Ukuba kwiimeko zoxinzelelo rhoqo, kunzima ukuhlala umntu ofanelekileyo kwiwotshi. Ichaphazela thina kuphela, kodwa kunye neekomiti esikuchitha ngazo usuku. Ukufunga kwaye uphendule kabukhali kwimithambo yeyona nto imbi kakhulu onokuyivelisa nemeko efanayo. Siza kukuxelela iindlela ezininzi zokunceda ukugcina iimvakalelo kwaye ufumane isisombululo kwintloko "ebandayo".
Zama, ukuba kunokwenzeka, ungangeni
Kwenzeka ukuba umntu anxibelelane ngokugqibeleleyo phambi kwakho phambi kobunkokeli okanye abanye oogxa, nangona kunjalo, ngokuba yedwa nawe, unokuya "ngaphandle kwemvume yakho, iingcebiso ngazo zonke iindlela ezinokwenzeka Ingaphezulu kwakho. Kwiimeko ezinzima ngakumbi, umntu unokuphazamisa imisebenzi yakho. Lindela le meko ukuze isonjululwe ngokwalo, ngokungeyomfuneko, kubalulekile ukwenza into. Ukuze ungafumani unyamezelo lwakho kwaye ngaloo nto ungayiphembeleli umsebenzi wokuhamba, ujijeke lonke unxibelelwano lwakho kunye nomsindo. Kuya kuba nzima emntwini kwimbalelwano kwimbalelwano, kuba kule meko uya kuba nobungqina obungasebenziyo bokuziphatha okungasebenziyo komnye wabasebenzi.
Ungayi kukhathalelo lokuphendula
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Ungathi cwaka ukuba ucinezelwe
Ewe, ukwamkela ukuba ucinezelwe, kunzima kakhulu, nangona kunjalo, kuhlala khumbula ukuba ukwenzakala kuchaphazela imeko yengqondo, nakwixesha elizayo nakwindlela yokusebenza. Iingxaki ziya kwenzeka ngokuthe ngcembe. Xa uqonda ukuba umntu ogodayo ubonakalisa iimvakalelo ezingenabuhlobo kakhulu, yiya kwiNkokeli yakho kwaye uchaze ukuba kuqhubeka ntoni. Njengommiselo, abantu abaye bagqithisela kubundlobongela bengqondo. Nayo nayiphi na inkokeli iyayazi indlela yokubala imali kwaye iqonde ukuba yeyiphi imeko engenampilo iya kukhokelela kwiqela, kwaye ke umbuzo wakho uya kusonjululwa kwithuba elifutshane.
Yiba nembeko
Rhoqo, i-galler ayilandeli injongo ecacileyo, uthanda nje xa uzishiya kwaye ngalo mzuzu ujonge emehlweni abanye osebenza nabo ngomntu osebenza naye kunye nomntu ongazinzanga. Musa ukuhlangula i-gardrire "iVampire" yolonwabo olunjalo. Gcina ithoni eyolileyo kunye nembeko, nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyaqalwa ukuthuka ngaphakathi, kodwa ungagungqi, kodwa ungakhathali, umntu owonileyo, ukuze kungabikho mnqweno wokungqubana kwixesha elizayo.
Sukuthatha ubundlongondlongo kwiakhawunti yakho
Njengoko sele sithethile ekuqaleni kwenqaku, bambalwa abantu abanomdla kubo bonke esijamelene nayo yonke imihla, ngakumbi ukuba umsebenzi wakho ubonelela ngoxinzelelo kwi-psyche. Ukuba umntu akanakuyibamba iimvakalelo kwaye akhulise izwi lakho kuwe, kodwa kwenzeka ngexesha lokusebenza kwakho, vala amehlo akho kwaye uthathe umphefumlo wakho, zama ukungena ngokwakho Ulawulo njengoko, umzekelo, wena. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba imeko iphindaphindwa rhoqo, musa ukoyika ukubeka umntu abeke endaweni, kodwa, kwakhona, ngaphandle kokuphendula.
Yiva xa umntu kufuneka ayeke
Kwenzeka ukuba umntu abe ngumgaqo asetyenziselwa ukurhola ingqumbo kwabanye, kwaye uyibamba ingalo yam. Oku kwenzeka rhoqo ngabasebenzi abatsha abangakwazanga 'ukuzama ". Uqonda njani ukuba uhlaselo lwedilesi yakho aluziswanga nangayiphi na imeko, unokuthintela. Njengommiselo, enye okanye kabini ikwanele i-cinedy yasekhaya ukuya kukhangela elinye ixhoba.