Njengoba wazi, okwamanje u-Anna Sedokova akekho ebudlelwaneni obuhlala njalo, ngakho-ke intombazane ingakwazi ukuhlangana nanoma iyiphi insizwa efana. LOKHO u-Ana nokwenza - ngolunye usuku umculi wabanjwa nensizwa eyaba yi-basketball oneminyaka engu-27 ubudala uJanis Timm. Kuyiqiniso, umehluko eminyakeni yazo kunzima ukubiza amagama amakhulu - kuphela oneminyaka eyi-9 - noma kunjalo, leli qiniso laphazanyiswa abalandeli bomculi.
Umbhangqwana uqaphele kwelinye lamahhotela aseTurkey. Bamukele futhi, kubonakala sengathi, akuzange kunake izintatheli.
Kuze kube manje, akukho okuphawulayo okuvela ku-Anna uqobo noJanis, futhi, kunjalo, kunzima ukusho ukuthi ubudlelwano obubopha ubuntu obubodwa ababodwa.
Khumbula ukuthi uJanis uyisakhamuzi saseLatvia, kodwa eminyakeni embalwa edlule uhlala eMoscow. Kuyaziwa ukuthi umdlali we-basketball washada, noma kunjalo, zonke izithombe ezihlanganyelwe zomsubathi zisuswe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana.
Izindaba zenoveli kaThimma kanye nesihlalo sangemuva bekungalindelekanga, ngoba emasontweni ambalwa edlule, u-Ana waqashelwa omunye umsubathi omncane, kodwa umsubathi omncane ofanayo, noReri Mironova.
Sizame ukuthola ukuthi, kunini ubunzima obuzofanela babhekane nombhangqwana onomehluko omkhulu eminyakeni yobudala.
Kungenzeka ube nezintshisakalo ezihlukile.
Kuyinto eyodwa uma uthanda uSushi, futhi uyikhishi elisempumalanga, futhi uhluke ngokuphelele lapho niyizizukulwane ezahlukene. Qaphela ukuthi ngomehluko oneminyaka engaphezu kwengu-10, eminyakeni embalwa umlingani omkhulu uzoqala ukulahlekelwa amandla, kanti owesibili uzoqhakaza kuphela. Ukuhlangana okufanayo kwezimo kuholela emahlazweni amakhulu futhi kwehlukanisa.
Ungahle ungawuqondi umndeni
Ngaphezu kwalokho, womabili kanye neyakho. Iningi lethu labazali banamathela ekubukeni kwendabuko, lapho indoda endala yentokazi ingeminyaka eminingana. Okubi kakhulu, isimo siyakhula lapho owesifazane emdala kakhulu kunendoda - ukungafani kweminyaka enjalo kunzima ukuqonda isizukulwane esedlule. Kodwa-ke, uma ukulahlwa kwezihlobo kungakwesabi, hamba njengoba uzizwa.
Izinkinga Ngezingane Zabalingani
Imvamisa, ozakwethu abadala kunawe iminyaka engu-15 noma ngaphezulu banezingane ezingakwazi ukukuphatha nje okupholile, kodwa futhi nokungathandeki. Kuyiqiniso, umndeni owedlule akufanele uthinte ubuhlobo bakho, kepha kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi izingane ekuxhumaneni kwangaphambilini ziyohlala zikhona empilweni yakho.
Izinkinga zempilo
Omdala ungumlingani wakho, izinkinga ezengeziwe zisempilweni yakhe. Akekho ovikelwe umshuwalense ngokumelene nezifo kunoma yimuphi unyaka, abantu banezifo ezingaphezu kuka-40, njengomthetho, zingamahlalakhona, okungokwemvelo impela. Ngakho-ke, lapho uhlela umndeni onendoda enamandla eqinile, khumbula ukuthi uzoba ndawonye hhayi nje ukuzijabulisa, kodwa futhi uhlale emgqeni wedokotela.