Kwenzeka ukuba abantu basetyhini baxhomekeke ekuxhomekekeni kwindoda - ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo. Ngenxa yoloyiko lwakho kunye neemvakalelo, baqala ukunciphisa okanye bazame ukulawula inyathelo ngalinye. Ubambiswano olunjalo lubekwe rhoqo ukubandezeleka okanye ukusilela. Imanyano eyonwabileyo neyonwabisayo isekwe kwinkululeko kunye nokuhloniphana. Nangona kunjalo, ngelixa sihlala phantsi kwempembelelo yeemvakalelo ezinokubangela izinto ezigwenxa, kunzima ukuthetha malunga netrasti kunye nenkxaso. Inqanaba lokuqala elinye kwelinye kunye nokunyibilikisa umsindo, umona kunye nomona uya kuba yingqondo yokuqonda. Ngomso kusenokungabikho. Ukuba ujonga nayiphi na imeko, qonda ukuba ubomi bomntu buxabisekile kwaye bubuthathaka, iingxabano ezibuthathaka kunye neengxabano zichithwe ngokwazo. Kwaye uqala nzima ukuxabisa amaxesha achithwe kunye. Olunye unyango olulungileyo lweemvakalelo eziphazamisayo zidibene nezithethe ezidibeneyo, enkosi apho esi sibini siqokelela khona ukuba nempembelelo yovuyo kunye namava afanelekileyo. Enye yeenkcubeko zam endizithandayo kukubingelela ekuseni! Rhoqo kusasa, uvula amehlo, umyeni wam kwaye ndiyalamkela ihlabathi. Oku kunokwenziwa njengoko uthanda kakhulu, kubaluleke kakhulu - ngokusuka entliziyweni. Inguqulelo yethu: "Uxolo, Molo, ndonwabile kuwe!". Xa sivuka, siyabulisa ihlabathi, uncume, yonke into iqala ukudlala ngemibala eqaqambileyo! Kwaye nayiphi na imeko, ukudinwa, okanye usizi, ukubulisa kwehlabathi kuyangqinela yonke into. Sifumanise lo mbuliso xa ndifunda incwadi ethi "Inkwenkwe nengelosi" ngexesha lokukhulelwa okokuqala. Khange ndidibane nencwadi eyomeleleyo yabantwana! Kule ncwadi, ingelosi yeza kwinkwenkwe rhoqo ngokuhlwa kwaye yamfundisa indlela yokuphila ngentliziyo evulekileyo, yayifundisa indlela yokuziphatha nobubele. Kwaye ngenye imini ingelosi yamxelela indlela yokwamkela ilizwe xa uvuka ekuseni. Ndikhumbula le nto imangalisayo, kwaye mna nomyeni wam saza sazisa ebomini bethu. Unokuba nokwahluka kwakho, zama ukuthetha ngokunyaniseka kwaye uzive uyonwaba ngentliziyo yam yonke.
Amandla kunye nobuthathaka: ubugcisa bakho
Ubomi bomfazi wale mihla yindawo eqaqambileyo yeziganeko, iintlanganiso kunye nemifanekiso! Kodwa amaxesha amaninzi abasetyhini bathatha imisebenzi emininzi kunye noxanduva, bobabini kushishino, nto leyo, engacacanga, atshise kwiiprojekthi ezininzi ezizezempilo kunye nokupheliswa komzimba. Ngakumbi amandla aninzi ethatha abantwana. Bafuna ingqalelo, inkathalo, i-coress, ngamanye amaxesha ngaphezulu kwendoda. Nakhe ibhinqa elinocimi, linyibilike kubo, lilahlekelwa neminqweno yabo. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubeka elungeleleni ukulingana kwawo onke amanqanaba obomi, yiva imiqondiso yomzimba, zinike ukuphumla kwaye uphumle. Ifumane "Hayi" xa ndingafuni ukwenza into, kwaye ndivumele ukuba ndibuthathaka ukuba amandla akwisiphumo. Sukuvala inkathalo yekhaya kuphela. Ukusasaza uxanduva kwiqabane, kwaye ukumthemba, ukungazami ukulawula - kwaye kulungile? Kwintsebenziswano, kubalulekile ukugcina ibhalansi. Indoda ibalulekile ukuba ive ibhinqa elinamandla kwaye kwangaxeshanye lifune ukhathalelo kunye nokukhusela kwakhe. Ibhinqa kukuziva inkxaso yentanda yakhe, kodwa kwangaxeshanye, yazi ukuba: ukuba, makube njalo nguThixo, fumana into eya kuthi, ixhase, ize nizinikezele zininzi kakhulu Bafuna. Sukuzibekela imida kwiikhonsepthi zomfazi obuthathaka okanye owomeleleyo. Yiba nguwe! Khumbula ukuba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba unyaniseke kuwe kunye nezinto ezisondeleyo.
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