Isibini ngasinye sinomntu onomsindo ophantsi okanye ophakamileyo wesondo kuneqabane lesibini. Nangona kunjalo, kwezinye iimeko, ukuxabana okusempilweni ngesondo kuya kuphuhlisa ukwahlukana, emva koko kunokuxhomekeka okungathandekiyo.
Ungawufumani njani indoda yakho inombono obalaseleyo?
Iingcali zengqondo zikhokelela kwiimpawu ezithandwayo:
-Indoda enengxaki enomdla ijongeka ihamba iifilimu ezihamba kubantu abadala, kwaye iyenza yedwa ngaphandle kokubopha ubudlelwane bakho ngokwesondo.
- Ngalo lonke ixesha emva kwesondo kunye nawe, uzama ngokwanelisa emva kwethutyana.
-Ukuba ungasondeli ngequbuliso ukusondela, uqalisa ukusabela ngokungakhathali.
Yintoni inokwenzeka ukuba umntu uza kujonga inkanuko ecaleni?
Ngaphandle kokunxanwa ngesondo ngokwesondo, hayi yonke i-phegine yesondo "iya kuthi ithathe isigqibo malunga nerestu. Zonke izinto nganye: Ukuba umntu usonjululwe xa uqhagamshelane nayo nayiphi na inkosikazi eyamphendula nge-Retroicity, enye ayiyi kujonga kwiqabane elitsha, kodwa ngenxa yokuba umfazi wakhe uyakuhlutha ngokupheleleyo. Uninzi lwazo, ingxaki iyabhabha, apho elinye iqabane liya kuvulwa ngesondo, liqala ngenxa yokukrokrela kwesiqingatha sesibini ngenkani, kwaye ihlala irhaqwetha.
Umntu oxhomekekileyo akacingi ngolonwabo lwakho
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Ungawahlula njani amandla aphezulu okusasazeka ngokwesondo?
Umahluko ophambili unokuthathwa njengendlela yayo yokwaneliseka kwakho: Ngaba le ndoda izama ukukholisa okanye ngaba lolona lonwabo lwakho? Uninzi lwabantu abaxhomekekiyo abacingi ngeqabane labo bonke, bakhetha ukufumana ukukhululwa ngokukhawuleza. Iqabane elinembutho esempilweni kwisini, njengomthetho, igxile kulwaneliseko lwesiqingatha sentsimbi yesibini.
Yintoni omele uyenze ukuba iqabane lakho lesondo longezelelo?
Okona kubaluleke kakhulu, akunyanzelekanga ukuba uqonde ukuba ngaphandle kwengcali apha. Akunakwenzeka ukufumana isisombululo kwingxaki, kuba ukuxhomekeka ngokwesondo akuhlukile kwezinye iintlobo zokuxhomekeka okudinga ukuphazamiseka. Ukuba iqabane lixabiseke ngokwenene bubudlelwane bakho, yena ngesabelo esikhulu sokufumana uncedo lobungcali ukuze ugcine ngokulandelayo, kodwa umnqweno wokuzinceda kuye, kuba akunakwenzeka ukuba ancede umntu ongenguye EYA KUPHELA UBOMI weNgxaki.