-IAlina, yintoni exhomekeke, ngaba umntwana uyathanda ukufunda okanye hayi? Ngaba kufanelekile ukuba anyanzele ukuba akafuni ukwenza le nto?
-Ndicinga ukuba kuxhomekeke kumzekelo wabantu abadala. Ukuba uyayibona loo nto, ngaphandle kwayo yonke into, bafunda abazali, imeko esondeleyo, nangayiphi na imeko inxibelelana nale ncwadi, nokuba siphila khona ngoku. Njengommiselo, isizukulwana esitsha sobukhulu becala sichitha ixesha kwihlabathi elibonakalayo, lekhompyuter, ngetekhnoloji efakwe kwiteknoloji, kwiitafile kunye negajethi. Kwihlabathi langoku, ukuthembana kunye nomzekelo abazali kubaluleke kakhulu. Kukho umbuzo ofunda kangaphi umntwana kwaye uya kufunda. Kule meko, kubalulekile ukukhumbuza, ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo kunye neendlela zokuvuselela umdla. Umntu okhulileyo unendlela yayo yokwazi umhlaba, kwaye abantu abadala bakubantu abadala abangaqondakaliyo apho benza iimpazamo kwaye iimpazamo zenze iimpazamo kunye nendlela yokubethelela uthando kunye nomdla ebomini ngokufunda iincwadi ngeencwadi zokufunda. Ngapha koko, encwadini, sinokufunda ubomi bonke, kunye nemizekelo yabo kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zamabali abantu. Iincwadi zinokubizwa ngokuba: Imiyalelo yobomi. Kukule kuphela oku kwasekuqaleni kubalulekile ukuba ufunde iincwadi ezifanelekileyo, eziklasini.
- Usandula wazisa iNcwadi eyomeleleyo yencwadi yeSmart yabantwana kunye nabantu abadala. " Lwazalwa njani umbono wendalo yakhe?
"Mna ndingumama, nehlabathi elihlala kulo umntwana wam." Ndibona usuku lwanamhlanje, emva kwesantya sakhe, isingqisho, ukukhawulezisa. Abantu bakhawuleza baqiniseka ukuba babambe, ngaloo ndlela bakhawulezayo ixesha. Wonke umntu ungxamile, kwenye indawo ebaleka, eshiya amaxabiso asemva kwabo, ulibale malunga nokuqonda okuphantsi kokuqonda kunye nentsingiselo yokuba kutheni siphila kwihlabathi isizukulwana esitsha. Akukho xesha lokukhulisa, akukho bantwana. Abantu abadala bayalibala ukuba banikela ingqalelo kwaye bomelele abantwana. Akuphelanga kuphela ngabantwana bakho, kodwa nakubantwana ngokubanzi. Njengoko kwakunjalo ngaphambili? Abantwana bakhuliswa luluntu. Ndibukhumbula umntwana wam, ulutsha: Mna, kwaye oontanga bam abazange boyike ukuba umntu ongamaziyo ucinga ukuba, indoda okanye umfazi enokwenzakala. Kwaye ngoku siyoyika ukuvelisa umntwana esitratweni. Ngokwemvelo, kwesi sigqi kunye nesingqisho, kweli lizwe litsha yonke into yahlukile. Andazi ukuba yintoni ephembelelayo, mhlawumbi ukubawa kunye nokukhathazeka kube kanye. Ngokwenyani, oku kundishukumisela ekubeni ndenze le ncwadi. Ukubona, jonga ngokungagungqiyo kumphefumlo womntwana kwaye uqonde ukuba yintoni efihliweyo apho. Ngapha koko, ngobuchule, unokuvula iingcango zomphefumlo.
UAlina Delisse ukholelwa ukuba unothando lwaBantwana lokufunda eyona ndlela ilula nomzekelo wakho
-Ngaba ungathanda ukubhala, umzekelo, inoveli ye-adventure yabantwana? Okanye kukho into kwi-fantasy?
