Ulwimi lweTeleport luphawu lwangaphandle lwemeko yoluntu. Ukuze uqonde ulwimi lwamabonwakude, kufuneka uqonde imeko yemvakalelo yomntu ngexesha lencoko, ukuva into ethethwayo kwaye ithathele ingqalelo iimeko apho incoko iqhutywa khona. Oku kuyakuvumela ukuba wahlule iinyani kwingqikelelo, eyinyani kwingcinga. Ngokukhawuleza senze izigqibo malunga nobuhlobo kunye nokufana ngokwesondo kwabantu abangabaziyo kwaye zihlala zenza impazamo. Kodwa ukuba sihlolisise lesayensi enjalo njengolwimi lomabonwakude, banokuziqonda iinjongo zokwenyani zomntu, abanakuvumela iimpazamo ezibalulekileyo kwaye ngewayengaze avele ubuchule bokulahleka kwimfezeko. Ubomi bakhe obuxabisekileyo bokwabelana ngengqondo eyaziwayo u-Allan Piz, oqhubela phambili kwisemina wabathandayo.
-Allan, yeyiphi imeko yobomi inzulu yakho iluncedo?
Kwiimeko apho umntu athetha nantoni na, kwaye izimbo zomzimba zithetha ngomhlobo. Jonga umabonwakude. Ukulawula kwabo, kuyimfuneko ngakumbi. Kwiimeko ezimbi, vala izandla zakho, zithabathe ezo zikhundleni ozikhuselekileyo kuzo kangangoko - oku kuyimpazamo, kwaye kunzima kakhulu ukuba umntu azilawule ngexesha elo. Akulula kakhulu ukuba uqonde nomntu okwenyani, kodwa mhlawumbi. Kuya kufuneka ufunde ukubukela kwaye uhlaziywe ngengqondo into oyibonayo nesiyivayo. Emva koko unokwenza izigqibo ezithembekileyo kwaye wenze izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.
-Ukuqonda ulwimi lweTemevithi, ngaba unokuqiniseka ngomntu olele kuwe okanye uxelele inyani?
-Ukuzama ukuthobela ulwimi lweTV, kuya kufuneka unikele ingqalelo kwiimpawu ezintathu. Olu lulwimi ngokwenene ngenkqubo yakho. Kwaye ukuze uqonde imvakalelo yomntu enezimbo zomzimba, kufuneka uziqwalasele ubuncinci zithathu okanye ezine, kodwa kungenga. Ukusuka kunxibelelwano olungangqinelani kuxhomekeke kakhulu - kwaye kufuneka uyiqonde. Xa umntu echaza ubuxoki, enye yezona zinto ziphambili ziya kwandisa abafowunelwa bomntu kunye nomzimba womntu - ukukrwada komzimba - ukukrazula impundu, ukutshintshisela intloko yendlebe, ukukhwela intloko. Kwaye malunga ne-90% yembono yokuqala yomnxibelelanisi malunga nomntu ophuhliswa kwimizuzu emi-4 yokuqala. Uya kuyiqonda - uyakuqonda yonke enye into.
-Ngawuphi omnye kwaye ubhengeza ubuxoki - indoda okanye umfazi?
-Abasetyhini baqwalaselwe ngcono ziimvakalelo zabadluliselwa, kwaye, ke, banokusebenzisa abanye kwaye baxoke. Oku kubonakalaliswa kwangasebusaneni. Amantombazana amancinci ahlala ekhala kwinkampani. Abafazi bakhupha amadoda angamagcisa amaninzi. Abafazi bangamanqindi kwaye banzima, ngelixa amadoda ethanda impazamo ebubuxoki: "Ndifike kade ebhafini," "kwifowuni yam bendingakwazi ukukubiza." Kwakhona abafazi abanomtsalane bakholelwa ngokukhawuleza kwaye kulula kunokungasebenzi.
-Ngaba loo nto umntu ekuxelela ulwazi olunye, kwaye umzimba wakhe usixelela enye, sinokuchonga ngokulula ubuxoki kwaye ingumbulule. Kodwa ngaba ngokwenene umntu olahlekisayo akazi ngale nto?
Uninzi kunzima ukwamkela isibakala sokuba abantu zizidalwa nje zemvelo, izilwanyana ezifanayo. Kodwa, njengazo naziphi na ezinye izilwanyana, sithobela imithetho efanayo yebhayoloji. Yintology elawula izenzo zethu, zokuphendula, intetho yezimbo zomzimba kunye nezimbo zomzimba. Eyona nto imangalisayo kukuba abantu bafane baqonde ukuba iposti yabo, intshukumo kunye nezimbo zomzimba zithetha konke konke ukuba bazama ukuchaza amagama.
-Ukuba uxhomekeke emzimbeni wolwimi lomzimba, mhlawumbi umntu uyakuqonda ngokukhawuleza oko akuthandayo umfazi okanye, ngokuchaseneyo, ungathandi?
