Uza apha kwiinyanga ezininzi kwaye akakwazi ukwahlukana. Kodwa emva kwethuba, i-Peel iya kuwa, awungomntu ungalunganga ocwangcise ukwakha ubudlelwane obude. Kodwa yonke loo nto kukuba ingqondo yothando ayikaze yenzeke phakathi kwakho, kwakukho inkanuko enye. Ke indlela yokwahlula ngale mvakalelo zimbini ukuze kwinqanaba lokuqala kufuneka uqonde, ngaba kufanelekile ukuchitha ixesha emntwini ongayi kuba nebali elide? Sizamile ukufumanisa.
Uxhomekeke emzimbeni omnye komnye
Xa intlanganiso, hayi kamsihlandlo sokuqala, kubonakala ngathi intliziyo ilungele ukutsiba esifubeni, kwaye ngokwenyani. Iingcali zengqondo zibonisa ukuba ukuxhomekeka kwiqabane kuyakhula ngokufanayo, okungenakubalwa kubudlelwane obunempilo. Ukuba awukwazi ukugxila ngokwakho, endaweni yoko uqhubekeka intlanganiso yakho yokugqibela entlokweni yakho, cinga ukuba ufuna amava anjalo ukuba kunzima ukubiza uthando?
Ukuba usombulula iingxaki ebhedini, akayi ndawo
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Kunzima kuwe ukwahlula
Olunye uphawu lobudlelwane obuxhomekeke ekuxhomekekeni apho kungekho luthando-amava kunye nokuqhawuka ngokwakho xa iqabane lakho alikho. Umntu ozithembileyo kuye kwaye isiqingatha sakhe sesibini soze sithathwe yiminxeba yesibini kunye nemiyalezo qho kwimizuzu emihlanu, esoyika loo nto xa kungekho, kulungile ukuya kwirethomongo. Ulawulo olusisigxina lunokutsalwa nakwelona qabane linothando, kwaye, njengommiselo, esi simo sengqondo asinanto yakwenza nothando.
Ubeka kuphela ebhedini
Ingxabano yesaqhwithi elityalwe ngokukhuselekileyo ebhedini, inokwenzeka kwi-binema kuphela. Makhe ufumane ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kwiyure elandelayo, kodwa ingxaki ayiyengaphi na, oko kuthetha ukuba uza kubuya kwakhona. Njengommiselo, abantu banomdla onyanisekileyo omnye komnye abangenzi iingxaki zemaski kubudlelwane. Uyavuma?
Awunakho ukuphila ngaphandle kwemvakalelo eqhubekayo
Iimvakalelo eziqaqambileyo, imvakalelo yokugqobhoza-i-satellite esisigxina yobuphi na ubudlelwane, kodwa kuphela kwinqanaba lokuqala, emva kwethuba, sele lufundile kunye noxolo kwaye uyonwabele nje inkampani yeqabane. Nangona kunjalo, kwisibini, apho kwintloko yekona kuphela komtsalane kuphela, ukungabikho kweemvakalelo eziqhumayo yintlekele yokwenene, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo imeko "yokutshintsha kweemvakalelo" ayinakubizwa ngokuba luthando.