Sonke sifuna ingane yakho kuphela okuhle kakhulu, ngaphandle kokuzibona ngokwakhe, sicela i-psyche encane yengane. Yimaphi amaphutha enza wonke umzali wesibili? Sinqume ukuthola.
Awuhambelani
Imvamisa, abantu abanobuso be-psyche abangazinzile ngale nkinga, ngenxa yalokho, ingane iyahlupheka imizwa yomzali. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abazali abaningi bazi ngokuziphatha kwabo okungazinzi, bancamela ukubiza izici zabo zokungasebenzi kahle '.' Ukuziphatha okujwayelekile komama noma kababa esimweni esinjalo ukubonakaliswa kwesisa, kodwa kuyadingeka ukuba kwenzeke enkingeni, umzali wabika ngokushesha futhi athukuthele enganeni, eyamangaza ngokoqobo. Zilawule phambi kwengane.
Wehlisa ukuzethemba kwengane
Ngakho ukuthi ingane wakhula ukuhlolwa okunempilo amakhono ayo, abazali kudingeka ucabangisise kukho konke bazothi, ngoba ngisho abayitoho ishiywe nkulumo kanje: "Wena njalo ukwenza konke." Kwangathi zibekwe inkumbulo yengane , ngaleyo ndlela kubangele ukuba akholelwe ekusizilelweni kwakhe, ngoba umama / ubaba ucabanga kanjalo. Zama ukwenza ukuxhumana kwakho nengane kukuhle kakhulu, ukuqondise ngobumnene uma kungazelelwe kwenza iphutha.
Ingane ezolile - ingane engavamile
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Ukwesabisa ingane
Ingane elalelayo ingane engavamile. Esimweni lapho umzali engaqinisekanga ngamandla akhe, futhi ingane iyayeka ukulalela, kukhona izinsongo ezingakaze kube yindlela ephumelelayo yokukhuliswa. Umphumela omubi kakhulu uzoba novalo, ukwesaba okungapheli kokwenza okuthile akunjalo, okuzothinta impilo yengane yesikhathi esizayo, uma ungaphendukeli kudokotela wezengqondo ngesikhathi. Zama ukuthola ezinye izindlela zokusiza ukubhekana namandla wengane yabalwa.