Ewe kunjalo, impumelelo yomntu omdala ngenxa yabasebenzi mihla le, ebuntwaneni, abazali baphenjelelwa ngandlel 'ithile ukuba singakufumana oko silwela khona. Namhlanje sagqiba kwelokuba sifumanise ukuba zeziphi izimo zengqondo zabazali eziza kuphumelela komntwana.
Awumniki umntwana ukuba afumane amava
Ewe, ubomi ngamanye amaxesha buyingozi, kwaye umzali ufanele azive engothini "kubandakanya" indlela yokukhusela. Ingxaki kukuba oomama kunye nootata abaninzi kunzima 'ukuba' bacime imeko apho umntwana anokuhlangabezana naye. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyazi okungenani iintsapho ezimbalwa apho umntwana akavunyelwanga ukuba awe ngaphandle kolwazi lomnye wabazali, uninzi lwayo luhlala luhleli. Ngokufikisa, umntwana onothuli "Uthuli Oluzalisiweyo" akafumani nxibelelwano noontanga bakhe, yiyo loo nto zonke iintlobo zobunzima ezikhula. Kwimeko enjalo, yonke imikhosi yezomoya yokomoya ijolise ekusombululeni iingxaki, iingcinga zokufezekisa okufunwayo kwamaxesha angcono. Ngaba uyayifuna?
Mnike inkululeko yokusebenza
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Uhlala usondele
Asiphikisani, kude kufike umntwana othile, umntwana ufuna ukuba ave ubukho bomntu okufutshane, kodwa umntwana osele ekhulile, kokukhona uya kumnika inkululeko. Ukusombulula zonke iingxaki kuye, unayo inkonzo yebhere: umntwana uya kusetyenziswa kuye ukuba omdala uya kuhlala eze kuhlangulo, kwaye ke awunakuzama. Ngaba umntu onjalo unokufezekisa kwakhe?
Uyayitshintsha iminqweno yakho
Ibali elithandwa kakhulu: mhlawumbi, nakweyiphi na isangqa okanye icandelo oza kufumana abantwana abambalwa abangakwenzi apho kuba behlala bephupha ngayo, kodwa ngenxa yokuba bengathathi uthatha isigqibo sokwenza okufanayo. Ukuba ekuqaleni, umntwana uya kunandipha iiklasi, kwaye kusekwe kukudada okanye ukuqubha "umxholo" wakhe, kufutshane nobudala bamatyala ngaphezulu kwesiqingatha semvukelo: Umntwana akazukukrwada Khaqo uqonde ukuba kutheni kufuneka achithe ixesha akunakwenzeka kuye ukuba uhlala ufuna ukudala ubuchule kwi-canvas, kwaye wanyanzelwa ukuba achithe iiyure. Soloko umamele uluvo lomntwana wakho kwaye ufunde ukumisa amatye akho.