Akukho nto imbi ngakumbi, xa iphambi kothando kunye neqabane lakho, ilizwi elingaphakathi liqala umoya: "Nina ke niyichaza ngaphandle kwempahla,", "ngekhe ungenzi njalo Ukwanelisa njengoko ethanda "kwaye njl njl. Amantombazana afuna kakhulu anokuthatha umhla kwimpembelelo yeemvakalelo, nangona ngokwenene kwakungekho. Ungawususa njani uvuyo oluqinileyo ngaphambi kwesondo, nokuba uyazi malunga nezinto zakho ezincinci? Siya kuxelela.
Bhala phantsi uphela
Sukuyishiya iingcinga entlokweni yakho: Thatha iphepha elingenanto uze ubhale yonke into ekhathazayo kwaye icaphukile. Ungabhala nantoni na. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kokuzilolonga kwengqondo kukubhala ngokungathi ubhalela enye intombazana, oko kukuthi, kubuso besithathu.
Zama ukufumana unobangela
Njengomthetho, iingcinga ezimbi malunga nokungafezeki kwazo ezelwe phantsi kwempembelelo yoluntu. Ukuba uyayiphawula intiyo kuwe, chaza ukuba awuthandi ngqo, emva koko khumbula ukuba ngubani onokuxelela i-are, enokubakho, ingxaki yakho ivela ekufindweni xa kuqalisa ukufikisa. Abazali bahlala becinga ngesondo ngento emdaka, benqatshelwe, kwaye ke ufake ukufakelwa: "Amantombazana anesidima akufuneki azibandakanyeke kwilitha." Ukuba intiyo kumzimba wakhe kunye nokoyika isini, nkqu nomntu omthandayo, awunishiyi, qiniseka ukuba uyaqhagamshelana nengcali eya kunceda ekuncedeni ingxaki.
Yonke into ayisoyiki njengoko ucinga
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Fumana iMisonyoka
Ukuba ilizwi langaphakathi liyaqhubeka ukwenzela ukuba iintsilelo zakho ziyintlekele, "chaza" ngokwakho ukuba ubuhle buyinto ebaluleke kakhulu, kwaye nakuphi na ukusilela kwihlabathi lanamhlanje liphulukanise nje. Ngapha koko, indoda yakho ikuthatha njengoko unjalo, ungabhatali kwizinto ezincinci.
Buza ngqo
Njengommiselo, izibini ezibandakanya ubudlelwane bokuthembana zinokwabelana nawaphi na amava. Sukukopa ongezantsi, ukwehlisa ukuzithemba kwakho kusezantsi, ukuba uyabelana ngamava akho kunye nendoda yakho. Singaphezulu kokuqiniseka ukuba impendulo yakhe iya kuvunyelwa ngokumangalisayo.