"Ndingathanda ukubhala into enjalo, njengoko ndifunda iincwadi izihlandlo ezininzi kwaye ndihlala ndinomdla. Kodwa kufuneka ukwazi ukubhala kuhlobo olunjalo, ukuba kukwindawo enjalo. Andikwazi ukuthetha ngokuqinisekileyo kuba umbhali kufuneka okungenani kancinci, ubuncinci usinde ngokwamacala achumileyo abhala ngayo. Kuya kufuneka akwazi ukuqonda ukucinga, ubomi. Le yinxalenye enobuthathaka kakhulu yokuqonda kwehlabathi - umhlaba ngamehlo omphefumlo uphela. U-Antoine De offry-oxhumkileyo wayichaza ngokugqibeleleyo le fihlakalo yehlabathi lomphefumlo ozelwe. Kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuba umntu ozelwe kulo nyaka, mabini, amathathu, alishumi, elishumi elinesihlanu, nokuba ngubani na, umzekelo, kwiminyaka engamashumi amathandathu. Kwindoda ehlala kwiMillenia, le minyaka ayiyonto, umhlaba uya kusinika ootitshala abahle. Kodwa, ngelishwa, indoda ivila, inkwantya, inekratshi, kwaye inkqwithela ayiniki kwanto, sinokuthi, namhlanje sibuhlungu. Xa abantu banamabala amaxabiso ngakumbi kwimbonakalo yawo, bephulukana nokuzaliswa kwangaphakathi, oko kukuthi, imilinganiselo yokomoya, ihlala ihambahamba. Nangona kunjalo, ezi yunithi zikhona, kodwa kubunzima ... yithontsi elwandle, kuba iziphumo.
Kwiminyaka eliqela eyadlulayo, incwadi yakho ethi "86400 Imizuzwana yoLonwabo", eyaye yaphumelela kakhulu. Khange ucinge ngokuqhubeka?
-Kwenzeka ukuba ucwangcise into. Ndingumntu onjalo ovela ngoku, kule nto ndikhoyo okwangoku. Ewe kunjalo, ndingathanda ukubhala i-sequel, kuba icandelo lokuqala lixela malunga nentombazana eselula efumene injongo yakhe yokholo, ukusebenza, iphinde yadlula inesifo sokuvavanywa, kodwa akuzange Buya kwiphupha lakhe, wayenokumbona aze aqhubeke ebomini. Waba ngumfazi owayephupha ngokuba. Oku bekuhamba nebali elithile, uhlobo lokukhuthaza. Le ncwadi iye yagqitywa. Ewe, ndingathanda ukuthatha ifilimu kuyo, yenza into engenanto, kodwa ngubani onokukwenza? Kumele ukuba kubekho into elungileyo, kumlawuli, ingqalelo kwiinkcukacha ze-aesthetics. Eli lixesha elahlukileyo. Kuba ndifunde umhlaba amaninzi, ndincokola nobuso obahlukileyo bokuyila, ukususa kwiziqwengana zevidiyo - le nxalenye yehlabathi kunye nobuchule buyazi. Ewe, ndingathanda ukubhala i-sequel. Ukuba oku kumiselwe ukuba kwenzeke ukuba yinxalenye yesibini yenoveli "86400 imizuzwana yolonwabo" kufuneka zibone ukukhanya, ukuphatha kunye nemizobo, kodwa okwangoku. Ndingathanda ukuqaphela ukuba inxenye yokuqala ndabhalela iminyaka eli-12, ndayidlale-ubomi bam bonke.
-Thetha ngomculo. Nguwuphi umzuzu oyithanda kakhulu xa usenza ingoma?
Ewe kunjalo, lo ngumzuzu xa ndifunda amagama engoma yexesha elizayo. Nangona mna andinibhaleli amazwi, andithethi iculo lembongi, kodwa ndikwisitande esiyilayo kunye nembongi eshukumayo iminyaka esibhozo. Ndinika uhlobo lolwalathiso, ndicinge okanye ndivakalelwa, emva koko isicatshulwa sithunyelwe kum, kwaye ukuba ufuna ukugaya-zonke iingoma kunye nabantwana, emva koko siye sinyanzela kunye. Kodwa idla ngokubulela kwiminyaka yokubambisana nentembelo, ichanekile kwaye ikhangela ngokukhawuleza imeko yomphefumlo wam kunye nokucinga. Emva koko, ndimamele umculo kwaye ke ndowubona ngokupheleleyo umfanekiso kwaye ungqubanise kuyo. Unxunguphalo, ukuchuma kwenzeka xa uphefumla kubomi bobuyile kunye nokholo. Lo mzuzu lolona lunzima, kodwa olona lumnandi, uvusa imnandi kum. Ndiyakuthanda ukubona ingoma ebuzelweyo, njengobomi obutsha, iyakhuthaza.
