Ewe kunjalo, isigqibo sokuba ngumama kufuneka simiswe kwaye sizithandela. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba umntwana akapheleli nje ongapheliyo, ukuhleka kunye nabazali abanelisekileyo, umsebenzi onzima ongathethi ukuba ungonwabanga, kodwa oko akuthethi ukuba uvuyo lomama lulahliwe. Siza kuxela ngezizathu ezithathu ezenzelwe ukukhuthaza ukuba ucwangcise ukwanda kosapho.
Ungaphinda uphinde uphile ixesha lobuntwana
Inkangeleko yendlu yomntwana iya kuyiguqula ngokupheleleyo indlela yakho kwaye iWorldvelive Vivali. Ungayi "ngokusemthethweni" ukungqubana kwihlabathi labantwana abalonwabo lwabantwana abangafumanekiyo kuwe ukusukela kwinguqu ukuya kwisikolo samabanga aphakamileyo. Ndikunye nomntwana, uya kukwazi ukufumana italente engakrokrelwa ngaphambili, ithatha inxaxheba kwiminyhadala yokuyila okanye ichitha ixesha kunye nomntwana ovela kwizinto ezikhoyo akunaxesha. Ukongeza, unokukwazi ukuphinda ujonge indlela ojonga ngayo abazali, ukuba ubukhe wanengxaki yokuqonda. Kutheni ungazami?
Ungaphinda uphinde uphile ixesha lobuntwana
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Funda ukuzixabisa
Kwanangaphambi kokuba umntwana avele ebomini bakho, uya kubonakala ngathi unokunciphisa iintaba-lixesha lokuba nayo yonke indawo. Nangona kunjalo, kufanelekile ukubambelela kwiinkxalabo malunga nomntwana, njengoko uqala ukuqonda ukuba ooviwuzi bomzimba abunasiphelo, kwaye i-furnut yeyona nyani. Uyakufunda ukuhambisa umthwalo, cela uncedo ukuba luyimfuneko kwaye, ekugqibeleni, umamele iimfuno zomzimba wakho, ukuba abazenzi oku ngaphambili.
Sonke singalunganga
Ewe kunjalo, nawuphi na umama ofuna ukuba ngowona mntwana wakhe ungoyena mntu ulungileyo kuye, kodwa kweli nyana lihlala lidane, kodwa kweli xesha elingathandekiyo kukho i-dibanisa enkulu- uyaqonda ukuba akukho nto ilungileyo, kunokwenzeka yifune. Ukuthatha into onokuyifumana ukuze uphile kwaye ungakhathazeki kuba utshise i-Porridge, kwaye unyana wentombi sele ekwazi ukubopha izinqe, kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba akusekho amava aphezulu kunye nokugqibelela okungathandekiyo.