Ukungena ebuhlotsheni bokuqala, cishe wonke amantombazane anethemba lokuthi lolu uthando lwempilo. Yize ngokwesayensi kufakazelwe ukuthi ubuchopho babesilisa nabesifazane busebenza ngokulinganayo, namanje abesifazane bathambekele kakhudlwana ekuphupheni nge-ambulensi nokuzalwa kwezingane, futhi amadoda mancane amathuba okuthi acabange ngala maphuzu ajabulisayo. Kukholelwa ukuthi wonke umuntu unendaba yawo uqobo - akunakwenzeka ukuthi aphike ukuthi kukhona imibhangqwana ebukancane ingahlala ndawonye yonke impilo yakhe, kodwa futhi yeluleke wonke umuntu ukuthi akhethe umlingani wakhe ngokucophelela futhi alinde ukuthi impilo yakhe yonke nayo Akufanele. Ingabe unamandla nathi? Silinde imibono yakho kumazwana angezansi.
Ukuntuleka kwesipiliyoni
Uma insizwa yakho iba ngowokuqala, owaqabulana naye, bese uqala ubuhlobo obuseduze, uqinisekisiwe ukuthi ungakukhohlwa ngokuzayo. Ukuntuleka kwesipiliyoni nokungakwazi ukuqhathanisa nabanye kuzoba yi-Plus for amantombazane amancane, ngoba bazokwazi ukuhlola umyeni ongaba khona hhayi usayizi wesitho sezocansi, kepha ngokwezinye izimfanelo - ubuhlakani be ingqondo, isifiso sokwenza imali nokunye. Eminyakeni yokuqala, abesifazane abaningi benza iphutha, beqala ukugxeka umuntu ngokungakwazi ukwanelisa embhedeni wakhe, yize zisezimweni eziningi inkinga ngeke ibe kuyo, kodwa kuzo. Noma yibaphi ubuhlobo obusondelene buyakhiwa futhi - Ungasho lokho ofuna ukukuthola nokuthi ungakunika kanjani injabulo, futhi ungakholelwa emafuthetsheni ukuthi ubukhulu bokuthi usayizi kangangokuba usayizi ubaluleke ngempela.
Kubalulekile ukuzwa isikhalo sabo
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Ukwesaba ukulinganiselwa kwezokungcebeleka
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ezinhlanganweni zentsha, ngokubona kwethu, ukuvukela umbuso kuvame kakhulu. Esencane, akuwona wonke umuntu onamandla okuzwela nokulungela ukuphendula ngezenzo zawo. Ubudlelwano bunokwenzeka ekuhlolweni okungenamkhawulo kanye nabantu abadala ngokushesha kunokuqamba inyunyana nomlingani ofanele. Akumangalisi emvelweni yentsha, imidwebo ehlekisayo idume endaweni yentsha, lapho amantombazane ancengana khona ukuze angabinga nabanye abafana esimweni esidakwa ku- "ukwahlukaniswa" - incazelo eyinhloko yokusebenzisa utshwala futhi ubumnandi obungavikelekile ngomphumela wawo. Kubafana abasebusheni, ngaphandle kokuhlukile, baqhosha ngabangane babo nemindeni yabo, isimo sibuhlungu kakhulu.
Izinhloso ezingazinzile nezinto eziza kuqala
Buza intsha, bangaki kubo anquma ukunquma nalo msebenzi? Uyomangala, kepha ngisho nangaseminyakeni engu-18 ubudala, abaningi babo abakakulungeli ukuthatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngenxa yezimpilo zabo futhi bathembele ekukhetheni abazali, bakholelwe ukuthi yonke impilo yasenyuvesi ingenziwa ngokungakhathali, futhi ingasebenzi ezinyaweni. Kukhona okuhlukile, kepha ziqinisekisa imithetho: imvamisa eduze kwabantu abangama-25 babona lokho abakufuna ngempela futhi lokho ngeke kwenziwe ngisho nangemali. Kubantu abasha, kunzima ukuzwa ithuba lokuguqula ebudlelwaneni lapho izimpawu zazo ezinomlingani othile ziphambuka - ngaleli phuzuzi zikuqonda ukuthi ukuhlukana kuzoba ukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma ekushayweni kwenzalo.
Impilo ehlanganayo akuyona yonke emazinyweni
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Ibanga - Ukuphazanyiswa
Singasho ukuthi uthando ludlula kukho konke, kodwa ingabe abantu abakwaziyo ngempela ukukhuthazela ukuhlukaniswa nama-hormone akhe amthandayo? Abanye bathunyelwa ukuzofunda kwelinye idolobha, abanye empini. Ibanga liyisivivinyo esinzima ngisho nakubantu abadala, kanye nabantu abasha ezilingweni ezingenamkhawulo ngendlela yamaqembu ajabulisayo lapho abahlukahlukene babuthana khona, ukumelana nokwephulwa kombono wokwethembeka kube nzima kakhulu. Ukuphela kwendlela esiphuma kulesi simo ngemuva kokukhululwa esikoleni ukuhamba nokugcina impilo ehlanganyelwe ukuze kuhlolwe imizwa.