Ukungena kubudlelwane bokuqala, phantse onke amantombazana aqinisekile ukuba olu luthando lobomi. Nangona kusenziwa ngokwesayensi ukuba ingqondo yamadoda nabafazi isebenza ngokulinganayo, kusekho i-thessen ityekele kakhulu kwi-ambulensi kunye nokuzalwa kwabantwana, kwaye amadoda anokucinga ngala manqaku ovelwano. Kukholelwa ukuba wonke umntu unebali lakhe - akunakwenzeka ukuba kukho ukubakho abantu abatshatileyo bangaphila ubomi bakhe bonke, kodwa nabo bacebisa ukuba bonke ubomi bakhe bafumane ubomi bakhe bonke ayifanelekanga. Ngaba womelele nathi? Silinde izimvo zakho kwizimvo ezingezantsi.
Ukunqongophala kwamava
Ukuba umfana wakho uba ngowokuqala, eningayo, kwaye uqalise ubudlelwane obusondeleyo, uqinisekisiwe ukuba ungalibali kwixesha elizayo. Ukunqongophala kwamava kunye nokungakwazi ukuthelekisa nabanye kuya kuba yindawo yokudibanisa amantombazana amancinci, njengoko bekwazi ukuvavanya umyeni onokubakho ukuba kungabi kubungakanani belungu lesondo, kodwa ngoopopayi Ingqondo, umnqweno wokwenza imali njalo njalo. Kwiminyaka yokuqala, abantu basetyhini abaninzi benza impazamo, baqala ukugxeka umntu ukuze anganelisekanga ebhedini, nangona uninzi lwengxaki aluyi kuba kulo, kodwa kulo. Nakuphi na ulwalamano olusenyongweni lwakhiwe kwakhona- ungayithetha le nto ufuna ukuyifumana kunye nendlela yokuninika ukonwaba, kwaye ungakholelwa kwintsomi ukuba ubukhulu bekahlobo lubaluleke kakhulu.
Kubalulekile ukuba kubalulekile ukuba uve isibongozo sabo
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Ukoyikwa kokunqongophala kokuzonwabisa
Kwelinye icala, kwimibutho yabasebenzi, ngokoluvo, umbuso uqhelekile. Emncinci, ayinguye wonke umntu onokwazi ukuba nemfesane kunye nokulungela ukuphendula ngezenzo zabo. Ulwalamano lusenokwenzeka ukuba luvavanyo olungenamda kunye nabantu abadala abakhawulezayo kunokwazi imanyano yabasebenzi neqabane elifanelekileyo. Ayimangalisi imeko yolutsha, imizobo ehlekisayo ithandwa kwindawo yolutsha, apho amantombazana acenga ukuba angancancisi nabanye abantu abakwishumi elinesibindi, intsingiselo yabakwishumi elinesibindi, eyona iphambili kuyo ekusebenziseni utywala kunye nokungathinteleki kwimiphumo yayo. Kubafana abangasesikweni, ngaphandle kokufikisa, baqhayisa abahlobo babo kunye neentsapho zabo, imeko iyaphambuka.
Iinjongo ezingazinzanga kunye nezinto eziphambili ngokubaluleka
Cela ulutsha, bangaphi abagqiba kwelokuba bathathe isigqibo ngomsebenzi? Uya kumangaliswa, kodwa nkqu neminyaka eli-18 ubudala, uninzi lwazo aluzange lulungele ukuthatha uxanduva ngobomi babo kwaye luxhomekeke ekukhetheni kubazali, lukholelwa ukuba bonke abantu baseyunivesithi banokwenziwa ngononophelo, kwaye bangasebenzi ezinyaweni. Kukho izinto ezinokwahlukileyo, kodwa ziqinisekisa imithetho: Ngokwesiqhelo abantu abangama-25 bayazi oko bakufuna kwaye oko akunakuze kwenzeke ngemali kunye nokwamkelwa. INQAKU LABASELULA, Kunzima ukufumana indawo yokuguqula kubudlelwane xa imilondela yabo kunye neqabane ingena kwiqabane- okwangoku bayaqonda ukuba ukwahlukana kuya kuba kuphela kwengqungquthela.
Ubomi obudibeneyo ayikho konke emazinyweni
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Umgama-uphazamiseko
Singathi uthando luhambahamba kuyo yonke into, kodwa ngabantu abanokwazi ukunyamezela ukwahlulwa kwihormones yakhe ethandekayo? Abanye bathunyelwa ukuba bafunde kwesinye isixeko, abanye emkhosini. Umgama luvavanyo oluphambili kwanabantu abadala, kunye nolutsha olunezilingo ezingenasiphelo ngohlobo lweqela elimnandi apho abantu abadibana khona, ukuze baxhathise ulwaphulo-mthetho olunzima. Ekuphela kwendlela yokuphuma kwimeko emva kokukhululwa ukusuka esikolweni ukuya nokugcina ubomi obudibeneyo ukuze ujonge iimvakalelo.