Ngakho-ke uhlangana nezinsuku eziyi-10-14. Hlobo luni lokubonakaliswa olukwenza lucace ukuthi amaphupho akho, njengokuqala kweqiniso elihlangene, ngokusobala ngokusobala ngokuthile okungaphezu kokwenza ucansi lwakho lwamahhala?
Izimpawu ezi-7 ezishukumisa amadoda ku- "Ubuhlobo obukhulu":
1. Romance ebekwe ngesikhathi sejubane. Endlini manje sebeqabukela banqume, ikakhulukazi ngemuva kosuku lokuqala. Ngisho kuye zombili isikhathi esithe xaxa. Kubalulekile ukuthi ngehora noma amabili ngemuva komhlangano endaweni yokudlela ye-cafe-yokudlela yabuza: Ngabe usufinyelele esimweni esizolile? Kahle, ukwaneliseka okungekho emthethweni okuvezwe nomuntu ojwayelene nokulindela ukuqhubeka.
2. Sengivele ngikhulume ngejubane lejubane? KULUNGILE, Indoda egcwele kakhulu izwa "yayo" esondelaneni . Futhi akukufanele. Uma amandla nezenzo ku-USval zikuhlwile, bese ubulili besibili buzobe buseduze kakhulu. Igebe elifushane libalulekile. Futhi yebo, esigabeni socansi lwesibili noma lwesithathu, ngokungazenzisi lusho isabizwana esithi "sami" (lokhu akubalulekile kangako ngezwi: , iqiniso lendlela yokukhuluma kanjena yi-BIG PLUS.
Musa ukuhlehlisa ubulili isikhathi eside - indoda ephelele kakhulu inomuzwa wokuthi "umfazi" wakhe
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3. Noma ngesikhathi esifushane, kungaba Kukubandakanya empilweni yakho . Lokhu, ngendlela, ukunakekelwa kusuka ohlelweni olujwayelekile: ubulili obusebenzayo. Kubi, uma kuyisidlo sakusihlwa ku-cafe nje, ukube kuphela akukubi okune. Yebo, ukujwayelana nomngane wakhe wakudala nentombi yakhe (unkosikazi) kuyindlela yakho yokuphuma esimweni 'esingabonakali.' Ukudlalwa okujwayelekile ndawonye endaweni yokudlela kufana nomsebenzi wokuphawula, ukuthelela ocansini oluzayo. Ngakho-ke, ngisho nokubuka okuhlangene kwebhola noma ifilimu likhiqiza kakhulu.
ezine. Ukuhlala ubusuku bonke ekhaya Ekuqaleni kwakhe (umhlangano we-4-6).
5. Akayikho nje Unentshisekelo ngezenzo zakho Cishe ngendlela, kepha ukhumbula imininingwane futhi, ngendlela, ngosuku olucacisa khona ukuthuthukiswa kwezimo kwabezizwe ngaphambili.
6. Lapho ukhuluma nabangane / abazali ngocingo (Hhayi kuvulandi noma kwelinye igumbi), futhi indlela yakhe yokuxhumana nabo ayihluke kakhulu ekuxhumaneni nawe.
Naka ukuthi le ndoda ifaka kanjani wena empilweni yakho
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7. Akashiyi imibuzo ngezihloko Amaphutha wesikhathi esedlule , kanye nokuqala izingxoxo ngekusasa.
Uma konke kunjalo, khona-ke ithuba lokuthi akayena nje umuntu onenhlonipho noma umkhohlisi, kodwa onentshisekelo kuwe ngomuntu mkhulu kakhulu.