Intuthuko ingumthetho oyinhloko wendawo yonke. Konke okusizungezile kuhlale kukhula futhi kuthuthukiswa. Iningi labantu alifuni ukuthuthuka ngonembeza, futhi lokhu kungumthombo wenkathazo ebalulekile.
Lokhu kungenxa yokungafani kobuchopho, kufiphele ukuqina futhi kuzama ngamandla abo bonke ukuba bahlale endaweni yokunethezeka. Kepha ngaphambi komuntu, umsebenzi wokuqashelwa kwentuthuko unengqondo, futhi ngisho nasekuseni kwazo zonke izindawo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, lowo namuhla ongenaso isikhathi sokwakha ubuchwepheshe obusha, izinhlelo zekhompyutha, uwela emphakathini, kuyaba nzima ukuthola umsebenzi omuhle. Lapho umuntu ephikisana neqiniso elineqiniso, liqala ukwakha umphefumulo "ulukhuni" ukwenza kabusha isikhundla sokuphila.
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Kwenzekani kumuntu uma engakunaki ukuziphendukela kwemvelo? Icala lokuphila. Umndeni ojwayelekile: umyeni, unkosikazi kanye nengane yabantu abadala, ushade iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-25. Umlingani usuye wahlakulela izinyathelo ezinkulu ngolwazi ngaye kanye nendawo yonke: izincwadi, izifundo, ukuqeqeshwa, ukuqeqeshwa okungokomoya, futhi kwakhula ngokukhethekile, imali yakhula. Ngamafuphi, kwaba ngumuntu ovumelanayo futhi ophumelelayo.
Unkosikazi ekukhuleni kwakhe okuqondayo nangokomoya wasikhanyisa ngemuva kwakhe ngezinyathelo eziningi, noma uhlele. Bengihlala ezidingweni zasendulo: izingubo, ukupheka, ama-serials, inhlebo ngezintombi ... Ngaphezu kwalokho, ama-bastards azungeze abanye "amatshe avunwe kuphela."
Kwalasha phakathi kwangempela kwabashadikazi kwakhula. Umyeni akazange azame ukuwukhipha, azame ngobuqotho ukusungula ubuhlobo obuyinkimbinkimbi, ekholelwa emphumeleni omuhle kakhulu. Unkosikazi wamthumela ngayo yonke imisebenzi yakhe yezengqondo nakwezinye izinto ezingokomoya kude neCassiopeopeia, yagculiseka impela ngale swemp. Ukubona ukonakaliswa komuntu, uthando lwendoda yakhe kumkakhe unkosikazi kaGasla, akakwazanga ukuma ahambe. Kowesifazane waba ukushaqeka. Omunye wasala. Ingane iphunyuke endlini kusukela ekuhluphekeni okungabekezeleleki kukamama. Impilo yakhe kusuka ekucindezelweni kakhulu ihlukana. Ngenxa yokuphazamiseka kwenhliziyo njalo, waxoshwa emsebenzini. Kungazelelwe, ubaba wakhe osekhulile, abasebuntwaneni "emimelweni", babenempilo eyabiwe, kwadingeka ukuba bayithathe futhi banakekele. Ngobusuku bonke bawa yonke imikhakha yempilo. Wahlala emkhombeni ophukile, ohlangothini lwempilo, ngani? Umkhathi wenza ifomethi enzima ngoba yema entuthukweni.
Lapho usuphendule endabeni yezenhlalo ezungezile, umuntu uqala ukucasulwa iqiniso lokuthi uwele ngemuva kwempilo ebulalayo. Kwe-Psychology Ibizwa ngokuthi "Projection". Umuntu ongavuthiwe ngokomoya nangokuphindakhuwo unawo unecala nxazonke, ngaphandle kwakhe. Lesi yisopha yomuntu ophathwe ekukhuleni kwaso, futhi lesi yisimo sohlukunyezwa.
Khumbula, uma i-Reality ingahambelani nokulindelwe kwakho, okokuqala kwayo iyadingeka ngokunembeza ithuthukise: Zithuthukise futhi uthuthukise ikhwalithi yomphakathi ngokukhethekile kwazo, ngoba namuhla inqubo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo iyaqhubeka ngejubane elisheshayo. Ngubani owakuqonda, uzoqoqa zonke izinzuzo zomhlaba.