"Cela nayiphi na indoda ekufuneka ithathe inyathelo lokuqala kwinkundla yamatyala, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuphendula ukuba le ndima ngowabantu. Nangona kunjalo, zonke izifundo zingqina okwahlukileyo. Abafazi bangabaqeqeshi bokuthandana kwi-90% yamatyala. Bayenza ngoncedo lweempawu ezincinci zolwimi lolwimi ezithunyelwe kumadoda anomdla, kwaye ithemba lokuba amadoda aya kuba engozi ukuba aziqonde. Ewe kunjalo, kukho amadoda alungele abafazi kwimivalo nakwiklabhu, ngaphandle kokulinda "ukukhanya" okuluhlaza ", kodwa, ngaphandle kwento yokuba abanye babo bakwazi ukufumana iqabane lakho kwaye kakhulu iphantsi. Abo bantu badlala nje ngethamsanqa. Nawuphi na umntu ozama ukuqhelana nomntu obhinqileyo uhlala esenza, ukubamba umqondiso othunyelweyo wolwimi lweTV. Kubonakala ngathi uthatha inyathelo lokuqala, njengoko esiya kuye, hayi okwahlukileyo. Kodwa abaqeqeshi bexesha uninzi lwentlekele ngumfazi. Ukuphendula umbuzo, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, indoda imele ifunde ukufundela ulwimi lomzimba lowesifo womfazi kwaye ulisebenzisa ngobuchule, ugxile kwimiqondiso ethunyelweyo.
-Zithini izimbo zomzimba ezikhethekileyo ezithetha ngokufumaneka kwabasetyhini, kwaye njani ukufundisa umntu enezimbo zomzimba ezilula?
- Abafazi basebenzisa izimbo zomntu ezifanayo zokunqula abantu. Zilungisa iinwele zinxulumene nempahla, thumela izindlu okanye iinyawo ukuya kumnxibelelanisi, usete unxibelelwano olude. Kodwa kukho imiqondiso ekhethekileyo yabasetyhini. Isenzo sisebenza sibuyele umva kwiinwele, kunye nokuchukumisa iinwele. Lo mfazi ubonakala ezama ukuqonda umntu ukuba akanamdla kwimbono yokuba ivelise. Esi senzo sikuvumela ukuba isebenze kwakhona ukukhululwa kweepheromones, oko kukuthi, izinto ezinobuhlungu ngokwesondo ezichaphazela umntu.
Umqondiso okhethekileyo ubukhulu, ugcwele imilebe yomqondiso ocacileyo wobuntu, kuba bahlukile ngobukhulu obukhulu kwimilebe yabantu. Abanye abantu basetyhini bade benze inaliti ekhethekileyo yokugxininisa umahluko onjalo kwaye bathandeke ngakumbi kumadoda. Imilebe enejusi epheleleyo yenye ye-trump yesetyhini. Ukunyibilikisa ngamathe okanye imilebe yegloss yenza umfazi emehlweni endoda engenantlonelo. Ukudlala isihlangu esinesiqingatha se-suble sithetha malunga nemvakalelo eyolileyo, ehlaziyiweyo yomfazi. Umthambo onjalo uyakwazi ukonwabisa amadoda amaninzi, nangona bengakuqondi nokuba kwenzeka ntoni kubo.
Umtsalane wamadoda uyakonwabela umnini wesifuba esimangalisayo. Ke ngoko, namhlanje, imisebenzi yokwandisa ibele izisa iikliniki zeenkolelo ezahlukeneyo. Kungatsho ukuba ibele likhonza njengenjongo echazwe ngokucacileyo - ngokwesondo. Ukunxiba ngentambo enkulu kunye nokukhulisa i-bramu iqinisa isikhundla esinjalo ngenxa yokuncancisa. Abaphandi bafumanise ukuba ixabisa ibhinqa eli-5 cm ukuba lixhase ngoncedo lokugqobhoza, kuba luba lula ukubamba imoto kwindlela enkulu.
I-hipsing "yokuhamba-hlula" isebenza kakuhle. Lo ngumqondiso womhlaba ocekeceke obhinqileyo, esetyenziselwa intengiso yokuphucula ukuthengiswa kweempahla kunye neenkonzo. Njengoko ubona, kwi-arsenal yabasetyhini linani elikhulu lamaqhinga.
Umfazi ulungile ukwazi ukuba ukuze atsale umntu, akakho kwaphela ukuba mhle kwindalo, nangona ubuhle, kunjalo, kumnika iingenelo kwimilambo. Ibhinqa lifuna nje ukondla imiqondiso yokuba inokufumaneka. Kungenxa yoko le nto abanye abafazi abangahlukanga ngobuhle bokwenyama, akukho kuthatha i-caliers. Amadoda atsala ngaphezulu kwabasetyhini abafihliweyo kunokuba banomtsalane emzimbeni. Unokufunda indlela yokuthumela imiqondiso oyifunayo, eya kuthi ibukeke inyani.
Kodwa ibhinqa ngalinye kufuneka likhumbule ukuba kuqala kufuneka luthathe la madoda, emva koko loyisile ngeempawu zakho zangaphakathi zangaphakathi. Kule meko, kukho ithuba lokuba iqabane liza kuhlala kunye nawe ixesha elide kwaye alizukuzabalazela ngcono.