Ukuba yizimo zokuxineka okungapheli, kunzima ukuhlala kumuntu omuhle ubusuku nemini. Kusikhathaza kuphela, kodwa futhi nozakwethu esisebenzisa nabo kakhulu usuku. Funa futhi uphendule kakhulu kuma-linges yimbi kakhulu ongaqhamuka nesimo esifanayo. Sizokutshela izindlela eziningana zokusiza ukugcina imizwa futhi uthole isisombululo senkinga ekhanda "elibandayo".
Zama, uma kungenzeka, ungafaki ukuxhumana okuqondile
Kwenzeka ukuthi umuntu uxhumana nawe ngokuphelele lapho ubuholi noma abanye osebenza nabo, noma kunjalo, ngokuba bodwa nawe, angaya ku-podkly yakho, kuyathandeka kukho konke okukhona kudlula wena. Ezimweni ezibucayi kakhulu, umuntu angaphazamisa imisebenzi yakho. Lindela ukuthi lesi simo sixazululwe ngokwaso, ngokungazethembi, kuyadingeka ukwenza. Ukuze ungabi nazi ukubekezela kwakho futhi ngaleyo ndlela ungatholeli ukuhamba komsebenzi, ukusonteka konke ukuxhumana kwakho nomhlaseli okubhaliwe. Kuzoba nzima kumuntu obhalweni kwizincwadi, ngoba kulokhu uzoba nobufakazi obuqondile bokuziphatha okungalungile komunye wabasebenzi.
Ungayi ekuphenduleni ngolaka
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Ungathuli uma ucindezelwe
Yebo, ukuvuma ukuthi ucindezelwe, kunzima impela, kepha kuhlale ukhumbula ukuthi ukulimala kuhlale kuthinta isimo sengqondo, nakusikhathi esizayo nangokusebenza. Izinkinga zizokwenzeka kancane kancane. Lapho uqonda ukuthi othile ovela kozakwabo uyakubonisa imizwa engenabungane kakhulu, iya kumholi wakho futhi uzenzele ukothabile ngokwenzekayo. Njengomthetho, abantu abacindezele ngokweqile bazibandakanye nodlame lwengqondo. Noma yimuphi umholi uyakwazi ukubala imali futhi aqonde ukuthi isimo esingesinampilo sizoholela eqenjini, ngakho-ke umbuzo wakho uzoxazululwa esikhathini esifushane.
Yiba nenhlonipho
Kaningi, umsulwa akaphishekeli inhloso ecacile, uyathanda nje lapho uzishiya khona futhi njengamanje ubheka emehlweni abanye ozakwabo abasebenza futhi ongazinzile. Musa ukuletha umsulwa "i-vampire" yenjabulo enjalo. Gcina ithoni ezolile nenhlonipho, noma kunjalo, uma uqala ukuthuka obala, ngokuqinile, kepha ngaphandle kokuthukwa, owonile, ukuze kungabikho sifiso sokungqubuzana ngekusasa.
Ungathathi ulaka ku-akhawunti yakho
Njengoba sesikhulumile ekuqaleni kwalesi sihloko, bambalwa abantu ababekezelayo ukucindezelwa esibhekene nabo nsuku zonke, ikakhulukazi uma umsebenzi wakho unikeza ingcindezi kwe-psyche. Uma umuntu engakwazi ukubumba imizwa futhi akhulise izwi lakho kuwe, kepha kwenzeka ngesikhathi sokuhamba komsebenzi esimatasa, avale amehlo akho futhi athathe umoya ojulile, azame ukungena komunye umuntu - akakwazi ukuzigcina unjalo Ukulawula njengoba, ngokwesibonelo, wena. Kodwa-ke, uma isimo siphindwa kaningi, ungesabi ukufaka umuntu endaweni, kodwa, futhi, ngaphandle kokuphendula ulaka.
Uzizwe lapho umuntu edinga ukuyeka
Kwenzeka futhi ukuthi umuntu ongumgomo asetshenziselwa ukudiliza intukuthelo kwabanye, futhi wambamba ingalo yami. Lokhu kwenzeka kaningi kubasebenzi abasha abangakaze bakwazi uku- "bazame". Uqonda kanjani ukuthi ukuhlaselwa ekhelini lakho akunambiswa yilutho, thatha isikhundla esinzima ukuze umuntu aqonde - ungaphindisela. Njengomthetho, okukodwa noma kabili kukwanele ukuthi uMshisi wendawo azofuna esinye isisulu.