Ngokubanzi, iphupha kunye nabafi ebomini bokwenyani, abantu bahlala kwindawo eyahlukileyo ekutolikeni. Kukho izimvo ezahlukeneyo kubudlelwane kunye nekhohlo. Umzekelo, abantu abakholwayo kufuneka benze inani leenkolo ezininzi, beka amakhathisi komnye umphefumlo. Esona sigxina siqhelekileyo liphupha elibi, kufuneka lilibale. Kwangelo xesha, iphupha elinjalo ikwayinto yokutolika kunye nohlalutyo. Masizame ukufumanisa.
"Ndikwindlela ethile ebalulekileyo yokufunda - ebaluleke kakhulu ekuhlaleni, eqinisekileyo, kodwa ngenxa yesizathu sokuba ndingayiphathi kakuhle, ndikhumbula uhlobo oluthile lomsebenzi, njl njl. Ngumhlobo wexesha elide (ebomini - umntu ofunda naye ofunda naye kwiminyaka eli-16, ubudlelwane wasidibanisa esikolweni). Siyanxibelelana, ndingakumbi "ukufumanisa" ukufunda, kuba ndiziva ngathi unomdla wokuqhubeka nonxibelelwano, kodwa ifumene into. "
Masikhethe isikhundla esijonge ngaso kweli phupha. Ndisondele kwinkangeleko ye-gestalt yonyango kwitoliki yamaphupha. Unyango lwe-Gestalt luphakamisa ukuba yonke imifanekiso ephupheni yinxalenye yesazisi sephupha. Yonke imifanekiso yokulala yimibutho yakhe.
Ke, yinxalenye yokuqala yokulala ngendlela inciphisa ngayo intsingiselo yomsebenzi obalulekileyo wentlalo, uphononongo. Kungenzeka ukuba iqhawe lethu ngoku lithi ngandlel 'ithile likuphepha izikhundla zalo zentlalo nezentlalo. Mhlawumbi ngaphambili babenentsingiselo, kodwa ngenxa yeziganeko ezitsha kunye nezinto onomdla kuzo, wayeka ukukunika ukubaluleka.
Oku kwenzeka ukuba indoda ethengisayo nenenjongo, eyenza usapho kwaye ibele abantwana, itshintshe izinto eziphambili. Akusafuneki ukulwela ukusinda kwihlabathi lentlalo. Usapho kunye nokukhathalela abantwana baba yimisebenzi ephambili.
Ngoku yithathe intlanganiso nomhlobo wangaphambili oxhasa iimpawu zakhe zokunikela ingqalelo. Eli licandelo elibalulekileyo. Singena kubudlelwane, kwaye sithanda omnye umntu kwaye kuba sizithanda ecaleni komntu. Siyayithanda imeko yakho, ubulungisa, isimo sengqondo siye ngokwakho. Uhlala uva kubafazi abohlukeneyo: "Ndiyambulela, kuba bendiziva ndingumfazi wokwenene: intanda yam, ifuna ukuba ngoxinzelelo. Kwaye ekunyanzeleke ukuba ajonge emhlabeni ngendlela entsha: Ngovuyo kwaye unethemba. " Kule meko, siyamthanda kwaye ngumntu okufuphi, kunye namava abo.
Ngoku masibuyele ephupheni lethu. Ndicinga ukuba imbonakalo yomntu wangaphambili ikhumbuza ulutsha oluthile: Mhlawumbi izinto zokuzonwabisa, uthando, olungasanelanga ngoku.
Ngolu butho, ivuselela loo mava ahambelana nolwalamano lolutsha.
UMaria Dyachkova, ugqirha wezengqondo, ugqirha wosapho kunye noqeqesho olukhokelayo kwiZiko loQeqsho loQhulelo loQeqesho lweMarika Khazin