Ndiqinisekile ukuba ubuhle buvela ngaphakathi. Ke ngoko, kufuneka ukhathalele umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi. Okokuqala, ichaphazela iingcinga zethu. Ukuqonda kwethu kuyabumba ubomi bethu. Ubuhle bokwenyani abunanto yakwenza nokutyibilika, izihlalo zokutya, imilenze echetyiweyo, ipeyintile iinwele kunye nezinye iinwele eziqhutywa sisiphako.
Ubuhle yile nto ucinga ngawe, malunga nehlabathi elijikeleze usapho lwakho. Kukho intetho yezorhwebo: "Le nto siyityayo", ethi ukutya kwethu kudala imizimba yethu. Iingcamango zethu kukutya kwethu, zikondla kwaye zisenza njengoko zibona abanye. Ukuba umntu ulawulwa "ziingcamango ezimnandi", uyazithanda izinto azithandayo, enkosi ngento anayo, ke abantu baphawula ukuba ubonakala ezahlukileyo. Iqaqamba ulonwabo olungelanga ilizwe kunye nembumbulu. Kodwa ukuba intombazana ihlala ibambelela ngokuzigxeka, into engonelisekanga ngumntu okhubekileyo okanye ububi, umntu unqwenela, kwaye kuyabonakala kuye kwinqanaba elingaphantsi. Zonke iingcinga ezimbi kufuneka zitshabalalise. Kwaye ke ubuhle bakho abuyi kuphela kwangaphandle, kodwa buvela ngaphakathi.
Ndiyakwazi ukuyithetha le nto njengophumeleleyo i-ross russ rustal kunyaka ophelileyo. Ndingqongwe ngamantombazana amahle amahle ngokomhle, kodwa ngokuziqhelanisa nendlela abathetha ngayo ngabo, ukuba banobunzima, amathanga atyebileyo, abazi ukuba baziphethe njani, njl njl. Kulungile ukuba ndiyonwabela le nkqubo, kwandinceda ukuba ndiphumelele, kwaye hayi ukuba ndimhle ngakumbi kunabanye okanye ndinomlenze omde. Emva kwam, bendihlala ndibhalwa kwisikhokelo kwaye ndacela ukuba ndenze ntoni ukuphumelela kolu khuphiswano: Esinjani sona ukuba sisinxibo, indlela yokubonisa ukuqubha. Ndihlala ndiphendula le mibuzo ukuba akukho mbala wengubo okanye i-swinsuit igqiba yonke into: Abantu bawubona umphefumlo wakho ekuqaleni xa ufika ngeyona ndlela, kwaye emva koko ubuhle bakho bukhanya ngaphakathi.