"Ngiyasaba ukuthi uzongicabanga ngami," - Umusho ojwayelekile? Mhlawumbe ukutshelwe wena noma intombi, lapho betshelwa ukuthi banomlingani omusha. Esikontekweni yezinzalamizi, kuyisiko ukuthi intombazane ngaphambi kokuba umshado abe nabalingani abangu-1-3 ocansini, futhi okweqile kwalobuso obukhonzile kude nokwakheka kwayo kunganele. Kunzima ukusho ukuthi kungani abesifazane uqobo bayakujabulela ukuxhasa lo mbono futhi bazithobe kumlingani othile ngesimo seNtombikazi Mary. Kodwa-ke, lokhu okubonakalayo kufuna ukukusiza ukunqoba ukwesaba kwangaphakathi futhi uthembeke kulabo obathandayo.
Ubuntombi akuyona inani eliphakeme kakhulu
Lapho nje intombazane ihlanya, ukukhuliswa kwayo okwaphakamisa ukulondolozwa kweVitors Splava esigabeni senkomba eyinhloko yezindinganiso eziphakeme zokuziphatha. Abanye bathandana nomlingani ngosuku lokuqala lokuya esikhathini, abanye benza ukuhlinzwa ngopulasitiki. Izimo ezinjalo zingachazwa unomphela ngokulimala kwengqondo noma amagama awela ekhanda lowesifazane kusukela esemncane - Umama wayengasho, unkosikazi, uthande lo mfo esikoleni - bonke ababenenani lomuntu. Yize ukuziqhenya kwabesilisa abaningi kuzonquma iqiniso lokuthi bazoba umlingani wokuqala womuntu, kepha iningi labafana lizokhetha ukulala nentombazane esevele inolwazi. Lokhu kuchazwa ngezinhloso ezingokoqobo - akukho ukungaphatheki kahle ngesikhathi sokuya ocansini, ukuqonda umzimba wakhe namandla awo, ukuntuleka kwezingqinamba nokunye.
Zizwe ukhululekile ukukhuluma nge-DED yakho esedlule
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Khuluma ngesipiliyoni sokugcina
Kubantu abadala ebudlelwaneni obusondelene, akufanele kube nokwesaba ukukhuluma ngesipiliyoni sobudlelwano besikhathi esedlule neqiniso lokuthi awuzange uthande noma, kunalokho, uthande ngempela ubulili nabalingani. Kubalulekile ukuthi ungafaniswa nensizwa yamanje neyedlule, ukuze ungamlimazi, kepha singakhuluma ngani okungenzeka ukuthi uzizwe ungaphatheki kahle, noma ngabe awuzange uthandeke ngezindlela zokuvimbela inzalo noma ukuthi uthini. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi unciphise umzuzu we- "Wipes" lapho uzizwa uthinta okuthandwa ngumlingani. Akubona bonke abantu, ngokwesibonelo, njengocansi lwe-Oral - lokhu kujwayelekile, noma ngabe uzokumangaza iningi. Kungenzeka ukuthi isithandwa sakho esisha ngesisekelo sesipiliyoni sakho sizokutshela ukuthi ungayixazulula kanjani le noma leyo nkinga.
Abesifazane bayawuthanda ubulili nami
Kwamukelwa ukuthi amadoda athola injabulo enkulu yocansi. Kusolwa ukuthi umuntu ozophuma azophuma azophuma ekilabhini ene-kilabhu eyodwa noma amabili, azokhohlwa ngakusasa ekuseni, futhi bayobe eselindela ubizo lwakhe amasonto ambalwa. Khohlwa nganoma yikuphi ukwahlukana uma kukhulunywa ngobudlelwano obuseduze: Unelungelo elifanayo lokulala nomuntu othanda noma olala naye ebudlelwaneni - unquma umngcele wakho wendawo yokunethezeka. Uma umlingani wakho esemdala okwanele, akasoze ahlambalaza ngesifiso sokulala namadoda ahlukahlukene noma izivivinyo embhedeni. Ngokuphambene nalokho, abantu bavame ukuba ngomuzwa womunye umuntu futhi bajabule ukuzwa izindaba ezimnandi, okubuyisela okubusayo kukhombisa izinga lokuzethemba komuntu.
Yiba uFrank futhi ulungele izivivinyo.
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Ungabi nje
Ngokweseluleko esedlule, kunengqondo ngokulandelayo - Khuluma ngezifiso zakho ngamagama ngomlomo. Akunasidingo sokwehla ekhanda lakho njengoba insizwa izosabela emazwini akho. Yonke imicabango kanye nezifiso zakho kuyinkomba yakho, ngakho-ke zizwe ukhululekile ngesimo sakho futhi ungakufihli kuzakwethu. Yiba neqiniso futhi ujabulele impilo, ukhohlwe ngemikhawulo kuze kube phakade. Ubudlelwano kufanele benze impilo yakho ihehe futhi icebe, futhi ingakwenzi ukuthi uzishintshe.