Umqondo "womuntu ophumelelayo" awukaze uhambisane nezakhamizi zamadolobha amakhulu: Ukuncintisana okuphezulu kubangela isifiso sokuba ngcono, ngempumelelo umakhelwane futhi uthole okuningi ngayo kunokujwayelekile. Kodwa-ke, abantu abaya empumelelweni benza amaphutha afanayo kaninginingi. Namuhla sinqume ukuqoqa amaphuzu avelele angafani nempumelelo ebhizinisini nasebudlelwaneni bamuntu.
Azibambezeli endaweni yokududuza
Cishe ukwesaba okukhulu komunye nomunye wethu - ukwesaba ushintsho. Ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi ubunzima bungatholakala endleleni, okungenzeka, kuzofanela babhekane nezabo, abaningi baholela ethukile. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi endaweni lapho yonke into ijwayelene khona, akunakwenzeka ukufeza okungenani impumelelo ethile - uhlala udinga ukudalula ama-Horizon amasha. Usuvele uxazulule okuthile okuzoshintsha empilweni yakho?
Abesabi ukugxekwa okunengqondo
Kubalulekile - kumayelana nokugxekwa okunengqondo, okuqinisiwe yizimpikiswano. Uma umuntu engajabuli ngomsebenzi wakho ngaphandle kwanoma yisiphi isizathu, umbono wakhe akufanele uthathwe njengokubalulekile kuwe ngochwepheshe. Ukuthola "ama-superposts" anjalo ngendlela yokungakunaki ukuhlaselwa kwakho, kubalulekile ukusebenza ngokwakho ukuzethemba, ngoba kuvela ekucabangeni kwakho, noma ngabe kuzokwazi ukunciphisa amandla akho. Ungavumeli abantu ukuba bakwehlise kusukela enkambweni.
Cabanga "Izindlela"
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Okwakho azikho izithiyo
Imvamisa, izimbangela zokwehluleka okucabangayo zingangeni lapho kungenalo amathuba okuqaliswa kwamasu, kodwa ekuthini kungabaza komuntu uqobo, funa izindlela zokuxazulula inkinga. Khumbula ukuthi noma iyiphi inkinga ixazululwa, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthola indlela efanele ukwedlula futhi ijabulele abantu abaphumelelayo, ngaphandle kokukhononda "kokungabi nabulungisa emhlabeni jikelele."
Kubo, ubudlelwano obuvele buvele bubalulekile.
Kuyiqiniso, izingxabano kungenzeka ngisho nalabo bantu lapho ubudlelwane obuthembekile obusebolile, futhi kungabonakala nje - ngeke kube khona ukushiyeka. Kodwa-ke, ngisho nokuxabana okungathi sína nomuntu obalulekile empilweni yakho akusona isizathu salobu budlelwano - umuntu ophumelelayo uhlala esebenza ngoxhumana nabo aqoqiwe, futhi hhayi ikhwalithi yabo ukufeza okuningi.
Akumangazi ukwehluleka
Ngisho nohlelo olucabangayo kakhulu kungenzeka lusebenze. Futhi umuntu ophumelelayo uyakwazi lokhu, ngakho-ke ulungiselela "izindlela zokubuyela emuva" kusengaphambili noma uhlelo olubizwa ngokuthi yicebo elisetshenziselwa isimo esiphuthumayo. QAPHELA: Ungalokothi ubeke umkhawulo ngenketho eyodwa yokwakha izehlakalo, uzilungiselele ukushintsha okuthile uma kufanele uxazulule izinkinga ezivuthayo ngokuzumayo, ngoba lokhu kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa ukuguquguquka kwengqondo kuwe, kuphela kulokhu uzokuthola okufiselekayo ngaphandle kokubi ukulahleka.