Lokhu yikho kanye okuzosiza ukuthi kuthathwe futhi kube yikuphela. Mayelana nalezi zidingo zabesilisa, udokotela oqeqeshiwe wezengqondo, umbhali kanye nezifundo zowesifazane ezihola ebudlelwaneni uVadim Kurkin.
1. Umlingani
Enye yezimfihlo eziyinhloko ze-psychology of ubudlelwano yikhono lokulalela umlingani. Lalela konke ngentshisakalo konke ngalokho umuntu afuna ukukusho, futhi akubalule lokhu, kungaba nzima emsebenzini wakhe noma imibono emnandi. Amandla okulalela awasho ukuthi ukuqwashisa ngakho konke okwenziwa yindoda. Into esemqoka ukuthi wayenomuzwa wokuthi lona wesifazane uye kuye ngokuphelele, ucabanga nokuba ngcono.
2. UMuza
Kusemandleni okukholelwa kumuntu omgqugquzeli naye futhi ancome amandla abesifazane ukuze ancome. Musa ukudumisa ngezenzo, kepha qaphela lokho okungakaze kwenze. Ozithobayo, ahlenge izici abazifisayo, nokuthi yini ayesanda kukhulelwa ukuyisebenzisa. Ukukholwa endodeni kuyamduthelela futhi kuphazamise ukunqotshwa kokuhlalisana komuntu siqu nakwamakhompiyutha.
3. Uthando, umndeni
Kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, insikazi ihlala iwumsebenzi wokugcina induduzo endlini, inikeze umuntu ezolile nokuqiniseka ukuthi bayakuthanda nokulinda. Ngenxa yomgcini wokugxila, indlu iba yindawo yamandla - ngifuna ukubuya lapho, indoda iphumule lapho futhi ibuyise amandla, ukuthola amandla okufezekisa. Uhlangane naye ngenjabulo, mgcizelele ukunakekelwa nokufudumala, futhi uzohlala egcwele amandla.
4. Sex
Lona ngowesifazane owaziyo ukuthi angazi kanjani futhi azithande. Indoda e-Aura e-Aura yakhe ayiveli izilingo ohlangothini. Unamandla okubakhethwe yilokho okuhlangenwe nakho akwaziyo - futhi lokhu akusebenzi kuphela ukusondelana, kodwa neminye imikhakha yempilo. Ngakho-ke, isidingo sowesilisa esiyinhloko siyintuthuko, ngakho-ke, kuyadingeka ukuthi ufunde ukuthi ungasenza kanjani isimo esifanele sakho ngokwakho, ake uhambe ngokulawula bese uqala ukucasulwa ukukhula komuntu. Futhi-ke indoda ayisoze yaguquka.
5. ukuzinikela
Owesifazane ozinikele unesipho esisemqoka sokusakaza umuzwa wokuthi ungowomuntu oyedwa kuphela. Udonsela ukunaka, kepha akatholakali, kuyabonakala kuwo wonke umuntu, kepha ulungile. Khonza okhethiwe wakho, futhi uzothola ukuphindisela kukho.
6. umngani
Umngani weqiniso ukwamukela njengoba unjalo, futhi owesifazane wangempela uyamukela. Ngaye, umuntu angaphumula endimeni yeqhawe, aveze ngokuphelele futhi azibonge. Yize amadoda endalo endalweni aqinile futhi ahlose ukulwa futhi anqobele, ukumelana nakho njalo nasekhaya, futhi akekho okwazi ukusebenza. Ngakho-ke, kudingekile hhayi ukukhuthaza ukukhula komuntu, kepha futhi umvumele aphumule endaweni yakho.
7. Ego
Lona ngowesifazane oziqhenyayo. Leli khono liyamthanda indoda futhi lizondla ngentshiseko yakhe njalo, liba nesaba umlingisi wakhe wokuqala womuntu onqobayo, umzingeli nowina. Phonsa izingubo ezindala futhi ngisho nasekhaya eshintshana imibala yayo. Futhi-ke uzohlala unokungalingani nokungacabangi futhi okuvelele, okusho ukuthi ngendoda uzohlala ekhanga futhi efiselekayo.
Amantombazane amahle, ufuna ngokwengeziwe izeluleko ngenjabulo yabesifazane? Funda izimfihlo zobudlelwano phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane futhi uthole ulwazi lwezengqondo zabesilisa nabesifazane, kanye namaphutha abesifazane nokuthi ungazilungisa kanjani.
I-Psychology-Practitioner Vadim Kurkin ikumema ukuba ufike kwisifundo se-inthanethi sezinsuku eziyi-7 "sobudlelwano obujabulisayo" odalelwe izilaleli zabesifazane. Ukuqeqeshwa kuzokwenzeka ngesimo sama-webinars wakusihlwa ukufinyelela ukuqoshwa kwevidiyo.
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