka ngaphandle kwezingubo," "Uyosho ukuthi ubona amamaki amasha?", "AKEKHO Yanelisa njengoba ethanda "futhi njll. Amantombazane abonisana kakhulu angathatha usuku emfundweni wezinzwa, yize empeleni isikhathi sokukhathazeka futhi kwakungekho. Ungayisusa Kanjani Injabulo Enamandla Ngaphambi Kobulili, Noma ngabe uyazi ngobunzima bakho obuncane? Sizotshela.
Bhala phansi konke okubi
Musa ukushiya imicabango ekhanda lakho: Thatha ishidi elingenalutho ubhale konke okukhathazayo futhi ucasukile. Ungabhala noma yini. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kulokhu kuvivinya umzimba ngokwengqondo ukubhala njengokungathi ubhala ngenye intombazane, okungukuthi, ngobuso besithathu.
Zama ukuthola imbangela
Njengomthetho, imicabango emibi ngokuphangala kwabo izalwa ngaphansi kwethonya lombono womphakathi. Uma ubona ubutha kuwe, chaza ukuthi awuthandi impela, bese ukhumbula ukuthi ngubani ongakutshela okufanayo, okungenzeka, inkinga yakho ivela ebusheni lapho ubulili buqala ukwakha. Ngokuvamile abazali babheka ubulili okuthile okungcolile, okuvinjelwe, ngakho-ke kwakha ukufakwa okufana nokuthi: "Amantombazane ahloniphekile akufanele ahlanganyele enyangeni enjalo." Uma ubutha emzimbeni nokwesaba ubulili, ngisho nangomthandekayo, awukushiyi, qiniseka ukuthi uthintana nochwepheshe ozosiza ekufezeni inkinga.
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Thola ukuvumelana nawe
Uma izwi langaphakathi liqhubeka nokukholisa ukuthi ukushiyeka kwakho kuyinhlekelele, "chaza" ukuthi ubuhle bungumqondo wokuzithoba ngokweqile, futhi navela kunoma yikuphi ukushiyeka ezweni lanamuhla vele nje ususe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, indoda yakho ikuthatha njengoba unjalo, unganaki izinto ezincane.
Buza ngqo
Njengomthetho, imibhangqwana ehlanganisa ebudlelwaneni bethembekile ingahlanganyela nanoma yikuphi okuhlangenwe nakho. Musa ukukopisha okungekuhle, ukwehlisa ukuzethemba kwakho kuphansi kakhulu, uma wabelana ngolwazi lwakho nendoda yakho. Siyethemba kakhulu ukuthi impendulo yakhe izojabulisa kakhulu.