Ngamanye amaxesha akunamntu wokuba wabelane ngamava asondeleyo, nkqu nomhlobo osenyongweni. Bamba iimvakalelo, nokuba unethemba, ngokwawo - umsebenzi ongenambulelo kwi-psyche. Kule meko, iziphumo ziya kuba yidayari yobuqu, kodwa ayinguye wonke umntu oyaziyo ukuba uyisebenzisa, kwaye zeziphi na iindlela kwaye imicus zinendlela yokuphosa iimvakalelo.
Yintoni enokufuna ukubhala
Ngapha koko, kunokwenzeka ukuba ubhale malunga nantoni na, kuba idayari yindawo yakho. Izihloko ezixhaphakileyo zihlangabezana namava, imbonakalo yeentlanganiso kunye nohambo, kunye namaphupha noloyiko. Umahluko ophambili kwibhlog kukufihla isicatshulwa kwabanye, nokuba ukhokelela kwidayari ye-elektroniki. Ewe kunjalo, unokubonisa ubuchule obungaphezulu ukuba uyifumene idayari yephepha: ungasebenzisa izixhobo zombala okanye izitikha.
Ngaba iirekhodi zihlala zenza njalo?
Apha kumele ujolise kwiminqweno yethu kunye nemfuneko yokuthetha. Ukuba uyaqonda ukuba uyangena nzulu kumava akho, okwenza ukuba ungabinakho, zama ukuba nomfanekiso ngqondweni weengcinga ngamazwi uze ubhale phantsi ephepheni. Iingcali zengqondo zihlala zincoma ukusebenzisa idayari kwinkqubo yonyango.
Idayari "Ukungathethi"
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Zithini iimpembelelo zedayari yakho
Uyahlalutya imicimbi. Rhoqo kunzima kuthi ukuba siphumeze umxokelelwane wentloko yam ukuze siqonde ukuba kutheni senze into engalunganga kwaye engakhange enze impazamo kwixesha elizayo. Xa usenza iirekhodi, kuya kuba lula kuwe ukulandelela ukubanda kwezinto ezenzeka kuwe.
Iphepha ligcina yonke into. Enye yepropathi ye-psyche yethu ivimba i-nenger engalunganga, kwaye ke kuninzi okuninzi. Nangona kunjalo, kukho iimeko xa kufuneka zibuyele kwimeko engathandekiyo kwaye zisebenze ngengcali, kule meko kubalulekile ukugcina inkumbulo engathandekiyo ukuba ayikho kwimemori, emva koko ubuncinci kumaphepha edayari. Ukongeza, emva kokuba udlulise yonke iphela ephepheni, ingxaki ayinakubonakala imbi kakhulu.
Idayari "Ukungathethi". Xa sabelana ngamava nangabahlobo abasondeleyo kakhulu, kukho amathuba abantu angaphandle abaza kuyazi ngencoko yakho, eya kuba yinto engathandekiyo kakhulu. Kule meko, idayari iya kulunga kakhulu, inamaphepha, umphulaphuli.
Zithini?
I-nancedy kunye nabahlobo. Ngaphandle kwento yokuba iirekhodi zabanye abantu zifunde - ithoni embi, zilungiselele ukuba abantu abanomdla bangazi, banokujonga kwidayari yakho. Ngokuthembekileyo fihla iirekhodi okanye uthenge incwadana ukuba ungakuvulela kuphela.
Ukugqibelela kunokukuthintela. Abantu abanexhala banokuqalisa ukujamelana nokuthuthuza emzimbeni ukuba baqala ukukopela malunga noyilo okanye imixholo yedayari- "Ngaba kufuneka, kungenzeka ukuba kwenzeke njani, "Andiyithandi uyilo." Ukuba uziva ngathi idayari ayizisi isiqabu, kodwa kuphela zizizathu ezitsha zokuncipha, kungcono ukuyeka lo mbono.
Idayari ifuna ixesha. Ukugcina idayari, engayi kuzisa utyalo-mali oluvoteli, kodwa nokukholisa iliso, kufuneka ubalaselisa iiyure ezimbalwa ngosuku. Ngaba ukulungele ukuchitha ixesha kuyilo lwesicatshulwa kunye neengcinga zakho? Ukuba impendulo yakho iyodwa, kunokwenzeka ukuba ifumane incwadana entle kwaye iqale!