Ulimi lwe-Teleport luwukubonakaliswa kwangaphandle kwesimo somuntu singokomzwelo. Ukuze uqonde ulimi lwethelevishini, kufanele uqonde isimo esingokomzwelo somuntu ngesikhathi sengxoxo, yizwa okushiwoyo futhi unaka izimo lapho ingxoxo eyenziwa khona. Lokhu kuzokuvumela ukuthi uhlukanise amaqiniso kusuka ekuqageleni, okungokoqobo kusuka ekucabangeni. Senza iziphetho ngokushesha ngobungani nokukhanga ngokocansi kwabantu abangabazi futhi kuvame ukwenza iphutha. Kepha uma sihlolisise ngokucophelela isayensi njengolimi lwethelevishini, bangase bakwazi ukubona izinhloso eziyiqiniso zomuntu, babengeke bavumele amaphutha abalulekile futhi ngabe bahlonipha inqubo yokuyenga ekupheleleni. Ukubuka kwakhe okubalulekile kwabelana ngengqondo eyaziwayo ngokozazi u-Allan Piz, osanda kuqhuba umhlangano wabahlonishwayo.
- Allan, kuziphi izimo zokuphila isayensi yakho ewusizo?
- Ezimweni lapho umuntu ekhuluma khona into eyodwa, futhi ukuthinta komzimba kukhuluma ngomngane. Bheka umabonakude. Ukuze ukwazi ukulawula, kudingeka umzamo owengeziwe ngokungenakuqhathaniswa. Ezimweni ezingezinhle, uvala izandla zakho, thatha okulolo lapho uzivikela khona ngangokunokwenzeka - lokhu kuyabonakala, futhi kunzima kakhulu ukuba umuntu azilawule ngalezi zikhathi. Akukulula ukuqonda nomuntu ngokoqobo, kepha mhlawumbe. Udinga ukufunda ukubuka nokuhlaziya ngokwengqondo okubonayo nokuzwa. Ngemuva kwalokho ungenza iziphetho ezithembekile futhi wenze izinqumo ezifanele.
- Ukuqonda Ulimi Lwamabonakuliselo, ungaqiniseka ngomuntu okuqamba amanga kuwe noma ukhulume iqiniso?
- Emzameni wokunquma ulimi lwethelevishini, kufanele unake amasiginali amathathu. Lolu wulimi ngempela nohlelo lwakho. Futhi ukuze uqonde isimo somuntu esithi shunyathiswa, udinga ukuba ubabheka okungenani abathathu noma abane, kepha hhayi bodwa. Ukusuka ekuxhumaneni okungelona iqiniso kuncike kakhulu - futhi udinga ukukuqonda. Lapho umuntu etshela amanga, elinye lezinkampani ezibalulekile lizokwandisa oxhumana nabo bomuntu kanye nomzimba womuntu - ukuklwebheka kwamakhala, kusonta izindlebe zendlebe, kushayele ikhanda. Futhi cishe ama-90% umbono wokuqala we-interlocutor mayelana nomuntu athuthuka emizuzwini emi-4 yokuqala. Uzoyiqonda - uzokuqonda konke okunye.
- Futhi ubani osho njalo amanga - owesilisa noma owesifazane?
- Abesifazane baziwa kangcono yimizwa yabameli, futhi-ke, bangakwazi ukukhohlisa abanye futhi baqambe amanga. Lokhu kuziveza ngisho nasekubusheni. Amantombazane amancane avame ukukhala enkampanini. Abesifazane bakhalela amadoda anobuciko obuningi. Abesifazane bakhangisa okuyinkimbinkimbi futhi kunzima, kanti amadoda athanda amaphutha kwaLamanga: "Bengiphuze ibhasi," "Ngibe sefoni yami ngangihlala ngebhethri futhi angikwazanga ukukushayela." Futhi abesifazane abakhangayo bakholelwa ngokushesha futhi kulula kunokungasebenzi.
- Kuyavela ukuthi lapho umuntu ekutshela imininingwane eyodwa, futhi umzimba wakhe usitshele omunye, singakwazi ukuthola kalula amanga ne-manipulator. Kepha ingabe umuntu okhohlisayo ngempela angazi ngokwakhe ngalokhu?
- Kunzima ukwamukela iqiniso lokuthi abantu bayizidalwa eziphilayo nje, cishe izilwane ezifanayo. Kepha, njengazo ezinye izilwane, silalela imithetho efanayo efanayo yemvelo. Kuyinto ye-biology elawula isenzo sethu, ukusabela, ulimi lokushukuma komzimba kanye nokushukuma komzimba. Into emangalisa kakhulu ukuthi abantu akuvamile ukuthi babone ukuthi ama-postures abo, ukunyakaza kanye nokushukuma komzimba Khuluma kukho konke abazama ukuveza amagama.
- Uma uthembela emzimbeni wolimi lomzimba, mhlawumbe umuntu uqonde ngokushesha lokho akuthandayo ngowesifazane noma, kunalokho, akuthandi?
