Vele, sikhetha umsebenzi esingabhekana naso, futhi okubalulekile - lowo oletha injabulo. Kodwa-ke, i-Psyche yethu ihlelwe ngendlela yokuthi ngisho nezinto ezimnandi kakhulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ziqala ukuzihlupha futhi zibe mthwalo. Ngakho-ke, akukhona ukumangala uma ukukhala ehhovisi kuphenduka inqubo, ethi "kuncipha" wena ezinhlangothini zonke. Okufanele ngikwenze? Sinqume ukuthola.
Thola isizathu esenza umsebenzi uzokucindezela
Akunakwenzeka ukushintsha okuthile uma ungazi ukuthi "uhlelo lunikeze khona ukwehluleka". Musa ukushesha, hlaziya ukuthi uyeke ngaliphi iphuzu uvuka ngomcabango omnandi wokuthi namuhla udinga ehhovisi. Yiziphi izinkinga empilweni yakho kwamanye amasimu? Ingabe ukhona umuntu ozama ukukukholisa ngokungabi nalusizo lwakho? Lapho nje unquma ukuthi yisiphi isizathu sokungazithandi ngokuzumayo, kusho usizo lula ukukwenza ukunquma inkinga.
Futhi kuthiwani ngempilo yakho?
Imvamisa, imbangela yokunganeliseki ngempilo, kufaka phakathi umsebenzi, amanga ngokuhle kakhulu. Namuhla, izikhala eziningi zisho ukuthi ukucindezela kanye namandla kagesi aphezulu, okuholela ngokushesha ekushiseni, kanye nokwehluleka emsebenzini wezinhlelo eziningi zobuntu. Uma unomuzwa wokuthi izinkinga zobungcweti zikuzungezile, cabanga ngendlela ozizwa ngayo, ulalele umzimba wakho, kwesinye isikhathi sithi "Shekisa" eshadini eliqinile oyeke ukulinaka wena. Ungabi "izithulu" kwizibonakaliso zokuthi umzimba wakho usebenza.
Qala
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Ube ngcono
Uma uqhubeka usebenza ngesikhundla esisodwa, "okuzenzakalelayo" okwengeziwe kwezenzo zakho. Iyanyamalala, eyayisezinyangeni eziyisithupha zokuqala, kancane kancane umsebenzi uqala ukuzwa ukuthi impilo yakhe yobungcweti "ivaliwe". Konke lokhu kukhuluma kuphela ngalokho okudingayo ukuqhubeka, futhi kulokhu udinga ukuqala ngokwakho, noma kunalokho "ukuthuthukiswa kochwepheshe." Cabanga nomaphi lapho ufuna ukuqhubeka khona, yimaphi amakhono owadingayo. Ukuthatha isinqumo, ufuna izindlela zokuxazulula, ngokwesibonelo, izifundo ezithuthukile zokuqeqesha, futhi mhlawumbe ngokuvamile ufuna ukushintsha ububanzi bomsebenzi? Dare.
Phumula
Lapho uqonda ukuthi kunezinkinga eziningi kakhulu, thatha ikhefu. Ngisho nesonto elilodwa eholidini lingaphumula futhi "Qalisa kabusha" wena, kuyilapho kubalulekile ukuthola okuvelayo ukuze ukwazi "kuguqulwe isifundo." Thatha ingxenye yesibili noma umngani osondelene bese uhamba uzungeze idolobha noma uye edolobheni elilandelayo ukuze ushintshe isimo. Ungacabangi ukuthi kuzodingeka 'usetha kabusha' izinkinga ehhovisi.