"Ndinezinto zam. Ke ngoko, ndicinga ukuba umfazi yindawo ekhitshini. Ndiyazi ukuba ukusuka kwimbono yamabhinqa, imvume enjalo ivungula ibi. Kodwa ndinokusithethelela ngokulula.
Ikhitshi yintliziyo yentsapho. Kuyinyani, ngoku ungumde, une-primea-yokuqala, apho kwakutsha umlilo. Nangona kunjalo, umfazi usaziva ngathi isekhitshini kangangokuba unokuzuza, udale intuthuzelo, nceda nceda intombazana. Ukusuka kule nto andikwenzi imveliso yokuba umfazi abe yindawo kwezinye iindawo zobomi-esikolweni, kwiofisi kagqirha, ngokwemvelo, kungcono ukuba sisigulana), kwi-ART kunye nobugcisa.
Kukho amabhinqa acwangcisa ikhitshi kwaye abanjiwe ngokupheleleyo. Umfazi wendlu. Bakholelwa ukuba indlu ngobizo lwabo kwaye ungafumani nto ihlazo elincinci kwinto yokuba abathathi nxaxheba kulo msebenzi kunye nobomi boluntu.
Kukho amabhinqa agqatwa phakathi kwemisebenzi kunye neengxaki zekhaya. Bazama ukwenza kakuhle nenye into. Ngamanye amaxesha, nobunzima, kunye ne-nerves kunye nomnqweno onomdla, thumela abantwana babo, kwaye bangancedi. Kodwa ke ophumeleleyo ongunaNaphakade, onobubele kuwo. Kwaye ukuqhubela phambili nzima kwakhe. Kubonakala kum ukuba abafazi abanjalo bayayithanda kakhulu. Kwaye hayi loo nzongo zoonongo abafundiswe iimagazini zokuthandazela kuphela kwaye banandiphe le mfundiso.
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, kukho abafazi abavakalisa intiyo edlangaleleyo yamakhaya. Bakholelwa ukuba lo mfazi awenzi oko udaliweyo, kwaye ngenzondelelo yenza umsebenzi. Kwizidalwa ezinjalo ndiyazisola, zixutywe nemfesane. Kubonakala kum ukuba enzonzobileni komphefumlo, akonanga, nangona baxambulisana ngokuchaseneyo, ngenxa yokuba bengacingeli amagwala kwaye ababizi. Ukusebenza ukusuka kwi-Dawn ukuya kwi-Dawn ayisiyo indawo yokuhlala. Nangona abafazi bafunda le migca, banokutshicela ebusweni bam batsho ukuba andiqondinto.
Bendinethamsanqa nenkosikazi yam. Sine-inile kunye iminyaka engamashumi amane anantlanu. Kwakukho izityholo ngezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kodwa soze - kuba wayegcwele ikhitshi. Andazi ukuba ukupheke njani konke konke. Kwaye uyathanda. Ngokomgaqo, ndikufanelekele, ndinokubilisa iMakaronium kwaye ndinqunyulwe kwiisosi ze-dortoral. Kwaye yonke into ihamba kakuhle. Ke ndiyatya xa umfazi wam eshiya indawo ethile. Kwaye xa ibuya, idla ngokundithoba nge-borcht, pilaf, iKhachapur. Umzukulwana wam yiminyaka elishumi elinesixhenxe ubudala. Umama upheka ngokugqibeleleyo. Kodwa ubiza umakhulu wakhe kwaye ucela ukupheka isuphu ayithandayo. Kwaye emva koko uza kuyenzela okanye uthumele utata ngeembiza ukuze ulungiselele.
Ikhitshi lisebenza. Kukuthengiseni kuphela umfazi emva kokubhaka i-pies entsha neyohlobo. Kubomi obuqhelekileyo, ebeya kudinwa kwaye emanzi. Kwaye ke kwakungekho nto, andizukuthi: "Sele ndiguquke, ndilungiselele," intlawulo eqhelekileyo. Ewe, yavela- ngoku uyacula. Hayi, ayidli.
Abafazi abaphikisi kakhulu. Andikwazi kakhulu. Iiyure ezintathu zidlula- kwaye sele ndilahla into kwibhokisi yomlilo. Banokukhumbula ngengozi le ntswelo isondele kakhulu kubusuku kwaye bathembisa intlabathi ethile, hlafuna uhlobo oluthile lwengca, i-qwack seagull-coffer-fit-fit-fit-fit. Kwaye nabo banoxolo oluninzi ngokupheleleyo: "Andinakuba nayo." Ingaba nobunono! Ndiyedwa ndizolile ngokupheleleyo.
I-Trady Yin ngoonyana. Qaphela: ekhitshini!
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Kodwa umfazi wam wayesethamsanqa. Kodwa kukho udidi lwamadoda anxulumene nemenyu yayo kakhulu. Funa isidlo sasemini sezitya ezintathu kwaye ukhonza nge-napkins. Iisoseji zibona njengembeko nesidima. Ndinomhlobo osandula ukuya eMelika. Xa umfazi wakho wakhonzayo umva wasongo, wabaphosa emva. Isibini esimangalisayo! Sula ngokupheleleyo, kodwa thandane iminyaka engamashumi amane anesixhenxe, nangona ayixatyiswa mihla le. Iisosi zakhawuleza, izitya zibetha.
Ngamanye amaxesha abasetyhini abamameli kwaye bacwangcise ukubetha - andizukuthi, bathi, badiniwe! Abanye abayeni bathi: "Ewe, awufuni-akukho sidingo. Ndiza kutya kwi-cafe. " Kwaye malunga neveki ichitha imali kuhlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho lokutya ngaphandle kwendlu, ngelixa umfazi eqhubele kwaye ebuyela esitotsheni. Amanye amadoda alulamileyo, umfazi esebunzinisiweyo, awuzola. Hayi, akunjalo, hayi ngonaphakade, ewe, andithethi ngokufa.
Ndiyakholelwa ukuba umyeni ufanele abe kwi-liss-zisa isonka, enze inkunkuma, uthenga iimveliso kuluhlu. Kodwa ihosteless ekhitshini kufuneka iwedwa. Okwesibini yinto engathethekiyo. Nokuba nguwuphi na lo ngumkhwekazi okanye umyeni.
Kubunzima bamadoda akhe, kungekuko oko kuya kuba nzima ukugculela ibhinqa kwaye itshixe ekhitshini ngonaphakade. Nangona ngohlobo lomfazi wakhe enyamezele ngaphezu kwamadoda. Hlala ixesha elide. Nangona kunjalo, yonke imihla ndiyambulela uThixo ngezinto ezimbini, kuba ukubhala kwakhe ukubhala nangozalelwa mfazi. "