Bambalwa abafuna ukuva ukugxeka kwidilesi yabo, ngakumbi xa kufike ukugxekwa kwentshabalalo, xa umntu ebonisa into embi kuwe, engakhokeli naziphi na iimpikiswano. Rhoqo siswele umonde kunye nokukwazi ukwahlula uburharha kwithuba lokulungisa into kumlinganiswa wakho. Siza kukuxelela indlela yokufumana ingenelo ngokugxeka kwidilesi yakho.
Thatha ingqalelo umgangatho wabantu abakugxekayo
Rhoqo bazama "ukufundisa" nje abantu abangangqinelaniyo abaqinisekileyo ukuba uluvo oluthembekileyo yinto enye kuphela - bayinto enye. Ukugxekwa okungafanelekanga, bazama ukutshintsha uxanduva kwaye baphinde baphinde baphinde baphinde baphendule. Ukuba uziva ngathi imbambano iqaqambile, zama ukushiya, okanye inyanga imeko yefilosofi - igcina ngokungakhathalelwanga kwiimeko ezininzi.
Sukuthatha ukugxekwa entliziyweni
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Funda ukubona isiseko samabango.
Ngamanye amaxesha umntu ogxekayo kunzima ukucwangcisa iingcinga zakhe, kwaye ubonakalisa umbono wakhe ngohlobo lwebango kuwe, kwakhona, ukufudukela emntwini. Kule meko, jonga nomntu okuthetha ukuba ngokukhethekileyo ufuna ukulungisa ngaphakathi kuwe. Emva kokuba efumene impendulo, musa ukungxama ukuze uzihle ngamabinzana "Ndiyazi ukuba andizukuphumelela kum," kuhlala kukho iingxaki kum. " Endaweni yoko, gxila kwisigqibo-into onokuyenza ukuze imeko ayenzeki, mhlawumbi kufuneka utshintshe into kwindlela yakho okanye uziqonde nje ukuba luhlobo lomntu.
Sebenza ngokuzithemba kwakho
Ukuba uchukunyiswe ngamazwi oogxa bakhe okanye abahlobo abangasoloko bonwabile nawe, mabangakhathali kwaye aqonde, kunokubakho ngokuzithemba okufuneka kulungiswe ngokukhawuleza. Njengomthetho, abantu abangaqinisekanga, ukongeza kokugxekwa kwangaphandle, baqala ukuzigxeka ngakumbi ngakumbi kunabo banokukwenza. Ayizukuphela, ayiyi kuphela, kufuneka uqonde le-Samochy ihlala inika i-neurosis kunye nezinye iingxaki zengqondo.
Ukuba uziva ngathi imeko ayikuvumeli ukuba uhambe, nceda uqhagamshelane nengcali, kunye apho unokwenza ingxaki yakho. Kwaye qiniseka ukuba uzenza mpazamo!
Vumela okungalunganga
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