Uphuphe ngaye isikhathi eside, futhi manje wavela - isikhulu sakho nendoda yakho esizayo. Unguqhawe lakho, futhi ufuna ukukhombisa ukuthi wenza isinqumo esifanele. Futhi nakhu ugawula i-rake yabesifazane oyithandayo - umyeni wakhe ukwakha izisekelo futhi wenze maphakathi nendawo yendawo yonke. Futhi lapho kuvela ingane, konke kukhungathekile kuphela. Kuyiqiniso, unyaka wokuqala wokuba ngumama akayona uvalo. Bese kuba ne-colic, khona-ke amazinyo, khona-ke ukukhathazeka ... Awekho amandla, ukucindezelwa kwengcindezi, ukuntuleka kocansi, izingxabano kanye nentukuthelo yezwe lakho "akufiki ukubulala"?
Yebo, ukukhathala kuyazizwa kuzwakele, kepha iningi labo bonke abesifazane bahlushwa ukunganeliseki kwezidingo zalo zokuxhumana kanye nokuqalisa ukusebenza. Uyaphawula ukuthi umyeni ukhokha ukunakwa okuncane futhi akaqondi okwenzekayo, okuqhubekayo ukuhudula futhi kuhlanze phansi. Kuzosiza? Hhayi. Futhi ngalokho okuzosiza, kufundwe ngezansi.
Isinyathelo sokuqala esiya empilweni ejabulisayo
Hlela izinto eziza kuqala. Ngiyasithanda ibinzana kakhulu ukuthi umndeni uyisizinda sendawo yonke, kodwa hhayi umngcele wakhe. Ungagunda ekuhlanzeni nasekusayineni, kanye ngenyanga uya ku-manicure futhi udlulise imali njalo, kodwa uyini umqondo? Yini ozoyifeza lokhu? Ngabe umyeni ubheka ini unobhala ngomzimba omubi kanye nokungcola ekhaya? Noma kumlingani webhizinisi ongayazi ukuthi i-iron ibukeka kanjani? Akekho othi konke kufanele kuphonswe bese uya ejimini. Vele uthathe iphepha bese ubhala okufunayo. Hlanza ikhaya, isidlo sakusihlwa esimnandi, umzimba omuhle, ingane efundile, ukukhula komuntu siqu? Hlela izinto eziza kuqala ngezifiso zakho nokulinganisa. Awusuthise isandla esisodwa ejimini, ngakwesokudla? Ngakho-ke ungakwenzi lokho ngempilo yakho - mpompola yonke imikhakha yayo.
Umndeni - maphakathi nendawo yonke, kepha hhayi umngcele wakhe. Ungakhohlwa ngeholide lakho nentuthuko
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Izinyathelo 2 no-3
Uma ungumama nomfazi, khona-ke muhle. Kepha unelungelo lezintshisekelo zethu. Hamba nabangani kuya kwi-cinema, embukisweni, ku-spa. Thola isiko elihle - usuku lothando ngokwakho. Kanye njalo emavikini amabili eshiya ingane kubaba, ugogo noma uNanny kanye nesikhathi uchithekile kuwe kuphela. Kungaba ukuhamba epaki, kwasemini endaweni yokudlela oyikhonzile, umhlangano nabangane, ukuyothenga noma ukubuka uchungechunge luthule kanye nesizungu. Yenza okuthandayo okufunayo nalokho okudingayo. Lalela ngokwakho, vikela ilungelo lakho lokuphumula nokuphumula okuphelele. Izingane azidingi umama ofanele - zidinga ujabule. Futhi umama ojabulayo ungunina ophumule. Yebo, futhi umyeni uzojabula nje uma ubuya esithombeni sabane kuya emfanekisweni wowesifazane othandekayo.
Isinyathelo 4.
Vumelana, umyeni wami akanandaba nokulalela inhlebo evela ebaleni lokudlala ngama-diapers. Yebo, akunamfihlo ukuthi lona wesifazane wenza umbuthano onesimemezelo esimeme, kodwa ingabe kungukudana? Ungahlala uthola isivumelwano sokucela umphefumulo ukukwenza ekhaya. Ngabe uhlala uthanda ukudala ama-Interiors? Qala ukuthuthuka kule ndawo, futhi kungenzeka ukuthi isimemezelo sizophela, ngeke ubuyele emibikweni, kepha uzokwenza into oyithandayo. Ukwaneliseka kwangaphakathi kunikelwe, futhi intshisekelo yendoda izokhula kuphela. Kuyinto eyodwa - ukuthanda umama wengane yakho lapho ehlala ekhuluma ngama-diapers, futhi omunye - ancoma owesifazane othandekayo kanye nentuthuko yawo. Yebo, nawe, amantombazane, uzoqala ukuzizwa uhluke ngokuphelele.
Izingxoxo nengane ngempumelelo futhi ziqinisekise ngendlela efanele indlela. Qinisekisa isibonelo sakho
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Isinyathelo 5.
Uma ufuna izingane zakho esikhathini esizayo ziphumelele, zisetshenziswe futhi zijabule, zibe sezikhombisa ngesibonelo sakho. Uma wena usebenzela ipeni, nangemva komsebenzi, elele kusofa, khona-ke izingxoxo zakho ezidinga ukuthi ingane idinga ukuphumelela futhi iphile impilo enempilo kuzoba ukuvezwa okujwayelekile komoya. Yiba ngubani umntwana ozolingana kuye.
Ingqikithi yezinyathelo ezi-5, kepha bazonikeza umphumela wabo ngokushesha. Zama futhi uqiniseke ukuthi lokhu kungukuhlangenwe nakho kwakho.