Isizathu sokuba ungatshatanga, akukho mntu unomdla - wothuka, akunjalo? Izihlobo ziyabuza imicimbi enjalo malunga nomcimbi "kunye nezinto" ne "kwaye" nento eyenziwayo ", ethi ibuze, incoko nje. Kungenxa yoko le nto kunganyanzelekanga ukubaguqula kunye neTirara ukuba awunyanzelekanga ukuba uhambelane nolindelo lwabo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko ekusondeleni kuzo ekubuyeni ngokungazenzisi xa belinde "i-topot yemilenze encinci" -ezo meko siye salungiselela izizathu ze-Universal.
Guqula yonke into ukuze uhlekise
Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokungahoyi imbambano yokuqalisa kukunamathela kunye. Abanye babububudenge bathi abanye bantwana ngokwabo, ngenxa yoko abanakwenza umntu afana nobudala. Abanye bakhumbula ukuba isilwanyana okanye umyeni wabo nguMntwana omnye, kwaye ukuhlawula enye ngakumbi. Ukuphendula okungekhoyo okungalunganga uya kunika, kokuphantsi uya kubuza umbuzo ongathandekiyo.
Umntwana akufuneki abe ngumthwalo kuwe
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Sixelele ngemeko yakho yezinto ezithile
I-razometric ibele umntwana xa ungakhange wenze indlu, isitokhwe sezinto ezibonakalayo kwaye ayizange ifumane wonke umsebenzi onokuthi uye kwikhefu lokuya kubeleka. Cacisela uMama noTata, yimalini inkathalo yomntwana - ibhedi esemgangathweni kunye ne-stroller, ukuthenga uMgaqo-nkqubo we-PMS kwikliniki yabucala, ukuzala umntwana ngogqirha. Beka ubomi bomntu omncinci ngenxa yokoneliseka kweemfuno zabanye abantu sisidenge somntu omdala. Umntwana kufuneka acwangciswe kwaye azelwe xa bobabini abazali belungiselela ukubonakala kwakhe.
Khumbuza inkqubo yosuku
Ukuba awuhlali nabazali bam ixesha elide kwaye ubone nabo kanye iiveki ezimbalwa, akumangalisi ukuba abanalwazi lokuba nento ohlala ngayo. Umama, ucela ubuyele abazukulwana bakhe, basenokungazi ukuba ubuyile emsebenzini ungadlulanga i-7 PM, kwaye emva koko uyokutya, funda le ncwadi ngaphambi kokuba uvuke 7. Ishedyuli eqinileyo ayishiyi xesha lokukhathalela umntwana, kwaye ukuthandabuza kwakho ukuncama indlela eqhelekileyo yobomi ngesiqhelo kwaye icacisiwe.
Ukuhamba nomntwana ayilunganga
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Ndixelele ukuba yintoni ukucwangcisa
Kungenzeka ukuba iNyaniso izakuphupha kungekudala kokutshintsha indawo yokuhlala. Kwaye nokuba akukho nto injalo kwezi zicwangciso, ungathandabuzi ukumamela kancinci. Kodwa uya kufumana isizathu esivakalayo sokuba kutheni ndingakhange ndizuze inzala - akukho mntu uya kuphikisana ngolu hlobo. Abazali baya kusinda ngezicwangciso zakho zesibindi kwaye baya kuyeka ukuphuma kobomi bakho buqu ixesha elide.
Unabo abantwana? Ngaba uyiqonde ukuba ufuna ukuba nomntwana?