Ukubonakala komntwana kuhlala kutshintsha ubomi babazali bakhe, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ngokupheleleyo. Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabasetyhini abaza kuba ngumama kuphela abakulungele ngokupheleleyo izinto ezingakhange zifumaneke ngabahlobo babo nakwizihlobo zabo ezifunyanwa kwimbambano. Namhlanje siza kukuxelela ngento ongayifuniyo ukumangaliswa kumama oxambuleyo.
Umama oselula uyadinwa
Ukusasaza iteyiphu kwiinethiwekhi zentlalo, sibona iifoto zeentombi kunye neebhlogs kunye nabantwana bethu, kubonakala ngathi aba bafazi balawula bonke - i-veretise kuphela emntwaneni nakwintsapho yabo, kodwa bafumana ixesha labo. Khumbula ukuba "i-Instagram" kunqabile ukubonakalisa inyani. Aba bafazi batsha nabahlekisayo njengabo bonke abazali, abalali, batshise, baphule ecaleni nasekuhlaleni bawele ebhedini ukuba bakhathalele. Kwiminyaka embalwa yokuqala kunye nomntwana, olu luphuhliso oluqhelekileyo lweziganeko, kuba umntwana akakwazi ukuzikhathalela. Zilungiselele ukunamathela kwiinkulungwane kwaye zihlala ziyimeko ye-lemon "ekhutshelweyo".
Umama omncinci ufuna inkululeko
Abantwana banovuyo kusapho, ngakumbi ukuba ujongeka ecaleni. Ukuba ngumntwana, usuku olusondeleyo ngaphandle kwemihla, umntu obhinqileyo ngokwendalo ufuna ukufumana ixesha lokuzinyamekela kwaye sithembele. Kule meko, umyeni okanye amanye amalungu osapho ayeza kuhlangula, ukuba ulungile kwaye uthembele ubudlelwane nezalamane zakho, unokufumana ibhalansi phakathi kwempilo nezempilo yengqondo.
Fumana ixesha lakho
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Umama omncinci usenokuba nomsindo kumntwana wakhe
Kwaye kwakhona, intetho malunga nokudinwa. Njengakwicala, ukukhulisa kwaye ukukhathalele umntwana kucinywe kakhulu, ngaphandle kwenkxaso kunye nokuqonda kwabo bathandayo ukuba bangakwenzi. Amaxesha enzeka xa umntwana engakho kuphela, kodwa ebangela imvakalelo yokucaphuka, kwaye oku oko kungamoyiki, ungumntu ophilayo onomda wam weemvakalelo. Eyona nto iphambili kukungayigcini le mvakalelo ixesha elide kwaye ungabi nebhayisekile kuyo. Zama ukutshintsha kwaye uchithe ubuncinci isiqingatha seyure ukuthula ukuze uzisa iimvakalelo ngolungelelwano.
Umama omncinci uyadinisa
Bonke abantwana bahlukile: umntu akamvumeli abazali ebhedini, efuna ingqalelo, kwaye umntu ochasene nokunikela ngexesha labo. Xa ngeli xesha iba kakhulu, umama omncinci unokukhathazeka. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ixesha lakho lesimahla linokuthathwa ngokukhuselekileyo leminye imicimbi, imvakalelo yokuba nesithukuthezi ngexesha leklasi kunye nosana kufuneka linilumkise. Qalisa ukutshintsha kweendlela zakho zeveki yonke kunye nendlela eyahlukileyo kunye nomntwana, fumana ivenkile entsha yetoy, fumana ivenkile ethandwayo yetoy okanye usayine i-stroller yoomama, apho ungangena khona kwaye ufumane i-stroller abantu endibaziyo.