Kulowa chibwenzi, pafupifupi atsikana onse ali ndi chidaliro kuti ichi ndi chikondi cha moyo. Ngakhale kuti ubongo wa abambo ndi amai amagwiranso ntchito chimodzimodzi, azimayi amalimbikitsidwa kuti alote za ambulazo ndi kubadwa kwa ana, komanso amuna saganizira za malingaliro awa. Limakhulupirira kuti munthu aliyense ali ndi nkhani yakeyake - ndizosatheka kukana kuti pali maanja omwe amangokhalira limodzi moyo wake wonse, komanso amalangiza aliyense kuti asankhe mofatsa moyo wake wonse moyo wake wonse ndi Osayenera. Kodi ndinu olimba ndi ife? Tikudikirira malingaliro anu mu ndemanga pansipa.
Kuperewera
Mnyamata wanu akakhala woyamba kukhala woyamba, yemwe mukumupsompsona, kenako ndikuyamba ubale wapamtima, simudatsimikizirika kuti musayiwale mtsogolo. Kusazindikira komanso kulephera kuyerekezera ndi ena kumawathandizanso kukhala atsikana ang'onoang'ono, chifukwa adzawunikanso kuti mwamunayo sakutha kukula chiwalo chogonana, koma malinga ndi mwamunayo Malingaliro, mtima wofuna kupanga ndalama ndi zina zotero. Kumayambiriro, azimayi ambiri amalakwitsa, kuyamba kutsutsa munthu kuti amukhudze pabedi, ngakhale kuti vutoli silidzakhala mmenemo, koma mwa iwo. Ubwenzi wina uliwonse umamangidwanso - mutha kunena zomwe mukufuna kuti mumve komanso momwe mungakondweretsere, osakhulupirira zabodza kuti kukula kwake ndikofunikira.
Wachinyamata ndikofunikira kumva kuti akuwapempha
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Kuopa Kuchita Zoyenera Kuchita
Kumbali ina, m'magulu aang'ono achichepere, m'malingaliro athu, munthu wachiwembu chofala kwambiri. Ali mwana, sikuti aliyense amatha kumva kuti azimvera chisoni komanso kuti azichitapo kanthu. Maubwenzi ndiwothekanso kuyesa kopanda malire komanso achikulire mofulumira kuposa momwe mungadziwire mgwirizano ndi mnzake woyenera. Ndiyetu ndizosadabwitsa kuti m'dera la Achinyamata, zoseketsa zoseketsa ndizodziwika bwino m'dera Lachinyamata, komwe atsikana amalimbikitsana kuti asapsona ndi achinyamata ena, chifukwa cha zomwe achinyamata amamwa mowa komanso kusamvana kwamphamvu. Kwa anyamata omwe, muubwana, osakhazikika, amadzitama pa anzawo ndi mabanja awo, zinthu zili bwino kwambiri.
Zolinga zosakhazikika komanso zofunika
Funsani achinyamata, ndi angati a iwo omwe adaganiza zosankha ntchito? Mudzadabwa, koma mota ndi zaka 18, ambiri a iwo sakhala okonzeka kutenga udindo wosankha makolo, akukhulupirira kuti moyo wonse ku yunivesite ungagwiritsidwe ntchito, osagwira ntchito kumapazi. Pali zosiyana siyana, koma zimatsimikizira malamulowo: Nthawi zambiri amayandikira kwambiri malamulo 25 amazindikira zomwe amafufuza ndipo sizidzachitika ngakhale ndalama ndi kuzindikira. Kwa achichepere, ndizovuta kuona zinthu zosintha muubwenzi wawo ndi mnzawo amasinthana - pakadali pano akumvetsetsa kuti kugawana kumakhala njira yokhayo yothetsera chidwi.
Kugwirizana kwa moyo sikuti konse m'mano
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Mtunda - kusokoneza
Titha kunena kuti chikondi chikudutsa chilichonse, koma kodi ndi anthu omwe amatha kupilila ndi mahomoni ake okondedwa? Ena amatumizidwa kukaphunzira mumzinda wina, ena mu gulu lankhondo. Mtunda ukuyesedwa molimba ngakhale kwa achikulire, ndipo achinyamata omwe ali ndi ziyeso zopanda malire monga momwe anthu osiyanasiyana amasonkhanira, kukana kuphwanya masomphenya okhulupirika kwambiri. Njira yokhayo yothetsera vutoli nditamasulidwa kusukulu kuti mupite kukakhala ndi moyo wolumikizana kuti muone momwe akumvera.