Ngelixa i-alina dissis ayicwangcisi ukubhala ukuqhubeka kwenoveli yakhe
-Unobomi obugqwesileyo bokudala: Ubhala phantsi ii-albhamu, thatha iziqwengana, yiza neekonsathi. Ngaba ngokwakho okanye kubabukeli?
Ewe, ubomi bugcwele ngokwenene. Ngokukodwa ngoku, xa ndabhala iingoma ezilishumi elinesine kwisiqingatha sonyaka, ndakhulula iiklip ezintlanu zevidiyo, ukongeza, yonke into idutyulwe kwiifoto ezimbini eziqaqambileyo. Kwangelo xesha, ukusebenzela amazwe amabini - iMoldova neRussia, ukurekhoda iingoma kulwimi lwaseMoldavia, zisebenzisana nabaqulunqwa kwi-Moldova kunye ne-Russia esuka eRussia. Nguwo lo umphefumlo wam, inamalungu amabini. I-Moldavia lilizwe lam, iRussia bubomi bam. Ndiyithanda kakhulu iRussia. Ndiyabulela kulo ilizwe elazalwa ngaleyo, kwaye ubuchule bam bunjengomrhumo nothando. Ngaba ndiyazimela? Uninzi alunjalo. Iya kuba ichanekile ngakumbi ukuyithetha ngokwakho, kubaphulaphuli. Ndizikhathaza iimvavanyo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, kwaye ndidlula kuzo, ndingawatshintshela la mandla ebantwini. Ukholo nokuzahlulela. NDAZALWA kweli lizwe kwaye ndadlula kwiimvavanyo zelungelo lento endiyinikwayo, ebizwa ngokuba yi-picoren, ndicebisa ukuba ndibekho kwi-rubicon. Kule nto, kunjalo, imikhosi yeKalsal iyafuneka ukuze isebenze nemiphefumlo yabantu. Kunzima, bonke abantu bahlukile, ngakumbi kwixesha lethu xa ukholo begculele inzuzo yaso kwaye abantu bayeka ukukholelwa, abanazo izibongozo, izithixo. Eyona nto ifanelekileyo inokuba yimali, kwaye isithixo yinto kwifom egqwethekileyo. Ke ngoko, wonke umntu uyalwa njengoko kunokuba njalo ebomini babo, ubukho, umbono wobomi. Kodwa ungalibali umphefumlo. Ngenye imini ndakhanyiswa ngokucinga, kwaye ndambetha ngohlobo lwentonga: Andikhathali ukuba ndikwazi ukuba ndihlala ngaphandle koThixo ngaphakathi, cinga ukuba andifikeleli nantoni na. Lena Yinyaniso. Ukuba ukulungele ukuwela nakweyiphi na into, emva koko kweza kumzuzwana othile, kuya kufuneka ukhuphele umva, usonge, kwaye ucocekile, kwaye kunokubakho ixesha kunye nezinto ezinokwenzeka? Kufuneka ucinge ngayo. Kuyimfuneko ukulawula yonke imihla, iimvakalelo zakho, iimvakalelo kwaye ngokubanzi, ungubani. Rhoqo uzibuze lo mbuzo.
-Ubani, umbukeli wakho? Ngaba ngumntu ongabalusi abadala?
-Baphulaphuli bahlukile. Kwakukho iimeko apho amantombazana amancinci ahamba ngokupheleleyo, elishumi elinashumi elinesithandathu ezelwe, wandibulela wonke umphefumlo, enkosi. Xa ndisiva amazwi onombulelo kunye nokungcangcazela ngokomoya, ndiziva ndikhulu kunye novuyo olwenzayo, kodwa ngenxa yoko, kodwa ngenxa yokuxhamla. Nokuba imiphefumlo emibini ekhanyisiweyo ilungile! Ekhethekileyo, andifuni abaphulaphuli bam, endaweni yoko, ndiye ndenza uluntu lwam. Ndiyaqonda ukuba abantu ndimtsha - igama elitsha, ubuso obutsha, umbukeli akandazi, kodwa emva kokuba ndimkile, ndikhumbula kwaye ndinomdla. Umntu endimthandayo, umntu-hayi. Ndifuna ukusebenza kwaye unike abantu ukhetho. Akunakwenzeka ukwenza yonke into efanayo, uhlobo olufanayo kunye ne-project yesampulu. Abantu kufuneka banike iintlobo. Xa beneentlobo, becinga, abanomdla, abathandanayo, ubomi, ungquzulwano, umzabalazo, umnyama nomnyama, ubumnyama. Kufuneka ube lukhetho.
