Ukuphambuka, okungukuthi, ukuphambuka kusuka ekuziphatheni okungajwayelekile kubonakaliswa, kusukela ekuqaleni kweminyaka. Ngenkathi ezinye izingane ziyeka abazali ukuba babe nekati noma umdlwane, abanye bahlukunyezwa yizilwane esezihlala endlini. Kubalulekile ukuthola inkinga ngesikhathi futhi uxhumane nochwepheshe. Kunezenzo eziningana, ngemuva kwalokho odokotela bezengqondo bacele abazali ukuba babonise ngokubonisana nezingane.
Ulaka ngokumelene nezinye izingane
Uma ingane yakho imbi kakhulu, ibiza i-One-Laugher in Kindergarten, ithatha amathoyizi wesayithi avela kwezinye izingane noma angenalutho. Imvamisa isizathu sangempela salokhu kuziphatha kuwubudlelwano phakathi komndeni. Uma bethukwa ekhaya, bajeziswa ngokomzimba noma banakwa, ingane ngokuqinisekile izothulula imizwa emibi kontanga noma izingane ezincane. Unomuzwa wokuthi abazali abanandaba phambi kwakhe, kodwa ezingeni lokuqonda, ngokuziphatha okubi kusazama ukudonsela ukunaka kuye. Kwesinye isikhathi ukuziphatha okubi kuchazwa ngokubonakala kwengane encane emndenini, okuphoqelekile abazali ukuba banake kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuletha ingane ukunakekela osanda kuzalwa, okunikeza imisebenzi elula. Isibonelo, khetha amathoyizi noma izingubo ndawonye, ulethe ama-diapheri noma izingono. Zama ngenkathi ulala omncane ukuze udlale futhi ukhulume nengane endala ukuze azizwe elahliwe.
Ulaka luchazwa ngezinkinga ngaphakathi komndeni.
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Ukwehluleka ukulalela abadala
Khumbula ubuntwana bakho. Impela esigabeni sakho noma esifanayo kwakuyingane eyayingaqala ukucula esifundweni noma ishiye njalo ikilasi ngaphandle kwesixwayiso. Lapho eneminyaka eyi-7, izingane zenzeka inhlekelele yesibili yokukhula lapho zibona "i-ego" yazo futhi zizihlukanise nomphakathi. Akuzona zonke izingane zikhula kalula, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthola izinkinga ezifanayo ngesikhathi futhi uxhumane nochwepheshe ukuze uthole usizo. Uzochaza ingane ukuthi kungani kudingeka ulalele abadala futhi ufeze izicelo zabo. Ngemuva kokwelashwa, izingane zivame ukuba ziphazamisa kancane futhi zikhiqize isiyalo.
Indodana engenakuphumula.
Ngenkathi ezinye izingane zibonisa ngokukhululekile inganekwanezo, abanye bazongena kubo, kuba nzima ukubona ukwephulwa kokuziphatha okujwayelekile. Kodwa-ke, ngisho nezingane ezinjalo zibonisa amasiginali wokuqwashisa okwamanje lapho zingazilawuli, ephusheni. Ingane ingabamba amazinyo ayo, ikhuluma ngephupho, ihlala ipenda futhi ivuke. Uma lokhu kwenzeke kanye, shaya ebetheni kusenesikhathi. Kodwa-ke, ukuphindaphinda kwezimpawu njalo kukhombisa ngokunembile ukuthi kukhona izinkinga.
Gcina ingane yakho
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Inhlekisa yezilwane
Lapho ingane engaphezu kweminyaka engu-3 ubudala icasulwa yizilwane, isho ngokuhlukumezeka okucacile. Zama ukuchaza ukuthi izilwane zingabangane bethu futhi azizwanga ubuhlungu obuncane lapho besondela ngoboya noma ukukhahlela. Ungalokothi uvumele ingane ilahle amatshe noma isihlabathi ezilwaneni zasemgwaqweni, ziyesabise noma zithole ukudla. Umuntu osebuntwaneni obonisa isihluku ezivikelweni ezingavikeleki, esikhathini esizayo nakanjani sizocela ulaka kubantu. Ukuziphatha okunjalo kudinga ukugcinwe ngokuphelele ngokutshela ingane ithoni eqinile ezolile yesenzo esingalungile.
Ukwehluleka ukulawula izidingo
Ezinye izingane ezinezinkinga zengqondo ebudaleni zingaziphatha njengezingane. Isibonelo, khohlwa ukuya endlini yangasese noma nge-carcious on torfles. Ukubonakaliswa okunjalo ikakhulukazi kukhombisa ukwesaba nokuhlangenwe nakho. Enganeni kufanele aphathwe njengomuntu ozimele, emnika inkululeko yokuzikhethela futhi ayisekele kukho konke. Uma emndenini kukhona indawo engathandeki, i-Psyche yengane izama ukuyivikela kulaka lwangaphandle, ngenxa yokuthi lokho kubuyela emvelaphi - indlela yokuziphatha encane. Khuluma nengane, ufunde ukuthi uyayikhathaza.