Enye i-ingonyama i-Tollstoy yaphawula ukuba "zonke iintsapho ezonwabileyo ziyafana, zonke iintsapho ezingonwabisiyo ayonwabanga ngendlela yazo." Kwaye ngamanye amaxesha iya kuvuma ukuba kwiintsapho ezichumileyo, iintsapho zinamathambo abo "amathambo kwigumbi", ngaphambili okanye kamva abe esidlangalaleni. Zeziphi ezona filthi zimbi zama ukuzifihla kuluntu? Kwaye wenza ntoni xa imfihlo icacile?
I-Icest okanye i-Pedophilia. Ithembekile ukufunda malunga nendawo enjalo kwisakhelo sosapho lwakho, ayikho intlekele kakhulu. Rhoqo malunga nento eyenzekayo phantsi kophahla olufanayo kunye nabo, abafazi baya kubona ixesha elide. Kwaye ubuze umbuzo, njengoko bekungafumani qaphela ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kumntwana wakhe. Kodwa akusoloko kunjalo: umntu akazazi ngokwenyani zezinto ekhayeni lakhe, kwaye umntu, njengezinciniba, ngobuchule ofihla intloko yakhe entlabathini. Bakhokelwa yintoni abafazi, bavumela umntu ophilayo ukuba aphila naye phantsi kophahla olunye, ukuze akwazi ukuba nabantwana bakhe ayaziwa. Inye into ecacileyo: umntwana ngenxa yayo yonke le nto ifumana ukonzakala kwengqondo, apho angaze ahlukane nangoncedo lwengqondo. Kwaye akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu othile, ngaphandle kwengqondo, uya kuxela ngento awayenogonyamelo.
I-SCRCHRPPPPPPPPPPPPP. Kwilizwe lethu, ukudakumba ukusuka kwi-hut akwamkelekanga. Ke ngoko, ukuba umntu obhinqileyo ugonyamelo ovela kumyeni wakhe okanye esebenzisana, oziva evakaliswa ngamazwi, kodwa naye ethe cwaka, uhlala ethe cwaka. Rhoqo, nkqu naba basetyhini abaxeleli oomama kunye namantombazana asondeleyo malunga nokuthobeka kwabo bahlekisayo mihla le. Balahlekile kwaye abanazikhuselo phambi koburharha. Kwaye baya, njengoMthetho, kubudlelwane obuxhomekeke kubo, kwaye kwanesibongozo kwiiarhente zomthetho abangabaziniki: ngenxa yokuba olu luhlu lwabasetyhini, lokuhambisa isicelo sabo, emva kwemini yakhe sele ithathe. Bancede baphume kule meko banokudibana kuphela kwegqwetha kunye nengqondo.
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Ukwenza i-Accounting kwi-PSCHCHIATRIst. Malunga nezihlobo ezidlula kunyango olunzulu lwesifo sengqondo kwaye sixilongweni esikhulu, sisenokungathethi nokuba kusapho. Abantu bafunda ngezinto ezinjalo, nangona kungekho nto ihlazo kule nto. Ingqondo ililungu elinye lomzimba womntu, kunye nabanye, ukuze singaphumeleli. Umntu unokufuna uncedo olufunekayo lwengqondo, kuba akukho cebiso zeentombi kunye namanqaku avela kwi-Intanethi aya kubuyiselwa kule ndawo.
Ukuqiniseka. Ukuze ufunde ukuba umntu ovela kwizalamane zakho waziswa kuxanduva lolwaphulo-mthetho, oko kukuthi ngamathuba. Kanye - kwaye ngequbuliso kuyavela ukuba umakhulu wakho bazamile. Malunga nomnye owaziyo. Waya ejele ngexesha lemfazwe: Wayekwishumi elivisayo kwaye esebenza kwisityalo sokhuselo. Ingqeqesho yayisingangqongqo, emkhosini, kwaye yayilele lonke ixesha, kuba yayisengumntwana! Nje ukuba yoyike ukufika kade kwaye ithunyelwe ngokwemithetho yemfazwe ukuze ikhonze ikota. Wayehleli egumbini lentolongo, amenza elamkele, ethi, ngasendleleni, ukuba ithe yasindisa, yamsindisa ngenye imini. Ngandlel 'ithile, ngasekupheleni kwe-60s, kamva wabuyela ekhaya evela emsebenzini, kwaye umbungu wamhlasela emnyango. Ndasongela isitshixo, bendifuna ukuphanga kwaye, mhlawumbi, ndibulale. Ndabona iAclain yakhe kwaye ayenze nantoni na, isigqibo sokuba 'yayiyeyakhe. " Umakhulu wesibini wazihlula kwixesha lemfazwe, wayebandakanyekile kwezinye izinto kwaye wafumana eli xesha. Ngoku singabiza la mafuko enamashishini amancinci- uza kucinga ngokuthengisa ngelinen. Kodwa yiminyaka engama-2-3 kuphela emva kokuba imfazwe yayidlula, kwakungekho nto kweli lizwe, kwaye nantsi ishishini. " Elinye ixesha. Ixesha labo yimfihlakalo, igutyungelwe bubumnyama nokuba intombi yakhe, apho wafumana ukulibaziseka kwesigwebo. Kuphela ngu dade wabo kuphela ngeli bali, olondolozwe de babelane kwaye bengazange bathethe mntu, kwanasemva kokuba umntu efile ngumakhulu wakhe. Mhlawumbi, le ayisiyo mfihlakalo imangalisayo, kodwa bamgcina ngenyameko ezingqondweni nasezintliziyweni zabo.
Ukuthathwa komntwana abe ngowakho. Ngoku abazali abaninzi abalinde ukwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu okanye abantu ngokusemthethweni ukuba abefihli inyani yokuba akangomntu. Banelungelo ngokupheleleyo. Nangona kunjalo, umthetho wethu usakhusela imfihlo yokwamkelwa komntwana abengowomnye umntu okanye abantu ngokusemthethweni, ngenxa yoko akukho namnye umntu, ngaphandle kokuba abazali, abakwazi kwazisa umntwana izinto ezinjalo. Kule nto, kunjalo, kukho intsingiselo ethile: Asingabo bonke abantwana abanokuyibona ngokulinganayo ulwazi olwenziwa ngunina wamalungelo abangabazali okanye ukuba ngokuzithandela bamanga umntwana wakhe esibhedlele. Nokuba ube ngumntu omdala, umntu ngamanye amaxesha akanako ukuthoba: ukukhangela abazali bakhe, kwaye, kukho amatyala, afumana. Yayingasoloko ingumfazi owashiya umntwana wakhe ngokuzalwa efuna ukunxibelelana naye emdala. Kwaye lo ngomnye ukuphoxeka okufuneka ufumane abantu abanjalo. Mhlawumbi kungangcono ukuba ungazi malunga nokuthatha umntwana ongamzalanga.