Family barrier: how do you prevent the child to become successful

Of course, the success of an adult is due to daily labor, however, in childhood, parents are somehow influenced if we can get what we strive for. Today we decided to figure out what parental attitudes are becoming a child's further success.

You do not give a child to get experience

Yes, life is sometimes dangerous, and the parent should feel at what point "include" a protective mechanism. The problem is that many moms and dads are difficult to "turn off" in a situation with which a child can cope with himself. You probably know at least a few families where the child is not allowed to even fall without the knowledge of one of the parents, most often mom. In adolescence, the child from which "filled dust" cannot find contact with his peers, which is why all sorts of complexes develop. In such a situation, all human spiritual forces are aimed at solving problems, thoughts about achieving the desired moved to better times. Do you need it?

Give him freedom of action

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You are always near

We do not argue, until a certain age, the child needs to feel the presence of an adult nearby, but the older the child becomes, the more you should give him freedom of action. Solving all the problems for him, you have a bear service: the child gets used to him that the adult will always come to the rescue, and therefore you can not try. Can such a person achieve his in adulthood?

You shift your own desires

Very popular story: Probably, in any circle or section you will find at least a few children who do not do there because they always dreamed about it, but because the parents at one time did not decide to do the same. If at the beginning, the child will even enjoy classes, and still it turns out that dancing or swimming is not his "theme", closer to adolescent age in more than half of the cases can be expected by the rebellion: the child will not understand why he should spend time It is not possible for him if he always wanted to create masterpieces on the canvas, and he was forced to spend hours in stretching. Always listen to your child's opinion and learn to stop your own ambitions.