I-Alina Delisse ayizukubhala iincwadi kuphela, kodwa ikwacula
-Endlela, ngoluntu, njengoko ucinga, ubutsha bale mihla bungafunekiyo kwaye bunyanzelekile kuneso sizukulwane sinda? Ke ngoko, amagcisa amaninzi afumana ukuthandwa kwaye aphulukane ngokukhawuleza?
Ewe, amagcisa ayathandwa kwaye aphulukane ngokukhawuleza. Ngenxa yokuba umsebenzi kunye nomsebenzi womculi ngumsebenzi, olu luxanduva, kuya kufuneka ulungele ukuba abantu baya kukrokrela phezu kwe-verestal, kodwa naye uvumele uhambe naye. Isenokuyeka ukuthanda, inomtsalane, iyamthanda, ukulibala ngexesha lobomi. Kufuneka siyiqonde kwaye sazi. Ngalo lonke ixesha bekukho amagorha abo kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuba luhlobo lwesikhululo samandla, ukondla ikamva. Oku, kunjalo, kuphelile. Uyayiqonda. Uyabona, kodwa awukwazi ukwenza nantoni na, kuba ikamva lakho libekwe kwangaphambili, kwaye kufuneka ulandele kwangaphambili okumiselweyo, okanye ukwala. Xa abantu bengavumi ukulandela indawo yabo yokwenyani, ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo, kwaye amandla aphelelwe abanye, ithonu, ixesha, iphela. Kwakukho impucuko eyahlukeneyo - isiGrike, eJiphutha, iJiphutha, kwaye zonke zazo zaphela, kamsinya nje ukuba into yokomoya yaqala ukuwa, kwaye abantu baqalisa ukuba nembonakalo kuphela inkangeleko yabo, umzimba, inkanuko. Iphelile ukuphela kwayo yonke into. Andithandanga ukuphindaphinda imizekelo ebiweyo, kuba yayilusizi kakhulu.
- Ngaba uyakholelwa ukuba kubumbela unokuphola ukutshintsha ubomi bakho? Guqula umsebenzi, fudukela kwelinye ilizwe, qala ekuqaleni.
-Ungasoloko utshintsha ubomi bakho ngelixa usaphila, phefumlela kwaye ushukume. (uncumo). Xa up 'uvuke "xa uqonda into xa ungoyiki ukuphulukana nayo yonke into efunyenwe, ngaphandle komphefumlo, kuba eyona nto iphambili - ukuqala Ndiyakuqonda ukuyiqonda into endiyiyo, ndingubani, ndingubani na nje ukuchitha ixesha lam, ukuba ungaziqondi. Ukuba umntu uphila ngokungathi uyazithengisa okanye aqeshise, awudingi ukutyhafi. Waphulukana nobomi bakhe ngenxa yokuba ebesoyika ukungangqinelani noko kwakungekho. Kuyimfuneko ukuba ube ngumntu ofuna ukuxelisa, ungaze uphinde uqale ekuqaleni. Kukho abantu abasasaze yonke into ngexesha labo kwaye bangena ndawo. Bathengisa ipropathi kwaye bangena kwimiqondiso yasimahla, kuhambo. Abantu bayala inqaba, bathenga igumbi elinye elwandle kwaye bahlala apho. Basuka nje bagqitha, basuka kwi-suss, baphule. Umntu ubuyela kwiimvakalelo zakhe ezilahlekelwe kwiminyaka emininzi eyadlulayo. Umntu odinga ukuba ukhe wakwenza iimpazamo, funda ukucela ukuxolelwa kwaye uzilungise. Ukuba uziva ngathi uza kuwe, umphefumlo wakho sele udiniwe, kungcono ukuphosa yonke into kwaye uqalise ukuhlala ngokwahlukileyo. Ngokuthe ngcembe, ngokuthe ngcembe, kancinci, ngokuthe ngcembe. Musa ukoyika ubomi bakho, uya kuhlala ufunda iziphumo kwaye kufuneka uyifumane!