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Futhi cishe wonke umuntu uyaqiniseka ukuthi bazophila isikhathi eside futhi bajabule futhi bafe ngosuku olulodwa. Eside futhi ngenhlanhla, wonke umuntu uthola ngokuhlukile. Le ndatshana yalabo abangakwazi ukufela ngosuku olulodwa.
Isehlukaniso - inqubo ayimnandi, kodwa ngeshwa, ivame kakhulu emphakathini wanamuhla. Futhi ezimweni eziningi, isehlukaniso sihambisana nengxenye yempahla ehlanganyelwe ye-Surugov, okuzo, ngokusho kwengxenye 1 yezobuciko. I-34 yekhodi yomndeni yeRussia Federation, isebenza impahla etholwe ngesikhathi somshado wemali ehlanganayo yabalingani bezincwadi.
Esimweni lapho abashadikazi bangaphambili behluleka ukuvumelana ngokwahlukaniswa kophenyo olutholwe yibo emshadweni, amacala alolu hlobo avunyelwe kuphela enkantolo. Ngakho-ke bazohlukaniswa kanjani phakathi kwabashadikazi bokucabanga kwabo okuhle, kufaka phakathi ukutholakala kwezingane ezincane?
Kwikhodi yomndeni efanayo, kuvezwa ukuthi amasheya wabalingani empahleni ejwayelekile abhekwa njengelingane, ngaphandle kokuthi kuhlinzekelwe ngenye indlela inkontileka efanele phakathi kwabalingani.
Kulokhu, akupheleli ngenkontileka yomshado kuphela, kodwa futhi nangesivumelwano esisesigabeni sendawo efakazelwe ngokuhlanganyela, engaphethwa ngakunye ngesikhathi somshado nangemva kokuqedwa kwayo.
Ingabe ukuba khona kwezingane kungashintsha isimo ngengxenye yempahla?
Umthetho waseRussia unikeza ithuba elinjalo. Ngokuya nge-Article 39 yekhodi yomndeni yeRussia Federation, iNkantolo inelungelo lokubuyela emuva kusukela ekuqaleni kokulingana kwesabelo sabavuthayo engxenyeni yezingane ezihlangene.
Kepha ngasikhathi sinye, esigabeni 4 se-Article 60 ye-SC RF, ukuhlinzekwa ukuthi ingane ayinabo ubunikazi bendawo yabazali ifakiwe.
Ngakho-ke, ukubalwa kwezimali kwezingane zezingane kungenziwa engxenyeni yempahla phakathi kwabalingani bomshado ndawonye ekwandiseni isabelo somuntu oshade naye, izingane ezizohlala nazo.
Noma kunjalo, naphezu kwezinhlinzeko zoMthetho, umkhuba wokwahlulela ezimweni ezinjalo uyamangalisa. Izinkantolo zinquma izindaba ezinjalo ngesisekelo sezimo ezithile zecala, futhi iqiniso lokuthi izingane ngemuva kokuhlukaniswa nazo akusho ukuthi ingxenye yakho engxenyeni esesigabeni izokwandiswa.
Inkantolo ayihlali njalo, njengoba umkhuba wokwahlulela ukhombisa, uwela ohlangothini lwabazali, abahlala nabo izingane ezincane. Kepha uma inkantolo ifika esiphethweni ngobukhona bezimo, ivumela ukubuyela emuva emgomweni wokulingana kwesabelo, khona-ke lokhu kungathinta zombili impahla, kusekelwe kubalingani abangashukumi.
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Yini engeke ibe ngaphansi kwesigaba?
Lokhu kungukudla kwabalingani, kanye nempahla leyo, yize ithengwe ngesikhathi somshado, kepha ukuthengiselana okuhle. Isibonelo, kwethulwa komunye wabashadikazi noma wazuzwa njengefa. Futhi kunoma yikuphi, ngeke kuqashelwe impahla ehlanganisiwe futhi ihlukaniswe yilokho okwathengwa izingane nokwaneliseka kwazo izidingo zabo. Ngakho-ke, idiphozithi yasebhange, evulekile egameni lezingane zentsha, ayikho ngaphansi kwesigaba phakathi kwabalingani, kungakhathalekile ukuthi umnikelo uvuliwe futhi izingane zihlala nobani. Izakhiwo, noma ezishukumiseleka, kepha ukubhaliswa, okuhlotshiswe egameni lengane nakho ngeke kube ngaphansi kwesigaba.
Lokho kuvela kubazali abazosala nezingane ngemuva kwesehlukaniso, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi umthetho waseRussia uvikela amalungelo nezintshisekelo ezisemthethweni zezingane ezincane. Ngakho-ke, unazo zonke izizathu zokufuna ingxenye yezakhiwo ezitholakele ngokuhlanganyela ezikwabelana ngamasheya alinganayo, kodwa ngokusekelwe kwizidingo zangempela nezintshisekelo zezingane.
Ngokwesimo somkhuba okhona wokukhipha izitifiketi zemali kamama eRussia, umbuzo wokuthi ngabe imali yayo noma ukwabiwa kwezindlu kuncike ekuhlukanisweni kwezindlela zalo zemali kamama. Ngakho-ke, leyo ngxenye yezakhiwo zangempela, ezikhokhwa kusuka enhlokodolobha yomama, kufanele ihlukaniswe izingxenye ezilinganayo phakathi kwawo wonke amalungu omndeni. Okungukuthi, ifulethi elitholakele ukusebenzisa lezi zimali ngeke lihlukaniswe ngamasheya alinganayo phakathi kwabashadikazi, ingxenye izoba yimpoqo eyabelwe ubunikazi bezingane.
Kunoma ikuphi, ukuhlukaniswa kwempahla phambi kwezingane kungumbuzo onzima. Hhayi kuphela ukuthi inhlala-kahle yakho ebonakalayo incike kukho, kepha futhi inhlala-kahle yezingane zakho ezingakwazi ukuvikela ngokuzimela izintshisekelo zazo. Ngakho-ke, ikhambi elifanele lizoba yisikhalazo sosizo kummeli noma ummeli ofanelekayo.