Akukho mfihlo ukuba enye yezinto ezisisiseko zolwalamano oluhambelana nentembeko. Kwaye ixabisa enye yeehafu ukuba ziqale ukuthandabuza iqabane lakhe, nkqu nemvakalelo elula ayiyi kukwazi ukukubamba ixesha elide. Iingcali zengqondo zikholelwa ukuba amadoda anzima ngakumbi ukujamelana nemvakalelo yokuthandabuza kwiqabane labo, kwaye ke amadoda anomona anomona anomona anomona anomona ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba iqabane alizi ukuba liqhubana nesiqingatha sesibini esinesiqingatha, idla ngokuziphatha ngeempawu ezimbi, kodwa oku akunjalo. Sigqibe kwelokuba sazi ukuba zeziphi iimpawu ezithetha ngokulahleka kancinci kwentembeko yokuthemba.
Iqabane liqala ukulawula ubomi bakho
Unomona akasayi kuvumela oko ebomini bakho ngesiganeko isifundo sokuqina. Qiniseka ukuba ifowuni yakho, iinethiwekhi zentlalo kunye neepokotho ziqinisekiswa liqabane ngaphezulu kwesinye. Ukongeza, bonke abantu abangena isangqa sakho sonxibelelwano kufuneka "bavunyiwe" kwisiqingatha sesibini, kwaye rhoqo iqabane lenzela imida yonxibelelwano lwakho nabanye abantu. Umntu uza kuzama ukwenza yonke into ukuze isangqa sabahlobo babo sinciphile, kuba xa abantu benganele, kulula ukuzibalawula. Uqhelekile?
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Iqabane lihlala lizi ukuba uphi
Enye indlela yokulawula, ethatyathwa yikhwele, njengokukhathazeka. Iza kuhlekisa: Unokufuna ukuba umxelele ngendlela yakho yemihla yehlabathi yazo zonke iinkcukacha, kwaye ukuba, makube le fowuni, Isikrelemnqa asinakufikeleleka. Ekuqondeni kwakhe, kufuneka uhlale unxibelelana.
Iqabane liphilile ngezenzo zakho
Ngokulandela ngokulandela kwinto yangaphambili. Ukuba iqabane lisilele ukukufikelela, awuyi kuba nako ukumcacisela ukuba kutheni le nto yenzekile, nokuba zeziphi izizathu zakho: Sele "eqonda." Ukungahoyi 'inkathalo', unesizathu sohlaziyo ngokungahloneli uqobo kwaye uza kwinqanaba lokuba isiqingatha sityholwa ngokuvukela. Ukuba entlokweni yakhe "ishushu ngokupheleleyo", akukho zizathu ziya kukunceda, kuba ingxaki yengozi ye-Endeled ikwindawo enesaqhwithi.
Iqabane liya kubeka phambili iimfuno
Njengoko sele sifumanise, amaqhinga aphambili omonela - ukulawula kunye noxinzelelo. Kufanelekile ukuba ukrokrela ukungathembeki, iqabane liya kuqala ukunyanzelisa, kwaye kwifomu exineneyo, ekuphelisweni kwazo zonke iindlela zonxibelelwano nomntu ajongayo ngokungakhathali ukunxibelelana nawe. Iya kufuna utshintsho kwinombolo yefowuni, ukunxibelelana nendoda ngefom enzima, kwaye kaninzi kwenzeke kungekuphela nje kubahlobo bakho, kodwa nentsapho: Izalamane ezisondeleyo, ukuba azithathanga abangakuchaphazeli ukuba angathanda njani. Kule meko, kubalulekile ukubonisa ubunzima kwaye ungazenzi imvume, khumbule, ukuba umntu uyaqonda ukuba ubhekiswa ngokulula kwi-guysicals ecaleni kwakhe, kuya kuba ngaphezulu kokuthanda kwakhe. Sukucinga ukuba umntu uya kuyilungisa, njengomgaqo, ayenzeki. Nje ukuba uqonde ukuba ubudlelwane buyekile ukuzisa uvuyo, kwaye awunakuphila ngokuzolileyo ecaleni kweqabane lakho, cinga ukuba ufuna ubudlelwane bakho.