"Buza noma yimuphi umuntu okufanele athathe isinyathelo sokuqala esisesimweni esifanele, futhi ngokuqinisekile uzophendula ukuthi le ndima ingekabantu. Kodwa-ke, zonke izifundo zifakaza ngakolunye uhlangothi. Abesifazane bangabaqali bokudlala ngothando ngamaphesenti angama-90%. Bakwenza ngosizo lwezimpawu ezinzima zolimi lwelimi oluthunyelwe kubantu abathakazelayo, futhi ngethemba lokuthi amadoda azothambekela ukubabona. Vele, kunabantu abalungele abesifazane ngemigoqo kanye namakilabhu, ngaphandle kokulinda "ukukhanya okuluhlaza", kepha, yize abanye babo bakwazile ukuthola umlingani, izinkomba zithi amaphesenti empumelelo akhona impela ephansi. Amadoda anjalo amane adlala inhlanhla. Noma yimuphi umuntu ozama ukujwayelana nowesifazane uvame ukukwenza, ukubamba isibonakaliso esithunyelwe solimi lwethelevishini. Ubonakala kuye ukuthi uthatha isinyathelo sokuqala, njengoba emuka kuye, hhayi okuphambene. Kepha abaqali bezimo eziningi zenhlekelele ngowesifazane. Ukuphendula umbuzo, ngokungangabazeki, indoda kumele ifunde ukufunda ulimi lomzimba wesifazane futhi iyisebenzise ngekhono, igxile kwizimpawu ezithunyelwe.
- Yimaphi ukuthinta okukhethekile akhuluma ngokutholakala kwabesifazane, nokuthi ungawuvota kanjani umuntu ngokuthinta okulula?
- Abesifazane basebenzisa ukushukuma okufanayo okuyisisekelo kokukhulekelwa amadoda. Balungisa izinwele zihlobene nezingubo, thumela izindlu noma izinyawo ku-interlocutor, setha ukuxhumana okude kokubuka. Kepha kukhona nezimpawu ezikhethekile zabesifazane ezikhangayo. Isenzo sisebenza emuva ukuze sishaqele izinwele, futhi thinta izinwele. Owesifazane ubona sengathi uyazama ukuqonda indoda ukuthi ayinandaba nombono wokuthi uyayikhiqiza. Lokhu kushukumisela kuvumela ukuthi kusebenze ukukhishwa kwama-pheromones, okungukuthi, izinto ezinamahloni ngokocansi ezithinta umuntu.
Isiginali ekhethekile inkulu, igcwele izindebe ziyisibonakaliso esicacile sobufazi, ngoba bahluke kakhulu ngosayizi ezindebeni zabesilisa. Abanye besifazane benza ngisho nemijovo ekhethekile e-collagen ukugcizelela umehluko onjalo futhi bakhange ngokwengeziwe kwabesilisa. Izindebe ezigcwele ezinamanzi zingelinye lamacilongo abesifazane. Ukuthambisa ngamathe noma izindebe ezicwebezelayo zenza owesifazana emehlweni owesilisa akanakuphikwa ngokocansi. Ukudlala isicathulo esinama-Half-fredged futhi ukhuluma ngesimo sowesifazane esizolile, ophumule. Ukushukumisela okunjalo kuyakwazi ukujabulisa amadoda amaningi, yize azange aqonde nokuthi kwenzekani kubo.
Ukuheha okukhethekile kwabesilisa kujabulela umnikazi wesifuba esihle kakhulu. Ngakho-ke, namuhla, ukusebenza kwebele kwebele kuletha imitholampilo yenhlangano yenqwaba. Kungashiwo ukuthi isifuba sisebenza njengenhloso echazwe ngokuphelele - ngokobulili. Ukugqoka ngentambo ejulile nokukhulisa amabele ama-bras aqinisa isikhundla esinjalo ngenxa yokuncelisa ibele. Abaphenyi bathola ukuthi kubiza umfazi we-5 cm ukuze wandise ukugcwala ngosizo lokugqama, ngoba kuba kabili kalula ukubamba imoto emgwaqweni omkhulu.
Isiginali esithi "Ukhalo olushisayo" lusebenza kahle. Lesi isiginali yokuthandana kwabantu besifazane, okuyiminyaka emikhulu esetshenziswa ekukhangiseni ukuthuthukisa ukuthengiswa kwezimpahla nezinsizakalo. Njengoba ubona, emgqeni wabesifazane inani elikhulu lamaqhinga.
Owesifazane muhle ukwazi ukuthi ukuze ahehe indoda, ayidingekile nakancane ukuba abe muhle ngokwemvelo, yize ubuhle, kunjalo, umnika ezinye izinzuzo phezu kwemifula. Owesifazane udinga nje ukukwazi ukondla amasignali ukuthi angatholakala. Kungakho abanye besifazane abangahlukaniswa ngobuhle bomzimba, akukho okukhishwa kuma-caraliers. Amadoda adonsela ngaphezulu kwabesifazane abangabizi kunokuba bathandeke ngokomzimba. Ungafunda kahle ukuthi ungazithumela kanjani amasiginali owathandayo, azokwandisa ukuthandwa kwakho.
Kepha owesifazane ngamunye kufanele akhumbule ukuthi okokuqala udinga ukuheha ukunakwa kwamadoda, bese ukunqoba ngezimfanelo zakho zangaphakathi zengqondo. Kulokhu, kungenzeka ukuthi umlingani aqhubeke nawe isikhathi eside futhi ngeke alwele okungcono.