Ewe kunjalo, ukuba kwisibini asisiko ukuxoxa ngobudlelwane kwaye, ngokubanzi, sisombulule iingxaki ngencoko, akukho manyano yexesha elide linokuhamba kunye nentetho. Nangona kunjalo, iincoko zifanelekile, kuyinto ethile ekukhetheni imixholo yonxibelelwano emva kwesondo.
Sasicinga, kwaye emva kwayo yonke loo nto, emva kwesondo, ndifuna ukuthetha, kodwa ngamanye amaxesha iqabane lakho liyakhutyekiswa, kwaye awunakusiqonda isizathu. Ngapha koko, yonke into ilula: Kukho uluhlu lweendlela ezibekelwe ngokungqongqo akufuneki ziphakame emva kobuso. Masibone ukuba zithini izihloko.
Iingxoxo zekhaya, kufanelekile ukufumana elinye ixesha kunye nendawo
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Ukuvavanya izakhono zeqabane lakho
Awunguye umqeqeshi wokuzivocavoca, ofunda iwadi yakhe emva kokuqala okungaphumelelanga. Uqikelelo olungqongqo luhlala lubuhlungu ngentlungu yekratshi lomntu. Imizuzu yokuqala emva kwesondo ayifanelanga konke ukwenza loo ncoko. Ukuba awuyifanelanga mgangatho wesondo, khetha umzuzu omncinci oxakekileyo xa iqabane lakho alikhonzeki kangako.
Ingxoxo malunga neefreyimu
Ukuba ubona ukuba iqabane lifumane inqaku eliqela elingeyomfuneko, akukho mfuneko yokuba ivakalise ngayo "ebunzi" xa uguqulela umoya. Qaphela ukuba unokuphendula, ukuthuka kakhulu. Ke kutheni le nto ukuphatha umzuzu ngokuthuka xa unakho iqabane lakho ngobunono malunga ne-hipti uqhuba kusasa emva kobusuku obudibeneyo. Sebenzisa umzekelo.
Ungamkhumbuli ngento ayithandekiyo ukuva
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Ukuboleka
Ewe, seva nokuba i-quarchrels yesaqhwithi ihlala iphele kwisini esimangalisayo, kodwa akukho siko lokwenza isiko elisenyongweni. Kunokwenzeka ukuba akukho ezinye izinto ezikhoyo zendalo ziya kusebenza kwiqabane lakho, kwaye kuya kufuneka uhlala uhlala kwimeko yengxwabangxwaba ngelixa ulinde enye imbambano. Ewo mandla ochitha ekukhokeleni nasekukhangeni izitya, unokutyala imali ekubonakaliseni.
Sukuyihambisa le ndoda ithetha ngekamva
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Uthelekiso
Kuba indoda ayinanto imbi ukuba uqala ukuthelekisa nabantu obungavumiyo ukuba balale kuye. Iqabane alizicaphukisi iingcinga ukuba omnye umntu akwazi. Emva kwesondo, isihloko esinjalo sikubiza ngemvume ngemvume kokubini, kungenzeka, kuba uqwalasela umntu ongcono, kwaye wena, ngenxa yokuba ungayiqondi kakuhle into angabakhathaliyo ngayo.
Isondo njengeyona ndlela yokudibanisa kunye ne-blackmail
Indoda emva kwesondo yile, ungathi, ngenye iplanethi, ngenxa yoko, akafuni ukuxoxa ngemibuzo engathandekiyo enje: "Xa utshintsha iifestile kwindlu kamama, uyithembisile!" Nokuba ububudlelwane obunamandla, indoda iyakulinda ukusondelelana kwakho ngenkuthalo: Ngubani owaziyo ukuba sisiphi isihloko ofuna ukuxoxa ngakumbi. Ke ngoko, linda okungenani iiyure ezimbalwa, kude kube ziimvakalelo iimvakalelo.
Ingxoxo ye-Foggy Ikamva
Esi sihloko siyingozi kakhulu kwisibini esikuqala kuphela kobudlelwane. Indoda yakho isayazi ukuba icwangcisa intlanganiso elandelayo, kwaye sele umxelele, inja yawo inja iya kuhlala kwindlu yakho oya kuyiphosa kuyo kwinyanga ezayo. Ezo ngxobolo zithetha ngamadoda anesisongelo, linda ubuncinci isiqingatha sonyaka ngaphambi kokuba ubone ngeengcebiso zokwakha ubomi obudibeneyo.