Ukwakhiwa kobudlelwano - into eyinkimbinkimbi futhi kudinga ukubuya okuvela kubo bobabili abalingani, kepha kwenzeka ukuthi le ndoda ingenalo ithuba lokuheha umfazi omuhle, nakho konke ngoba umuntu angazikholi ngezikhathi ezithile kungagxeka. Mayelana nokuthi yini lezi zikhathi, sizokhuluma namuhla futhi sikhulume.
Indoda ilandisa ngowesifazane ukuba "indawo yakhe"
Vumelana, amacebo anjalo ngeke athande noma ngubani - nowesifazane, hhayi owesilisa, kanti owokugcina acabange ukuthi "amahlaya" awo angathinta le ntombazane, futhi akukho mbuzo wokusebenzisa le ndlela. Uma eminyakeni engama-40 eyedlule, ukuphawula okunjalo kungenzeka kwenziwe ngokwedlulele, namuhla ukubonakala ngempi nezinkolelo zomngane wakho ukuthi zizale futhi zikhulise izingane, kuzoba yinto yokugcina. ngeke nje ukungaphazamisi nomuntu, ungakwazi ukumelana nemibono engafanele.
Ungahlali uhlala kuwe
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I-Lulanglity Engaguqukayo
Akekho umuntu okuvikele ukuthi ubonise inkanuko futhi uyeke ekuhambeni okunqamulelayo lapho uwedwa, kodwa uwedwa, isithakazelo esiqhubekayo kulesi sihloko ngaphandle kokuthi sidideke, kodwa futhi siyesabisa intombazane. Khumbula ukuthi ukuncoma okuhlambalazayo akukaze kubhekwe njengokuncoma komgomo. Uma unentshisekelo ngempela entombazaneni futhi unethemba lokusungula oxhumana naye, kungcono ukunikela amahlaya ase-sebaceous futhi ubeke amazwana ezicini zangaphandle zowesifazane.
UNarcissus "esigcawini"
Kuyiqiniso, kubalulekile ukuthuthukisa ukuzethemba kanye nekhono lokumelana nokuhlaselwa ngokwengqondo, ngenkathi kukhululwa ngokweqile futhi kukhulunywa njalo ngesithandwa sakho ngesikhathi sokuxhumana nabantu abangagunyaziwe kunganzima ukungathakazeli, kodwa kunalokho, ukuxuba kowesifazane owufunayo. Khumbula: Noma ngubani kubalulekile ukuzwa izinto ezimnandi ekhelini lakho, ngakho-ke ashintshe ukugxila kokunakwa umlingani wakho, okuzomangaza ukumangalisa intshisekelo yakho kuyo. Act!
Ukweqisa ngokweqile
Abesifazane abaningi be-Loable Loable ngeke babekezelele abazongenela ukhetho lwabalingani. Kwesinye isikhathi indoda ayifuni ukwenza ukwenqaba ukufeza, ukuqhubeka nemizamo ephikelelayo yokubopha inkhulumomphendvulwano. Ngaphezu kolaka, esimweni esinjalo, ubulili obuhlukile akufanele bathembele, ngoba ukubekezela ngisho nentombazane enhle kakhulu ilinganiselwe. Uma ubona ukuthi le ntombazane ayilungiselelwe ukuxhumana, kungcono ukuyeka ukuqomisana nhlobo - kubalulekile ukubheka isimo somuntu ozoyibopha ngayo inkhulumomphendvulwano.