Ndivile ukuqiqa kwakutshanje komfazi omnye malunga nokuba kufanelekile ukuba ifune ukufuna ubomi besatellite kwindawo eqolileyo. Inyani yile yokuba lo mfazi ungumhlolokazi, abantwana abadala. Emva kokuzila kunye namava okhathalelo lomyeni wakhe, wawumisela ubomi bakhe, waba nomdla, izihlobo, ukudala, ukufundisisa, ukuqhubela phambili emsebenzini wakhe. Kodwa umbuzo malunga nomntu osondeleyo kufutshane uhlala uvulekile kwaye awunayo impendulo. Ndingathanda, nangona kunjalo, ininzi "kodwa".
Nantsi iphupha ngesandla, njengoko besitsho.
Ndikwiqela labafazi abasemncinci kunam, ndisentsimini. Ndijongeka ngathi yinto engaqhelekanga: Iinwele ezingafakwanga, ingubo ebanzi, engakhathalelwanga. Ndiyaqonda ukuba aba bafazi liqela lokuzibulala, bakwesihlwele, kwaye amasimi alungelelaniswe ebaleni. Kwaye bonke bayamgqibela kwaye balinde ngokungagungqiyo xa kufanelekile. Kwaye ndilindile, kodwa xa ithuba lam lifanelekile, ndithatha isigqibo sokuba ayindilanga, ndijike ndihambe. Akukho mntu unyanzela nabani na, ndihamba. "
Ndiva eli phupha, ndacela ngenyameko ihostele yakhe, into ayithethayo kuye. Uye wathi emsebenzini bahlala bejamelana nabantu abaninzi abancinci kunokuba kunjalo, ochazwe kumbuzo malunga nokufumana iqabane: "Intswelo." Kwaye utshata, hlalani ndyenda okanye okwesithathu. Kwaye ngamaphupha ethu, oku akukhangeli kuphela umntu osondeleyo, kukwamkelwa ukuba kuya kufuneka ahambe nononophelo lomntu kwakhona. Oogxa bakhe, benganamava anjalo, banxibelelanisa ngokulula ngemitshato yomtshato. Ngamaphupha, ayazibulala abavumayo ukuxhasa umntu kwimizuzu yokugqibela yobomi, uyabonakaliswa, nokuba la mava aya kukumelana namava. Iinkcukacha zokulala ezinomdla, ukuba akangasebenzi, inyuse ngaphakathi kuyo. Ndicinga ukuba le nto ibonakalisa "i-gust" ye-onnyanisic "yokudala ubudlelwane nomntu. Kwanangaphambi kokuba ingqondo ijika, amava, ingcinga, icala layo elingenakuthetha lithi: "Kwaye ndifuna, njengabo bafazi." Kodwa ubuthongo bubonisa ukhetho lwayo okwangoku, lushiya isihlwele sika-qatha onyanisekayo ekukhetheni abafazi.
Kwangelo xesha, ukukhangela umntu omthandayo yinxalenye yendalo yethu. Sifuna amangqina obomi bethu akhethekileyo, umntu ophilayo, ophethukayo ubomi bethu, ukuba ubomi bethu bube ziindawo zethu, Unokufaka igxalaba lakhe, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha - anike "ipinki" ukuze siqale ukwenza into. Kwaye siya kukwazi ukubonisa kwaye sihambe nobomi bomntu. Ewe kunjalo, sizabalazela ukulungiselela oku ngamanqanaba obomi ohlukeneyo, iminyaka apha ayinto. Izisa kuphela uhlengahlengiso kuphela.
Nangona kunjalo, eli Ngqina lisenokungabi yindoda kuphela kwaye lingelilo kuphela kwimo yendoda yakhe. Ulwalamano olusondeleyo lunokuba neefom ezahlukeneyo zoqhakamshelwano: Umhlobo, umntu osebenza naye, umfundi okanye utitshala, iqabane lakho ... kufanelekile ukwandisa umbono wakho we-heroneine.
Kwaye ngawaphi amaphupha akho? Imizekelo yamaphupha akho ethunyelwa ngeposi: [email protected]. Ngendlela, amaphupha kulula kakhulu ukuveza ukuba kwileta eya kumhleli uya kubhala iimeko ezingaphambili zobomi, kodwa okona kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo kunye neengcinga zelixesha lokuvuka kweli phupha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin