Vumelani, kusoloko kunzima ukuqonda ukuba ingakanani indoda eqalisiweyo, kuba engasoloko ekhawulezisa ukuba abonise iimvakalelo, esoyika indlela awayesabela ngayo. Nangona kunjalo, sazi iindlela eziqinisekisiweyo zokwenza indoda, nokuba ayibonisi ngokukhawuleza kwizenzo zakho. Sifunda kwaye sisebenzise ezo ndlela nakwiindlela zikarhulumente.
Myeke
Indoda ngokukhawuleza iyaphela ukuba ubomi bakho obusondeleyo bungangqinelani kwintlungu: ngokuhlwa, isidlo sangokuhlwa, silindelwe kwilinen kwaye ekugqibeleni sinesondo. Ukuba lixesha elide kubudlelwane, ayiphazamisi ifudumeleyo yabo, kuba le nto izama "ukunceda" iqabane lakho ngosuku xa uceba ngokuhlwa ngokunzulu. Imvakalelo ye-voltage iya kugcina imincili yayo elula kwaye yenze ubushushu obuyimfuneko kwelona xesha lifanelekileyo. Yinike ukucinga ukuba udlale.
Ungalibali ngevumba elimnandi
Ngaphandle kwento yokuba amadoda athi "athanda amehlo", azinakuhlala engenamdla kwi-aroma, enxulunyaniswa nebhinqa labo. Ngaba unawo amanzi ale ndlu yangasese oyithandayo? Ungalibali ngaye xa uceba ukucela umngeni kumnqweno oyindoda. Ngokutsho koochwephesha bezengqondo, amadoda yeyona nto ilungileyo kuyo yonke i-vanilla kunye ne-musk ngoomoya ababhinqileyo, ke siyakucebisa ukuba ugcine ivumba elinamacandelo, ukuba awunakukhetha. Ukufezekisa ifuthe eliphezulu, ukubeka iziqholo phambi kwendoda yakho: Intshukumo yecala elihle yesandla ihamba ngentamo kunye ne-geline ... ilungiselelwe ukubamba inkangeleko yovuyo.
Yiya kuphela emva kokuseka unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo.
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Ukwenza ukuncoma
Nawuphi na umntu uyakuvuyela ukuba umntu obhinqileyo uya kuncoma. Myeke agcine umbono ozolileyo, kodwa wazi, kwi-sharhigh, uyajenyaza i-fan yebhola, ebhiyozela uloyiso lweqela lakhe. Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu, ukuba wenza i-conlimen kule ndawo, ebaluleke kakhulu kuye, umzekelo, umntu osweleyo, uhlala efuna ukuva malunga nemiphumo emihle, kwaye ngenxa yoko uhlobo lweqabane lakhe. Umzuzu obalulekileyo: Ukuncoma kufanele, kungenjalo akukho ngqondo kumazwi akho, indoda iya kuziva iqhinga. Ngokuqinisekileyo indoda iya kufuna "umvuzo" ngamazwi amahle kwidilesi yakhe.
Musa ukoyika ukuchukumisa
Mhlawumbi eyona ndlela yokulibazisa inkanuko kukuchukumisa okungathandekiyo. Unxibelelwano lomzimba kufuneka lugqitywe lunxibelelwano lwakho lwemvakalelo ngalo mzuzu. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uqala nje ukuba uqaphele omnye komnye, yiya kwisondo kwimihla yokuqala ayisoloko isengqiqweni: Indoda inokubangela umdla. Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuseka ukuqhagamshelwa ngokweemvakalelo, ngaphandle kokuba isondo lingaguquki kwi "Flat" yokunxibelelana ngokwasemzimbeni nale nto ayiyi kukuzisela ulwaneliseko lokuziphatha. Zive ukhululekile ukubonisa ukudlala, kodwa musa ukugoba ukuba ungakulungele ukwabelana ngesondo ngokungalindelekanga.