Ungathetha nge-mission kunye nenjongo yomfazi ngendlela eyahlukileyo. Inokuba ngumntu osebenza naye, intombi, umfazi, iintanda, dade, into yokuvuma nokuxelisa. Olu luhlu lunokuqhubeka.
Nangona kunjalo, kuthetha ukuba yinto entle, umhlobo, ilungele, ungaphoswa ngumbala onzulu womfazi. Kwi-Vedas yakudala yaseIndiya, igama elithi "Deva" laguqulelwa ekubeni lisuka eSanskrit 'njengobuthixo ". Kuyakhankanywa ukuba lo mfazi uziva enzonzobileni kunendoda, ingqondo yakhe ibukhali, kwaye indalo yokuzisela nokusinda inika unyamezelo. UThixo wanika umfazi isipho sikaThixo - ubunyulu, ukuze kungakwazi ukumelana nezilingo kunye nokuthambisa. Inyanga nguMzimba wasemazulwini, amandla anika umntu obhinqileyo. Ukusuka kwixesha lakhe lobusuku, ibhinqa lifumana ukwahluka, inkanuko, iphuhlise intuindition. Umfazi uphendula kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo, uthintela ukungqubana nengxabano, kanye njengamaza olwandle eze, aphoswa ngu-sushi. Ubudlelwane bomfazi onendalo abuthetheleleke, akuyonyani ukuba i-biornyth yayo ilungelelaniswe ngeNyanga. Unxibelelwano nendalo lubonakaliswa kwinqanaba leemvakalelo, iimvakalelo, ngokwemvelo zokuzikhusela nokuqhubeka. Ilungelo lookhokho bethu abangakhange baphembelele imeko yabasetyhini, befundisa iintombi zakhe ukuba bazingenelele ekukhuseleni i-Nations ekugxilwe kuyo. Ukususela ebusaneni, amantombazana azikhuselekile, uHolly kwaye etyhafile. Iintombi zikaDarm zanika izipho, zithenge iimpahla ezibizayo. Ukusukela kwiminyaka encinci, kwasekwa indalo ekhethekileyo, amandla okuthatha indalo yabasetyhini ngesidima.
Umfazi sisiko lokulungelelanisa apho inkqubo yexabiso lentsapho yenziwa khona. Kuyo enoxanduva lokuba usapho lwayo, zeziphi izinto ezimaseko zokuziphatha eziya kugqithiselwa kubantwana. Ukuzola, umfazi olileleneyo unokubonelela ngamandla ayo amandla okukhula, akuba nempumelelo. Kuphela umfazi onokunika ubomi. Kwaye lixesha lokukhulelwa kangangokuba afuna ukhathalela, uthando, ingqalelo, inkxaso nothando. Kufuneka ilungiselele indoda. Amandla akhe ahlukile, njengelanga, eliza kufudumeza, lisasaza ubumnyama, kodwa inokuthi itshise, indoda ithe tye, ayoyiki izenzo ezisebenzayo, ayoyiki ukungqubana. Nangona kunjalo, kusesiseko soku sivumelana phakathi kwemigaqo yamandla enomdla. Khumbula ukuba i-chie-yang fus, i-amandla ezimbini ezisisiseko zinxibelelana kuyo - amadoda nebhinqa.
Owona msebenzi uphambili womfazi kukuvumelana nokuvumelana noxolo kwintsapho yakhe. Umfanekiso kama uma ugqiba kwelokuba ubuntu bomntwana, ayibalulekanga, uNyana okanye intombi. Kodwa kwinkulungwane yamashumi amabini anesithathu, ukuze afezekise injongo yakhe ngomfazi akuthethi ukuba anciphise ulawulo loqoqosho kunye nokuzalwa kwabantwana. Ukuba kuyakwazi ukuba luncedo eluntwini ngaphandle kokuphela kwabo basondeleyo, ke inokwenziwa.
Ukuba iminqweno yabasebenzi, umnqweno wokuziqonda uqala ukuphembelela isibakala sokuba umfazi unengxaki yokubambisana nolwalamano, kufanelekile ukuba acinge ngomsebenzi wabo wokuqala. Injongo yomfazi-ukwanda, ukuhlakulela, qhubeka, ukhathalele, gcina kwaye unike. Ukuba ufikile kweli lizwe umfazi, oko kufanelekile ukuyikhumbula ngakumbi - esi sisipho sendalo.
Ibhinqa alifanele libe yimqambi, kodwa ukufundisa iqabane lakhe, kwaye phi kwaye phi kwaye phi na " Inyanga inika umfazi ukuba bhetyebhetye kwaye ukuhamba, kwenza ukuba kwenzeke ukuba bafune iinjongo hayi, kodwa ubulumko.
Indawo yokufikelela yenyani yolonwabo, inothando kwaye intanda. Amandla omfazi ngobuthathaka bakhe, kutheni ungasebenzisi amathuba okuba ngumfazi, kuba indalo yasisa kweli mandla?