Kungatsho ukuba kwixesha lethu ukuthandana kwiindawo zenzeka rhoqo kunokonwaba. Nangona kunjalo, abantu abaninzi basabhengeza i-stereotypes ukuba akunakwenzeka ukufumana iqabane kubudlelwane obuqinileyo kwi-Intanethi. Ebomini ukuba bathandana, kukho izinto ezininzi ezimbi, nangona kunjalo, njengezibonelelo ezingenakuphikiswa- siya kubalisa ngazo.
Pros:
Kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhethe. Iindawo zokuthandana zinenzuzo: unokukhetha amadoda afana nawe. Ukongeza, kukho ithuba lokuhambelana namadoda aliqela ngaxeshanye, kwaye emva koko uthathe isigqibo-ukuba uhambe kunye nabo ngomhla wokwenyani okanye hayi.
Ukuzihlola kovavanyo. Vumelani xa iyure nganye ubhala amadoda ambalwa akhethayo- kumnandi. Ngapha koko, kwi-Intanethi, amadoda azive kancinci, kwaye ke abayi kugcinwa ngenxa yokuncoma.
Kukho ixesha lokucinga. Ukunxibelelana ne-Intanethi, unokuhlala "uphume" kwincoko nomntu onokwenzakala ukuba ucinga kwaye unike eyona mpendulo. Ewe kunjalo, akufuneki wenze ngathi ungomnye umntu kwaye uyifumane amabali ukonwabela indoda, kodwa ungathatha ikhefu kwaye uyikhawuleze kwaye uyikhanyele impendulo ukuze iluncedo kakhulu kuwe.
Kulula ukwenza umbono wokuqala. Ukuba kwimbalelwano yembalelwano ivumela ukuba kungabikho sinyabi kwaye ivumela iimpazamo zezinto ezichongiweyo, okanye unesithukuthezi, ungayeka ukuncokola, ungaze udibane ne-intanethi.
Wonke umntu unethuba. Kwindawo yokuthandana unokuyithanda "indoda enjalo engayi kwenza inkopheko, kuba sihlala sigweba imbonakalo. Kwi-Intanethi kukho ithuba lokuseta iifoto ezilungileyo, emva koko uqhagamshele i-charsma. Kwaye ngoku indoda engazange ibonwe ngaphambili ibonakala inomdla kakhulu kwihlabathi. Isebenza kwelinye icala.
Ungavumi ukonwaba ngenxa ye-stereotypes.
Imizuzu:
Ulindelo olungafunekiyo. Ihlala yenzeka rhoqo ukuba bhala kwakhona ngaphandle kokuyeka, uhlala unento onokuyixoxa ngayo, le ndoda ihlekisa kwaye ibonakalisa. Kwaye ngoku sele uzobe umtshato entlokweni yakho, emva koko uhlangabezana nakwenyani ... kwaye kuya kuba kuyo yonke into entle enjalo, njengoko ubucinga kuye. Kungenxa yoko le nto sicebisa ukuba singalibali imbalelwano, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukuya kumhla.
I-Scammers. Ngelishwa, amadoda amaninzi akayiqwalaseli imfuneko yokuthetha kwiphepha lemibuzo kwindawo malunga nobukho babantwana, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha abafazi. Intombazana inokudibana ne-casanova kangangeenyanga ezininzi, ngaphambi kokuba ifumane inyaniso. Ukujonga incwadana yokundwendwela ngomhla wokuqala wobukho besitampu thina, asicebise, kodwa akukho mntu uyalela uthungelwano kakuhle, ngakumbi ukuba umntu uyabhalwa kubo.
Ndikhangela izonwabisa ngobusuku obunye. Luvoto ukuba kwiindawo zokuthandana unokufumana kuphela intombi kuphela ngokuhlwa. Siyazi ukuba oku akunjalo, kodwa abanye babameli abangamadoda baqinisekile ukuba isondo kuphela kweyona ncwadi yeendwendwe eziseziza. Ngokubhalisa apho, nokuba ilungele ukubonelelwa ngama-Allice, kodwa ungazinikeli kubo: phosa nje uluhlu olungenakuthintelwa olungafunekiyo.
Kulula ukuxoka. Kwi-Intanethi unokubhala nantoni na, kwaye ubeke nayiphi na imifanekiso. Ke ngoko, ukuba uyathandabuza, iphepha eliyinyani okanye hayi, jonga uthungelwano lwentlalo. Ukuba ayincedi, unganikezela ngendoda ukuba ibize ividiyo - ukwala ubukhali obukhali kufuneka.