Iingcinga zakho kunye nento oyithethayo kunye nabanye abantu bomelele kunazo unokucinga. La mabinzana achaphazela isenzo sakho kunye nesiphumo sakho. Ihlwempu lahlukile kwiingcinga zabo, njengabaqeqeshi bobuqu abaqeqeshiweyo. Nanga amabinzana amathandathu angaze athethe abantu abaphumeleleyo:
"Lo ngumgca omnyama"
I-vera koko ilungiselelwe umhlaba wonke kulungiselelwe wena lukholo kubukho bobomi "omnyama" ebomini. Ngengcinga enjalo uya kuhlala ubona i-gore kwaye utsala umdla ebomini bakho. Endaweni yoko, zama ukucinga malunga nobunzima obuthile njengemvavanyo oluncinci. Jonga le meko kwaye wenze ngendlela efanayo. Yiba nombulelo ngento yokuba umhlaba uninike ithuba lokuzama namandla akho. Ukuba indalo ikunike uvavanyo olunjalo, oko kuthetha ukuba woyisa ngamandla. Thatha ukusilela njengamava obuninzi okuya kukunceda uqhubeke.
"Le asiyonto yam"
Ngokwesiqu sakho kufuneka sibe tyala. Abantu abaphumeleleyo bayazi ukuba yonke into eyenzekayo kwishishini labo ihambelana nezenzo zabo. Oku akunakwamkelwa kwisisombululo sexesha elifanelekileyo okanye ukubala okungachanekanga. Ngayiphi na imeko, ukuba unengxaki, uyazi isigqibo. Ukudubula kubekiwe umntu, uphosa uxanduva komnye umntu. Kwaye le yindlela endinokuyikhokelela kwinjongo oyifunayo. Awunakho ukulawula i-10% yezinto ezenzeka ebomini. Umzekelo, imozulu, utshintsho lwehlabathi kuqoqosho njalo njalo. Gcina ugxininiso kwinto onokuyitshintsha ebomini bakho. Yonke into isezandleni zakho, okuthetha ukuba impumelelo ixhomekeke kuwe kuphela.
Uqonde umntu, emva koko abanye bayakukholelwa kuwe
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"Ndiza kuzama"
Abantu abaphumeleleyo ngokwabo bakhetha into abaza kuyenza, kwaye emva koko baqhubeke. Ibinzana elithi "Ndizakuzama" kuthetha ukuba lo msebenzi awukwisinto kwangaphambili. Ukuba ayibalulekanga, yiyeke kwaye ungazenzi. Kungcono uthi "ndizakufumana indlela" okanye "andizukuyenza le nto, kodwa ndicebisa ...", apho ukhoyo, okanye u-Hayi.
"Masilinde kwaye ubone"
Ilinde into-ayisiyiyo eyona nto ichanekileyo. Abantu abaphumeleleyo abalindelanga nantoni na, bayenza kwaye bafumane iziphumo, njengoko beqonda ukuba bonke baphantsi kwamandla. Umhlaba awumi. Ukuqwalaselwa okungenayo akuyi kudlala isandla sakho. Ukongeza, inokungena kumkhwa wendlela ekunzima ukuyisusa. Yenza uluhlu lweminqweno, khawucinge ngekamva lakho. Cinga ukuba ungalufumana njani umntu owufunayo. Bhala isicwangciso njengoko uya kufezekisa iinjongo. Kwaye qaphela ukuba kuphela ulawula ubomi bakho.
"Ayisoze isebenze"
Abantu abaphumeleleyo abazithembileyo kubuchule babo abayamkeli izimvo zabanye. Bayazi ukuba i-vislethroughts ihlala imiphumo yemibono yabo bangakholelwa kuyo. Abantu abaphumeleleyo abayi kuvavanya izimvo, baya kuqalisa ukubuza imibuzo yokutya kwimbono ukuze bayiqonde. Ukuba umbono awudubuli, abantu abaphumeleleyo abayi kuchulumancisa umntu. Bahluke imibono yabanye? Zibuze ukuba kutheni kuyenzeka. Mhlawumbi ukhangela ngenkcitho umntu ukusuka endleleni okanye ukhuthaze umbono wakho.
"Akulunganga"
Abantu abaphumeleleyo ngamagorha bobomi babo, hayi amaxhoba. Bakholelwa ukuba akukho meko "zingalunganga". Endaweni yokukhalaza ngobomi, bafuna iindlela zokufumana imeko. Abantu abaphumeleleyo babona ukungaphumeleli njengethuba lokufumana amava kwixabiso elincinci. Baqinisekile ukuba kungekudala baya kuthatha ngaphezulu kokulahleka. Amagama akho neengcinga zakho niphila ngayo, njengoko usebenza, oya kuba kwixesha elizayo. Bukela into oyithethayo, hluza ulwazi, chaza imikhwa ebonakalayo, cinga ngokuqinisekileyo kuyo nayiphi na imeko kwaye wazi ukuba yonke into isezandleni zakho kuphela. Phumelela!